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writes: I'm 16 and he's 20. He's a virgin, and very inexperienced with girls (he hasn't kissed anyone for 4 years). I've had lots of sexual experience, pretty much everything you can think of I've done it (but all with only one guy). Is this...ok? He's quite old and I'm quite young, and we have completely different sexual backgrounds. Oh yeah, and the guy I've gained all this experience from was one of his best mates, who was 18, and a bit of a player (I had an on/off relationship for a year)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): teach him, wot u know then learn together....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): In all honesty I hav more respect for your boyfriend especially if your bragging to people how much "sexual experience" you've had (a lot of experince with one guy - yeah right!).
Oh no, he hasn't kissed anyone in 4 years. I haven't snogged one girl ever and I'm 20! He probably practices on his hand like most guys do.
Sorry to sound a bit aggressive.
But heres something to think about: What would you rather have as a boyfriend, a guy who is attractive and is a player, or a guy who is fairly attractive, no sex experience but has a brain, can respect you and doesn't think about his dick 24/7. If it's the first one, you sound a bit shallow, as most respective girls I know would rather have a guy who is confident (even if he's nerdy) than one who is a bad boy. Hopefully your one of these girls.
Oh and one more thing, this ex of yours sounds like, what we call in the UK, a twat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Aside from your sexual experience, I feel that a 20 year old male virgin is too old for you to date, in the US, this 20 year old could be arrested for statutory rape because you are under the age of 18.
I think it is sad that you have done everything you can think of at the age of 16 even if it was with one guy....You seem to have the attitude that sex is a thing to be taught and that you want to now be the teacher....this is somewhat true in the context of a relationship, but you don't even have a relationship with this man, and already you are mostly interested in the sexual aspects of being with him because he is inexperienced sexually.
I say slow down, what is it you think you are going to gain by being this way other than an education in sex? Are you trying to be a professional at sex?
Concentrate on being friends first with your male partners, and if you become sexually intimate based on a true and loving connection, then sex will not be something to be taught but takes on a whole new dimension as an expression of deeper feelings, and amazingly it will be much more passionate and satisfying to you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): You say you've had lots of sexual experience, but I'm sorry dahlin, but i don't think one guy counts as lots of sexual experience.
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