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writes:Hi,There's this boy in yr. 8 (I'm in year 7) who I have fancied since the start of term when we met - we catch the same train - and I thought I knew him pretty well.Last friday (today being sunday) I missed my train (I had Russian lessons til 4) and I went to the music room to get my stuff (my flute, music etc.) and he was there playing on the drums, with his mate. I just stayed there chating etc. until 25 past then we walked to the station, (His mate catches the same train as us) I was quite happy thinking that I'd have a nice chat with him when his mate got off at the stop before ours (We live in the same town) but when we got to the station there were these people there who knew This boy (Shall I call him Fred (Thats not his real name)) and I just thought "Ah, well." and that seemed to be that. When the train got in I found out that they were going on our train so we sat together; and this is the start of my problem.Everything was cool til the first lot got off and that left me, Fred and this Girl (Let's call her Gill) on our own. we started talking casually and Gill and Fred were flirting (I'm used to that, he flirts with everyone) and then they started annoying each other saying stuff about parties they'd been to and then Gill started saying "Dory!...Dory!...Dory!" and Fred blushed and said "I remeber more of that night than you think, but I wish I HAD been drunk!", I got scared because I didn't know what to do. I was fantasising furiously, Freds only 12 (He looks way older)- He can't have a sex life already????Any way, I was wondering if I should still sit with him on the train and hang out with him and such like, and that my imagination went in to overdrive? Sorry, I've just relized how long this is . What would you do if you were only 11 in this situation?????Please help,Hxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFound out today:He lost his virginity at a party with a 15 year old girl. I know evesdropping is wrong but the were sitting opposite me on the train.Well - at least I know now.It's funny though , like I knew he was a bit wierd, I've seen who he hangs out with, yet he will still sit with me and talk to me, a nerdy kid from year 7 who spends most of her time reading or writing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionErm, thanks for the advice...I amb still not sure because you said "Most" because he acts really mature and he has older sisters and he is really tall (Taller than me, and I'm tall).I'm just a bit worried because I've just started this shcool and don't want to be involved in a bad crowdCheersMiss Anon.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): THE GUY IS 12.
he does not have a sex life.
yeah as the other guy said he was probs just showin off to make you jealous cos he actually likes you back.
when i was that age i didnt have a sex life, i only had my first kiss 2 days ago! (im 14 btw) and i know a lot of guys my age, most guys start a real sex life at about 14, its usually guys doing stuff with slightly younger girls.
try n get to know the guy a bit and ask him like 'oh yeah waddid *girlsname* mean when she said dory eh?'
DO NOT SOUND LIKE YOU CARE A LOT.
just ask in a friendly kinda teasing way with a cheeky smile.
anyway hope it goes well for ya babe, good luck!
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (16 December 2007):
 To be honest, the thing he didn't want to remember was probably just a kiss, or making out with someone, or something like that. Most 12 year old boys don't have sex, even if they try to make it look like they do...
I think he was just showing off in front of you. Maybe he knows you like him and wanted to make you jealous. It was pretty stupid of him, because now you're having second thoughts.
You'll probably find out the truth one way or another... I hope it doesn't hurt you. xxx
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