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Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   30 May 2008: Be civil to him and act like a friend. It could be he missed his kid. You should allow him to talk to his kid and slowly develop from there. If you love him , try not to put barriers in between you two. Don't put any pressures on hi... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   30 May 2008: I fully agree with male anon. There are some people who are rigid in their thoughts and cannot accept other perspective. They only have a single track mind . It is like the world must follow them and not the other way round. What can w... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   29 May 2008: Is there such a person who has never lied yesterday ,today and in the future? Do you believe such a person exist in this world? A lie big or a small is still a lie. If you tell one lie too many and get caught , you cannot be trusted. ... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   29 May 2008: The first step to rebuild the trust is to forgive him for all his transgressions. Wipe the slate clean and start all over again. Have you done that? If you cannot forgive him totally and move on, then it is pointless to talk about trust... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   29 May 2008: If you want to rebuild the trust, then you need to throw away all your bias and prejudices and all your opinionated ideas and start all over again. Either that or dump him. Come down from your high horse and feel what it is like wal... (read in full...)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   28 May 2008: Do not call him even if you feel the urge to do it. You need to restrain yourself because you would give him the wrong picture. Wait for him to call you and just talk normally and do not show your eagerness. Treat him like a friend. Th... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   27 May 2008: In the society where I live, we just leave them alone unless they are addicted to it or neglect their responsibilities or duties to their wife. We treat it just a male thing. We do not report them to the police and have them thrown int... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   27 May 2008: Man are visual creatures. They are affected by sight than by feelings. Sometimes when they have sexual urges and when they want to masturbate, they need visual stimulations. If there is porn , they will watch it and if there is no porn ... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to be gay?

Q.   I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...

A.   26 May 2008: Some churches or denominations follow their interpretations of the Bible, Some churches may follow a different interpretation. Who is right and who is wrong? God will’s everything to happen. Only God knows why the church have a gay ... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to be gay?

Q.   I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...

A.   26 May 2008: Prejudices in the church.. This is quite a very good article.. Believe whatever you feel is right and not to impose your views or belief on others. If your conscience say it is wrong , then it is wrong for you. That does not mean that e... (read in full...)

I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!

Q.   I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...

A.   26 May 2008: I think you should not do any unilateral actions. If you book the hotel room without consulting him on the date and venue , he may take it wrongly or be offended or he may not be free on that day. It may backfire on you. This is a sensit... (read in full...)

I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!

Q.   I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...

A.   26 May 2008: It looks like he is not treating you with the proper respects due to you. If he really loves you , he would listen and try to make your dreams come true. He is also belittling you. Sorry , if I seem harsh. ... (read in full...)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   26 May 2008: Both of you are lost at sea. You should give him more time to think over. He is confused and unstable and he needs more time to see his mistakes. He will come around when he can think clearly. If you love him , don't push him away. Tr... (read in full...)

I'm only with my wife for the sake of my children. I don't want to hurt anyone, but...

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a big issue in my life right now, I am 45 years old and have been married for 15 years and have 2 wonderful teenage daughters, the thing is i no longer love my wife and we do not get on at all, i have stayed in the family home ...

A.   26 May 2008: If you think your marriage is over, then the best solution is to allow your wife to find her own happiness. Be happy with your new love. Decide what you want in your life. Which ever way you choose, you cannot help but will leave ... (read in full...)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   26 May 2008: You did not answer his earlier SMS. He got your message. You have to forgive him and move on with your life. The less you talk about him or mention him , the better you will forget about him faster.... (read in full...)

What is a single mom's best bet?

Q.   I'm single mom with health issues, my BF wants to buy a house and put my name ONLY on the mortgage and he pays Is this wise? The reason I am having a dilemma: I live in a bad neighborhood, my kids like him, we have been together for 6 years and ...

A.   26 May 2008: I don't know how it works in your country. Over here , if you don't have an income to match , the banks or financial institutions will not give out any housing loans to you under your name. There is no way he can buy the house under y... (read in full...)

What is a single mom's best bet?

Q.   I'm single mom with health issues, my BF wants to buy a house and put my name ONLY on the mortgage and he pays Is this wise? The reason I am having a dilemma: I live in a bad neighborhood, my kids like him, we have been together for 6 years and ...

A.   26 May 2008: What can be so bad about this deal? The worst scenerio, you would be evicted from this house and declared a bankrupt. If being a bankrupt is OK with you , then this deal is good. Make sure his insurance beneficiary is under your name . ... (read in full...)

I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!

Q.   I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...

A.   26 May 2008: Spending a day and night at the hotel is a very romantic venture because of the ambiance which is beautiful and scenic. It is like you are in Shangrilla where you are in a world of your own. This is a very good suggestion and worth the... (read in full...)

I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!

Q.   I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...

A.   26 May 2008: You have laid down your conditions and if he cannot accept them due to reasons best known to him, then don't have sex. If he is truly in love with you , he would have talked to you and see how you can both overcome this problem. If he has a f... (read in full...)

How do you know when a man wants you back when he comes around you even if he don't ask you back?

Q.   Me and my ex have been broke up for 3 months now. It's been hard for me. I thought that I could be without him, but I can't because I still have feelings for him. I felt like the only thing I could do to get his attention was to lash out at him when ...

A.   26 May 2008: Why not you just tell him to start all over again on a new slate and progress from there. Let go of the past and begin anew. It is obvious that he wants to come back to you , otherwise he would not contact you at all.... (read in full...)

Please help! Could I be pregnant??

Q.   right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...

A.   26 May 2008: Your most fertile period is between 14 to 16 days after your first day of period. His precums can contain 300,000 sperms and it only need one to conceive. Whether you will be lucky or not , nobody knows until you miss your next period. ... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to be gay?

Q.   I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...

A.   26 May 2008: Whether you are a gay or not , it does not matter much because according to God, we are all sinners. If you are a gay , you sin, if you are not a gay , you sin too. A sin is a sin and it does not differentiate whether you are a gay or not. A... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   25 May 2008: Here are some more insights about men. If she gives her number too fast she’s probably a slut. If she doesn’t give her phone number she’s a stuck up bitch, If she doesn’t want to have sex she’s faking. If she doesn’t want to go out aft... (read in full...)

Time to end the fling with the married man?

Q.   I have been involved with a married man for 2and a half months and things started off really well and he used to pay me so much attention but recently, things have just gone downhill he hardly calls or makes any effort to stay in touch. Although ...

A.   25 May 2008: Never play with fire, you will only get burned. I am glad that you realized your follies and quit before any real damage was done. For further readings;- http://www.associated... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   25 May 2008: Whatever you do will never be enough for him. He is just a man and it is better you become who you are rather than whom you want to be. Men Are Hard To Please The problems with GUYS: If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with h... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   25 May 2008: "To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and try not to understand her at all." A wise saying.... (read in full...)

Is life all about religion, or is it about being happy and feeling fulfilled?

Q.   First off, please do not judge my situation. I am involved in a moral and emotional dilemma and am seeking whole-hearted answers, not judgments. I have been involved with a MM for over 6 months. We have known each other for over a year; we work tog...

A.   25 May 2008: “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.” 2 Corinthians 4:8–9 ... (read in full...)

Is his refusal to talk about things a form of abuse?

Q.   I am a divorced single mom with 2 boys and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He physically abused me on a couple of occasions several months into our relationship. The second time it happened I called the police. He was arrested ...

A.   25 May 2008: I think both of you need to work at this relationship and improve your communication skills. You need to change your strategy when problem arise between you two. When someone is mad, just leave them alone till their fires burn out. Know wh... (read in full...)

He has me on a 7 pm curfew! And he blames me for what he does to me! Am I doing the right thing planning to leave him?

Q.   I'm now 21 years old. I was barely 19 when I MOVED IN with my boyfriend. Things have gotten worse since I turned 21. He has me on a 7PM curfew! If I'm a few minutes late he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Hes even locked me out for ...

A.   25 May 2008: You are a victim of emotional and mental abuse which can lead to violence. Your life is like in the prisons. If you can leave immediately , pack your bags and leave quickly. If you cannot leave immediately , plan your escape secretly and... (read in full...)

Is life all about religion, or is it about being happy and feeling fulfilled?

Q.   First off, please do not judge my situation. I am involved in a moral and emotional dilemma and am seeking whole-hearted answers, not judgments. I have been involved with a MM for over 6 months. We have known each other for over a year; we work tog...

A.   25 May 2008: In the 2 Samuel 11, King David saw Bathsheba and committed adultery with her.She later became pregnant . King David send her husband to the front lines to have him killed in order to marry her and to cover up his crime. You cannot hide from... (read in full...)

When do you know you are ready for sex?

Q.   When do you know that your ready for sex !???!...

A.   25 May 2008: When you have an itch that won't go away and only that someone who can give you the reliefs.... (read in full...)

Is life all about religion, or is it about being happy and feeling fulfilled?

Q.   First off, please do not judge my situation. I am involved in a moral and emotional dilemma and am seeking whole-hearted answers, not judgments. I have been involved with a MM for over 6 months. We have known each other for over a year; we work tog...

A.   25 May 2008: Is life all about religion, or is it about being happy and feeling fulfilled? Life is all about being happy and fulfilled and having peace within yourself and with your surroundings. You have to come to terms with your physical body , ... (read in full...)

He keeps pushing me to perform sexual acts I'm not comfortable with, can you help?

Q.   I am engaged and have been with my fiance for just over a year. We have a loving relationship and things are mostly amazing. Recently tho he has been pushing me to perform sexual acts I am not comfortable doing. For example, right now he keeps ...

A.   24 May 2008: You should set out your limits and boundaries . Your b/f should be more understanding and loving. If he cannot accept your limits, then your relationship could be fragile and you would need to reassess this relationship in this new li... (read in full...)

If I want to look at porn, I have a right, right?

Q.   My girlfriend found porn on the computer yesterday that we share. I accidentally left the history up and she looked through it and saw what I had been looking at. I told her I was bored and those websites were in the magazine I was reading so I ...

A.   24 May 2008: Men are just simple creatures . It does not take much to make them happy. A happy guy makes a great husband. The hand that rocks the cradle shapes the world. For further readings;- http://www.christianitytoday.com/tcw/... (read in full...)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

Q.   There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...

A.   24 May 2008: If you want to rebuild the trust, you will need to be more open and accept him as he is. You need to see from his perspective and not your female perspective. Men see things differently. They know what is real and what is fantasy. It ... (read in full...)

In it for the kids, how do I choose a life of my choice instead of a life for others??

Q.   THIS IS WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE... QUOTES I FOUND ON LINE.. HOW DO I CHOICE A LIFE OF MY CHOICE INSTEAD OF A LIFE FOR MY CHILDREN? I can choose to stay married until the pain of staying married becomes greater than the pain of...

A.   24 May 2008: Women have a tendency to say that they married a good father to the kids but a lousy lover to them when things don't go their way. They may even be jealous of their partners loves for their children. They expect the men to be a good provide... (read in full...)

My husband has been sending pictures of himself in his underwear to a man, is planning to meet him, and has told me that it's none of my business!

Q.   I'm 27, and my husband's 29. We have two children, a 4-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter and have been married for 3 years. On Tuesday when I was checking our email to see if a bid I made on eBay was successful, an email came through fro...

A.   24 May 2008: Sometimes ,it is just a guy to guy thing and women do not understand. He may want to show off his great physique to this friend . If you think there is a devil in every corner, your life will be pretty busy and Fcuked up. Don't let ... (read in full...)

More porn on his computer and it's getting me down

Q.   hi, i have a bit of an issue, i am with a guy who is 3 yrs older than me, we've been going for 9 months, i stay at his flat on the weekends nd i use his laptop for internet access while im there, everytime i type an address in the address bar, it ...

A.   24 May 2008: Men are highly sex creatures and they think of sex every 15 minutes according to some studies. They cannot expressed their sexual urges and demand that you meet their needs every now and then. They can only watch porn to quell their sexual urg... (read in full...)

Confused Mother and Wife...

Q.   I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I ...

A.   23 May 2008: Are you a full time housewife ? Maybe , you may need to change your environment abit by going out to work , having friends and having some private moments for yourself so that you won't feel the drudgery of being a full time house... (read in full...)

Confused Mother and Wife...

Q.   I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I ...

A.   23 May 2008: Here is an inspirational story for you... The Burden “Why was my burden so heavy?” I slammed the bedroom door and leaned against it. Is there no rest from this life?I wondered. I stumbled to my bed and dropped onto it, pressing my pillo... (read in full...)

Confused Mother and Wife...

Q.   I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I ...

A.   23 May 2008: Perhaps a trial separation would make you see things clearly whether you are still suitable for each other . When you are without each other , you will realize the worth of the other person and may make you appreciate them more and... (read in full...)

He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!

Q.   Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...

A.   23 May 2008: His probable reason for the breakup could possibly be your new job where it takes alot of your time and being unavailable to him. Or he could have felt intimidated by your new career. This is just my speculations only. It may not be t... (read in full...)

My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend is freaking out and hasn't told his parents I'm pregnant!

Q.   I am 21 years old and I just found out I'm pregnant. My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend, who is 20 is freaking out. He won't tell his parents because he's scared of their reaction. Is there anything I can do to help him with this? ...

A.   23 May 2008: If you allow him the liberty to tell his parents, you will be disappointed. He will not be able to bring himself to do that because of his immaturity. The baby bulge will show at 24 weeks. It is better to tell early than late. His fea... (read in full...)

Confused Mother and Wife...

Q.   I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I ...

A.   22 May 2008: What is lacking in your marriage is the absence of romance. It flew out off the window. Life for him is like a continuous grinding attrition with increased responsibilities, with bills to be paid and more mouths to be fed. It is no more... (read in full...)

Should I let him be or keep trying?

Q.   i need help on this one.. me and my bf split up 2weeks ago and yet i still dont know what to do!!i was with my bf for 7months and ive fell for him big time.. he got into abit of trouble in the past is due up in court soon and this was part of his ...

A.   22 May 2008: If you lead a horse to a well and if the horse is not thirsty ,he will not drink even if you put a bucket of water under his mouth. You should call a time out and go out and enjoy yourself and set this problem aside for the time being. Y... (read in full...)

I can't get over my ex-boyfriend but I don't want him back!

Q.   Hey guys, I officially broke up with my boyfriend in December. Reasons: i didnt feel like i loved him anymore. I never felt like doing anything with him and was completely disinterested. i dreaded him touching me for some reason...

A.   22 May 2008: You are hurt and angry with him. If you keep those feelings inside of you , you will never find closure and you will only be tormented by those thoughts. If you want to end and stop this mental agony , you need to release your hurt... (read in full...)

He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!

Q.   Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...

A.   22 May 2008: It could mean that you are too good for him or that he is not good enough for you or vice versa. It is a sugar coated excuse to break up with you . Saying something nice to cushion the effects or soften the blows. He is just trying to ... (read in full...)

My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend is freaking out and hasn't told his parents I'm pregnant!

Q.   I am 21 years old and I just found out I'm pregnant. My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend, who is 20 is freaking out. He won't tell his parents because he's scared of their reaction. Is there anything I can do to help him with this? ...

A.   22 May 2008: Since he is unable do it , you will have to be the stork to bring the good news to his mother..... (read in full...)

Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn?

Q.   Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn? I dont see how that is respecting their vow to forsake all others and cherish their wives...Im not religious but believe in commitment in marriage. If I share my body with a man I fee that is a ...

A.   22 May 2008: Everything done in moderations should be acceptable. Anything in excessive is bad for the health. Marriage is about compromise or the middle path. You can domesticate men but you should not feminize them. There are alot of bigoted and... (read in full...)

I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful

Q.   How can I hate someone who clearly doesn't love me anymore? I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful, often disregarding my hurt when he says ulgy things or calls me names. It all was beca...

A.   22 May 2008: How can you love someone like that? Even before you are married to him , he has mentally and psychologically abused you. If there is pain , it is not love. Love is about happiness and joys. You will find love again like the eternal sp... (read in full...)

Should I try again with my ex or should I give the new guy a chance?

Q.   I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years in a semi long distance relationship (he lives about a four hour trip away from me). During that time, we broke up once for several months because of several reasons we constantly struggled with ...

A.   22 May 2008: Human beings are creatures of habit. They prefer the familiar things or surroundings. If they are creatures of the night , they will always be creatures of the night. Would you prefer the original or the clone? ... (read in full...)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   22 May 2008: He could be having second thoughts or some remorse over his abrupt leaving you in the lurch. Being in a strange land and far away from one's family can make him feel nostalgic and that something is missing in his life. It would depend on you wh... (read in full...)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

Q.   My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...

A.   21 May 2008: Your husband is irresponsible , childish and have abandoned you and his son. You have to pick up the pieces and start your own life without him. You may give him a time period and if he does not come back for you , you will have to accept ... (read in full...)

If I want to look at porn, I have a right, right?

Q.   My girlfriend found porn on the computer yesterday that we share. I accidentally left the history up and she looked through it and saw what I had been looking at. I told her I was bored and those websites were in the magazine I was reading so I ...

A.   21 May 2008: When you are all alone , you have all the rights. But when you are in a relationship , you only have 49% and she 51%(Depends on who is stronger.) If you want to maintain the peace and still do not want to give up your porn , then go w... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to be gay?

Q.   I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...

A.   6 April 2008: If you are gay and you are happy about , so be it. Can anyone be a gay? Obviously if you are not one, you cannot be one. If you think being a gay and it is sin, then Jesus comes for the sinners . For He came for the weak , the infirm... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to be gay?

Q.   I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...

A.   6 April 2008: If you believed it is a sin , then it is a sin. If you don't , then don't believe what others say. There are gay churches and gay pastors. Let no one judge you and neither you be a judge. According to God. all are sinners, whether you are... (read in full...)

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