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writes: i have been dating a man for over two years who i completely adore. i am divorced with two children, and would like to have a "complete" family again. problem is, that my bf isn't so bad to me, but always seems to demean, cut down, or try to punish my children. is there any hope, or will it only get worse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): What on earth are you thinking, dear? Sweety, don't let anyone hurt your kids. And don't sacrifice your beautiful children to make your man happy and to hold onto 'your' dream of a 'family'. Inviting him into your home to help you raise your children will not be a loving family environment..it will be a chaotic nightmare. And you children will suffer a lifetime of pain all because you want a dream of a family??. You can't eliminate change the reality of how bad this man is, for what he's doing to your children. But as a strong woman, you can avoid inviting this man into your home and bed. Do not be a permitter of abuse. You've identified this man as being demeaning and cruel to your children and you know it's wrong. Now it's your job is to extricate him from your life and that of your kids. Please remember, when you get stronger, there are a lot of wonderful men who would treat you and your children with respect. Value yourself and honor your responsbilities to protect your kids. They come first and foremost. Good luck dear and let us know how you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): This is very undesirable behavior. Terminate your relationship with this sicko; there is no cure for the problems he has.
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