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He never takes me anywhere because he says "I act weird". What should I do?

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Question - (29 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2006)
A female , *ostinaz writes:

is something wrong with me or him? been dating for over two years. waited for him while he went into the military, but since he's been home, it's like pulling teeth to get him to spend time with me. he says he won't take me to his company picnic, no questions asked. he wants to do whatever he wants whenever, but i am expected to work full time, take care of the kids and the house and never do anything else. he says he's embarrased of me because "i act weird" therefore never taking me out. i am an actractive 28 year old with a happy go lucky attitude and need a little enlightenment. should we split??

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 October 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntWow! What a slap in the face! I would definitely put my foot down and make him start taking you places. If he refuses then show him the door, dear. You are not his slave and deserve to be treated with honor and respect. Don't settle for less! Good luck.

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A female reader, xLEAHx United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2006):

xLEAHx agony auntWell hunny with your man having a attitude like that i think i would have been long gone ..for him to be embarrased to take you out to meet his coleagues saying you act weired is a insult, and he gets to do what he wants but to him you shouldn't have no life..its obvious that since his been in the millitary things have changed between you, his changed..maybe you should give him a ultimatum either he changes and treats you with the respect you deserve or you may as well call it a day..as this will eventually start tearing you apart..good luck in what ever you decide to do..

xLEAHx

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