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writes: Hi I’d been in a long distance relationship with a guy for about 10 months everything was going ok and we used to see each other every month then about 2-3 months ago we started continuously fighting and I always wanted to sort out the problems but he always wanted to avoid mentioning it then it got really bad and he never even wanted to talk to me or see me when I went back home he used to only call me when I got back to where im living now and make some excuse why he couldn’t see me and I forgave me but he started acting weird again then I asked him over email if its over between us and he never reply so I took it as being over and stopped contacting me now about 2 weeks ago I went home and he came to see me not thinking we broke up and acting normal I was confused and told him how I felt and told him we cant go on and we have to break up he told me he felt I was being too pushy and that he does not want to end the relationship he will change but the words came out of my mouth and I couldn’t take it back I told him sorry and I regret it and can we try again he saed it looks like I already made up my mind and we cant go back he says we need some space and maybe one day we will be together again im so depressed and cant stop thinking about him or get over him is it ok for me to hang on to hope that we will get back together or should I give up.Thanx anon
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Well its definatley possible, it really depends on what you really had, and what type of person he is. SPace is a bit different from him completley ignoring you. but now that you have space you have to step back and think if you really wanna be with someone who doesnt actually wanna talk about problems properly, you may think its all your fault, but its a two way street, if he really wnats to be with you he would miss you and change that part of himself for you, and whatever you did that pissed him off you would change too. All i can suggest is either talk to him, about it, or move on, trya nd be positive and when he wants to talk he will, but u need to not be depressed in the meantime ok? i mean he didnt liek you enough to be with you right now, so he cant be worth being totally depressed over. But do talk to him :)
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reader, sexyapples99 +, writes (8 November 2006):
 You have to ask yourself have you fallen for this guy?? If the answer is yes and you were meant to be together, you will stay friends with contact on the phone. In other words i think if the time is right and he sees that you love him and are willing to wait, he will come back.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (8 November 2006):
 hi
I think ur bf just cant make-up his mind and wants to blame everything on u unfortunately thats how insensitive some partners can be during a break-up. u need to start getting ur life back together focus on urself its not gonna be easy but its not like u have any other choice u tried to apologise for thinking it was over but he didnt want to forgive u. forget him he doesnt deserve u. feeling depressed and unhappy its normal after a break-up u will soon get over it trust me i know.
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