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writes: hey im only a young girl and have been goin out with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months i used to love him dearly and i know he loved me so much to.but now i always seem to cry after seeing him and i dont understand why. i feel he belittles me and i can do nothing right when im with him.i dont know whether or not i should finish with him but i dont feel id ever meet another boy again i dont think hes aware of our problems but i dont feel he loves me anymore im so stuck on what to do should i finish with him or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): I don't know if you've got it in you to do, or if he is worth your doing it, but I'll wager that if (when he least suspects it) you could demonstrate great will, power, or athletic talent that it would change his opinion of you forever. Usually, this will take some kind of crisis. On the other hand, you just might cold cock him (knock him out) sometime, and his entire attitude toward you will change. Think it over, and if he's not worth the trouble, dump him. Then begin a fitness/exercise program of your choice/liking, and gain that inner self confidence that will transform you forever. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): The first two years of any relationship is when you should expect most attention and devotion. Not that it stops after this, but the honey moon period and at it like rabbits does fade away if you know what I mean.
If after eight months, he belittles you, that is lack of respect. NOT doing anything right, is a control issue, he has learned what buttons to press to dominate you. THAT IS NOT GOOD. UNLESS YOU ARE MASOQUIST, PLEASE GET OUT!
If you are in an unhappy relationship, this is a sign to get out. People do not change, things just get worse.
You should sit down together and make him understand how his behavious makes you feel and that you need some things to change.
Should there be no change to his behaviour, you know what to do. Life is to short.
You have low self esteem hence why you may feel that you cannot find someone better.
Sounds to me that you are a nice person, who deserves much better so raise your standards.
Seek and you shall find.
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