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anonymous
writes:I been with my boyfriend for a year now. We have never had sex yet because we were taking this relationship slow. Now we are in love and we are ready to express that love to each other. Iam worried about one thing. Iam afraid he will not be able to fit inside me. You see, he is really big, like 10 inches when not erect and really thick. Yeah he is one of the blessed. Iam quite inexperienced. I have only had sex once before, so that leaves me really tight down there. Hes worried about this too. Is it possible for him not to be able to fit inside me? What should i do about this? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Heh...this is a problem I personally have faced quite a few times with various smaller or tighter girlfriends. :) I only ever met one girl who claimed it hurt because she was too small for me, but I think she was lying because she was afraid of getting pregnant and just wanted me out. Anyways...honestly, over time your body will adapt. It is way, way better to have a larger man than one that can't reach everything inside you. He can take special steps to help you, such as going down on you beforehand, and using his hands to massage you inside (which will help relax, lubricate and slightly widen you). He doesn't have to insert all the way, either...my girlfriend loves it when I only enter her 1/3 or 1/2 way in, and just move in gentle, short, slightly quicker strokes. Or the two of you can get lubricated, and just rub against each other down there without any penetration at all. I honestly think if you take it slow and work up to it, it will be very enjoyable and you'll be just fine.
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reader, LULU'S Advice  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 He certainly is blessed,and so are you to have him.If your anxious about making love then it will hurt because you'll be too tense.Make sure you are both ready,plenty of foreplay and baby oil or some other kind of lubricant.If you are both relaxed and just let it happen,then it shouldn't be too much of a problem.After all,a babies head comes out so a man's endowment should go in,with a little help. xx
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (16 December 2007):
 Like anonymous says the vagina is capable of catering for large sizes, like for instance during child birth. Also before you make love do lots of foreplay first, or even rub some ointment down below to make his entry abit easier.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): um.. I think it will be alright. you know that a woman's vagina bears a child. I thing that a head of a newly born child is thicker than every penis in the world. Just be courageous and try it.
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