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anonymous
writes: I been dating my Bf 6 months.I went through a bad divorce.I'm know dating and I haven't brought my 3 children into the picture yet.Should I wait a while to introduce my children to him?
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reader, pandueddy +, writes (17 December 2007):
really in many affairs this comes as a big challege, for sure it is not easy to tell yournew boy friend/girlfriend about your kids but try to relax feel confidentand discuss it with him, some said the erarly the better, I hope if he loves you he will not leave you because of your kids rather he will take them as sons and daughters, all the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): You didn't state if you think he is the one, or any hopes about a future. Children get attached quickly and can have disabilitating separation anxieties when adults leave and never look back. If you are not sure there is a permanent future with this man leave your kids out of it, until you are.
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reader, Full moon temptress1 +, writes (16 December 2007):
I think 6mths is sufficent time for you to get to know your boyfriend.So introduce him.Maybe bowling, or over a pizza would be good. Well done you for taking it slowly.
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