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writes: Okay I have a bit of an ordeal atm. I just got back from holiday I had been away for a short while and i had missed my girlfriend quite a lot and wanted too come home early too see her. When I got back we had planned too see a movie together however she had her doubts about getting into it as it was an '18' and she is only 16 and didn't seem too keen about going soon. The film would have been taken off the cinema soon anyway and i didn't have time too goo see it in the week like she briefly suggested.She then said that she wanted too see me on sunday evening as she had college work too do and I was back saturday morning. I was a bit put out at this and dissapointed as i wanted too see her right away on the saturday and go cinema sunday. I had too accept this in a mature way however so as my mum and dad were going out they were passing the cinema i decided too go watch the movie myself as she was still at work.Her mum text me too see if i had a nice holiday however when my gf is at work she texts me too see what im doing, almost like shes the second girlfriend checking out my every move.She asked me what i was up too and instead of lying i said im out at the cinema seeing the film. Her mum obviously grassed too my gf and my gf went off crying and in a strop. She later phoned me at midnight explaining we 'need too sort this out' i was like 'sort what out?'. This probably sounds like the most pathetic thing ever and you're probably laughing.She was making me feel really bad and that i didn't wait too see the film with her and that she had been working while i was out watching a film and that all week she had missed me loads and she had missed me more than i had missed her because i was on holiday seeing new things and not really thinking about her.All this piled on me and crying while she said it I just couldn't understand so i explained why i went and she was like 'you sound like you don't care!' 'you have changed' in a sobby voice and it just seemed put on too make me feel bad. She made up a few things such as I didn't ask too see her on the saturday when i asked her twice and made me feel bad for not asking her.It's really getting me down im seeing her later and i'm quite nervous about it.Few main points i need covering:. Why her mum texts me and gets involved?. Why she cried over the fact i saw the film without her. Why she is manipulating meAm i in the wrong?Please explainThankss
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): okay dude..i dont get y the mother is txtin u...but i reckon ur girlfreind jus missd u loads..and she prob feels that u enjoy doing things without her such as ur holz n movie..even thooo she wasnt dat keen to begin with..to be honest with u..i reckon all she needs is a bit of lovin'..do sumit she enjoys..n spend sum quality time with her..n explain to her properly that u missed her loads...and that wen u went to the movies alone u thought she wuda bin ok as u thort she neva wanted to watch it...and jus say to be sure next time..i will properly ask u if u wna do sumit b4 i go ahed n do it myself..bu seriously..i reckon she missed u so much..n while she was stuck bak here..she imagined u havin loadsa sun widout her...jus sweeten her up..good luck..freind x x
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