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writes: Dear Cupid,I've been with my bf for 2 weeks now, we've both liked each other for ages and only just got together. But I feel like I saw more of him when we weren't together, I haven't seen him out of school at all since our first date and he never calls or texts me, he did a bit during the first week but he hasn't replied to any of my texts at all now. I don't know if I'm just being selfish or what but it really hurts that he doesn't even bother to make time to see or speak to me, he used to say how much he liked me but I don't feel like he does at the moment, and I should be happy that I'm with him but I don't feel like I am so its hard to. I'm really confused now and I still don't know where I stand with him. Could he just be busy or is he maybe having second thoughts? What should I do?Thanks I appriciate the help.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (9 November 2006):
 hello
i think thats a million dollar question i would like to believe most women have the same question as you bcos i do, its when a guy tells u he likes and u tell him u cant have a relationship until he stops drinking heavily nad u know what he will stop when u start dating few weeks down the line he is back in the bar stoel what is that all about? u must make peace with it and tell urself that maybe its bcos he got what he always wanted so he doesnt have to impress u anymore but what he forgot is that he has to keep u, maybe he needs a reminder. he needs to know how u feel and how he made u feel when he was giving u all the attention bfore u were together. and if u also want to keep him learn to be independent and do other things that can keep ur mind busy otherwise u will start feeling lonely and needy and men dont like clingy women. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): This is supposed to be the honeymoon of the relationship and the time you can't get enough of each other.
I think you need to make the final effort to speak with him, person to person would be better.
Tell him how you feel......don't go over the top.
See how he responds and what his actions are afterwards.
That should answer your question and allows him to explain himself, just in case there is something else going on.
If you do end up breaking up with him, then you won't have any regrets cause you had all the information you needed to make an informed decision.
good luck with it all.....relationships are not meant to be hard work, but requires effort by all parties.
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