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writes:I been talking to this guy for like two months we had sex about 7 times it like he only calls me on the weekends because he acts like he have so much going on because he hangs out side alot he told me he didn't have a girl friend and now I want more of his time and dont no how to ask I really want a relationship do you think its to late for that Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Keisha i think u should make a move act ur self around him if he doesn't like it he's not the wright guy for u and ask him questions like what kind of girls he likes and who knows u might get results.
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reader, keysha +, writes (30 October 2006):
keysha is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much for your help I think I will just move on with my life because i shouldn't have got him use to something I was thinking it would make him start likeing me more
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 October 2006):
 I agree with rhythmandblues. You've set up the situation where he's likely just too see you as sex-on-tap, and will have a hard time switching into a relationship.
Talk to him about it, and find out what he wants. He may actually want a relationship if you're lucky. If not, stop the sex. That might focus his mind! And if so, rewind the clock and start introducing romance. Make it clear what you want, what you will accept and what you won't.
As for how to ask... just ask... "where do you see this relationship going? Do you want more?" and see what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Why did you have sex with him before having a relationship? Calling you on the weekend to meet up for sex means he considers you a bootie call and not a girlfriend.
It may be too late for a relationship. Stop accepting his bootie calls, create competition by seeing other boys (not for sex but for a proper date) and be hard to get. If he is interested, he will call you for a proper date, don't accept anything else if you want to turn things around with this fellow.
Next time if you want a relationship, whithhold sex for as long as possible to keep the guy around longer and allow a friendship to grow and to test if he is truly interested in YOU.
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