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writes: I've been seeing my bf (23) since the end of January. We both said i love you to each other, he said it first, i did it 2 weeks later in August. I feel like i fall more in love with him everyday, and I find it heartbreaking sometimes when we have to part. I'm only 22 and he's my first bf, and although i'm crazy in love with him, I'm starting to feel scared by it. I keep wondering if i'm going to end up with him and i can imagine being with him forever..im so comfortable with him. I get so scared though that maybe he'll find someone else somehow and i'm going to be left heartbroken. He's also has a job in aviation, so i worry constantly about his safety in the air. Am i being crazy here..maybe i should tone it down a notch? I'm just so happy with him and he tells me he's in love with me constantly too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Just enjoy what you have and don't for one moment look on the black side. You are going through the whole love process. We love them to pieces, worry about them, miss them like hell when they are not there, it's just GREAT!
ENJOY EVERY MOMENT.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (8 November 2006):
 Hey there,
What you are experiencing is completely normal when you find that one person whom you can see spending the rest of your days with and growing old with. Your heart feels like it it bursting and then all of a sudden you get very scared that it could all be taken away in a single moment.
Don't be scared sweetie, your BF obviously loves you very very much because he is always telling all the time. Just let the relationship run its course - don't try to force anything or force it to go anywhere, it will be what it is, if that makes sense.
People grow and change, especially in their 20s, but that does not mean that he will fall out of love with you/find someone else. If he truely loves you and is happy in a relationship with you, then he will stay with you. Don't be thinking the worst, think of the good! Think of what you have and how happy you are and how how lucky you are to be experiencing this kind of love that some people spend a lifetime searching for.
Enjoy what you have now and don't be worrying about his safety as you will drive yourself crazy! My BF is a truck driver and if I started worrying everytime he went on the road (as road accidents are much more frequent than ones in the air!) then I would lose my mind. Just relax babe and enjoy each other! xxx
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