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writes: My girlfriend and i have been together for five yrs. We both are in are early twentys and we have four kids together. The past four yrs we just fought and seperated now anything and everything my kids or i do upsets her a lot more. She's very controling and strong minded, everything has to be her way. She is a stay home mom and i work third shift. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Wow, four kids and in your early twentys, no the wonder she is the way she is.Has she had any youth? I feel for her, i would be depressed and tearing my hair out by now. Can you get anyone to have the kids for the weekend. Take her away, pamper her, buy her some flowers. I bet money is tight. I feel for you both. Kids are not easy, i know i have had three. They certainly don't help a situation. Make her feel special. Ok she is at home but do you help her around the house, with the kids??
Also if she is depressed do you think a trip to the doctors might help? I don't mean it in a bad way but she may just need a lift from some professional help. I hope you two can get things going ok. Best Wishes
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