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My gf left me for another guy. What can I do?

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Question - (8 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i am in university my ex g/f called it quits for another man yet i still love her what do i do/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

You can't do much about this, my friend except to be brave, grieve, heal and recover. It won't be easy but give yourself time. Once you get through this, get out with friends and have fun. Please don't allow this hurt to affect your future prospects at finding a good, loving woman, someday. They are out there. Just remember, a painful hurt like this can take you down, if you allow it. You have the free will to overcome this, grow and change. It's your choice. I wish you the best dear. Stay real and stay focused on healing. Take care of yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

You can mope around feeling sorry for yourself and waste the greatest time of your life at university or you can tell yourself you're glad this happened now and that you're pleased to get rid of someone who obviously doesn't care about you as much as you deserve. Pick yourself up, go out, have fun, forget about her. You'll one day meet someone who will be dedicated to you and will never be interested in another man.

You can easily forget this girl. You just have to want to first.

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A male reader, childof1981 United States +, writes (8 November 2006):

childof1981 agony auntIt takes two people to form a relationship and even though you may still love her, she does not seem to feel the same way about you. You should remember the time you had with her fondly, and gracefully move forward.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

You are university, what are you waiting for, there must be loads of lovely girls there, get out there and party and meet someone else.

It hard to stop loving someone even when they have gone off with someone else, but they have stopped loving you. Come on you are young, enjoy life and put it behind you. You will feel mopy for some time but it will pass. Take care and i hope you get over her soon.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

I know its hard (trust me I know!!) and what I kept saying to myself is that yeah we were probably meant for each other, we just werent meant to last!!

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