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writes: i can't have anal sex with my husband it hurts me a lot and i bleed. is ther any solution for this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): Use lots of lubrication, obviously. Although if it hurts i really dont see a point in carrying on doing it purely to please your husband. Until he learns to do it properly, leave any sort of anal penetration safely on the back-burner! Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): Tell him that til he learns how to do it without hurting you, that he must substitute his tongue for his penis. If he has any sense, he'll do it, and you'll both be having fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Stop doing it all together if it is not comfortable and you bleed and you do not enjoy it....it is not a requirement that you have anal sex just because your man would like to do it. I would never have anal sex as it damages the rectum and is a great way to get vaginal infections among other more serious infections caused by the ecoli bacteria that enter into your bloodstream through the tears in the wall of your rectum's lining....I think it is disgusting for this reason, and why people do it is beyond me, especially when your rectum is intended as an out going orifice to rid youur body of waste and not an in going one, your body was not made to have a big penis inserted into your anus. But good luck with that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): I had the same problem when I first tried it. Lots of lube is very important, but I found the only way it wouldn't hurt is if I were to drink alcohol before hand. I know it's not ideal, but it works!
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