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writes: friday jus gone..i broke up with my boyfreind of 3 years..we were friends long before we got together and decided to stay friends now..the thing is..i never wanted to break up with him (even tho it was me who ended it) i tried so hard to make things work..i guess we both did..bu now its over..i cant help feeling a lil angry inside..cz he hasnt once sed 'hey..we shud reconsider this'..i want him too..so badly...i dnt wna loose him...bu duz this mean..hes happy with situation? i jus dont get guys...argh! help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):
You want us to guess what the guy is feeling? He could be happy because this frees him up to date some hotties, or he could be regretful and is trying to maintain some dignity. Either is consistent with the facts you give.
Whats with this: "i tried so hard to make things work". It kind of sounds like you were working to change *him*, and that never good.
If you really are going to remain friends wait 3 weeks minimum and then discuss it calmly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Guys are so different from us. Why did you split? Don't expect them to come running, they are basically lazy buggars!!!
Can you maybe spend at least one month without getting in touch with him. Backing off completely, hopefully by then he will miss you like crazy, phone you and ask you back out cos he had just realised what he is missing, if not before then. If he doesn't get in touch then move on. There's loads of gorgeous guys out there.
Keep your dignity!!! Best Wishes
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