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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel that one of my best mates that's a girl fancy's me. She has been trying to get me to enrol in certain sexual activities with her and i don't really swing that way. She been trying to flirt with my fella constinally telling him how 'hot' and 'good looking' he is and i know she is doing it to wind me up but what shall i do? HELLLLP
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reader, Confusedinthecity84  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Tell her that her behavior makes you uncomfortable and that you find it highly inappropriate. If she does not stop, you will no longer be her friend. Talk to your boyfriend and see if he will say the same to her. Try to remain calm and not to react in anger, no matter what she says or does to try to flirt with your boyfriend.
If the situation ever gets so uncomfortable that you can't deal with it, you should tell your parents or a teacher. Right now, it seems to me that your friend is dangerously close to sexual harassment, and she should probably know better.
Just don't let her immaturity cause you to get angry or depressed, or to try to retaliate. Remain strong, and be firm, calm, and nice. You don't have to put up with that sort of behavior.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (16 December 2007):
 You need to tell her straight, if she's not getting subtle hints to back off.
Also, it's not on to be flirting with your boyfriend. She needs to know the boundaries of your friendship!
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