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writes: So my boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 months. He says he doesnt love me but he cares a great deal about me. Wth does that mean? It confuses me so much. He says he wants to be friends for NOW but he calls me at least 5-6 times a day where we talk about 2-4 hrs a day, he texts me about 30-40 times a day, tells me he misses me, he still calls me our pet names like babe, baby etc here and there. Sometimes if I dont get to the phone because Im busy he will leave me messages telling me hes worried about me and wants to make sure Im ok. Everynight before he goes to sleep he sends me a good night text message. When we see each other we hold hands, he hugs me and we kiss but nothing more. Im just very confused. When someone says they care about you what does that mean? If he just cared would he do all those things or is he trying to fight his feelings cause his parents dont approve? Or is someone just cares about you are these things people do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Your relationship broke up for a reason.
If you were together for some time, it is possible that there are a lot of memories to let go.
It is not healthy for both of you to communicate that often as friends to be able to move on.
There is a possibility that he may call all the time because he feels lonely or wonders if you have found someone else.
Being on a break, perhaps you should distance yourselves for a while to find out what you really feel for each other. Constant calling may confuse you both even more.
But if you miss each other all the time, then get together and talk about why you slip up in the first place.
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reader, Lesley +, writes (8 November 2006):
I think this guy is one VERY confused bloke! And he's twisting your mind with his games. The best way to deal with him is to stop responding to his messages and phone calls and if he really "cares" for you, he'll be back. At the moment he knows you're there waiting for him. Get out there and enjoy yourself. You'll either meet someone who has genuine feelings for you or your guy will come running like a shot!!!
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