My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 12 June 2008: You can obtain a judgment by default against him and is binding.... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!
Q. Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...
A. 2 June 2008: To Poster,
You don't have to justify your actions here.
Whatever you do is your right and no one should judge your actions.
Even if you replied in truth , you would be judge critically
and if people want to find faults with you , they w... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!
Q. Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...
A. 2 June 2008: Rape and statutory rape are not quite the same.
Rape or a child molester connotes forcibly taken by force against one's will.
In Canada, for both males and females, the basic age of consent is 14.
Anyone who is 14 or over can consent to havi... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 1 June 2008: It is all a matter of perceptions.
What you see may not be what you get.
Saying is one thing but doing is another.
Some people may say it out but may not do what they said.
What is said today may not be applicable somewhere down the ro... (read in full...)
If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?
Q. If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...
A. 31 May 2008: Will it get worse or not depends on how you tackle this problem.
If you tell him your limits and boundaries and if he respects them , then this relationship can be saved.
You need to assert yourself to make him stop.
If you do nothing , t... (read in full...)
How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?
Q. How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way,...
A. 31 May 2008: The only way to lose your resentment and anger is to try your best to forgive him and move on.
Forgiveness will remove your resentment and anger and will allow you to look at this problem from another perspective.
It will also start healing yo... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 31 May 2008: You reaped what you sowed.
Now that you know what it is like to cheat and be cheated upon,
then you can start from this point and work at your relationship.
Everything is now fair and equal.
Begin a new journey together and leave the p... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 30 May 2008: At this moment you are buffeted by strong winds and the storm in your life has not abated.
Keep your eyes focus on Jesus or your aims in life.
Do not let anything distract you.
Take each day at a time and do not think too much about tho... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 30 May 2008: Be civil to him and act like a friend.
It could be he missed his kid.
You should allow him to talk to his kid and slowly develop from there.
If you love him , try not to put barriers in between you two.
Don't put any pressures on hi... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 30 May 2008: I fully agree with male anon.
There are some people who are rigid in their thoughts and cannot accept other perspective.
They only have a single track mind .
It is like the world must follow them and not the other way round.
What can w... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: Is there such a person who has never lied yesterday ,today and in the future?
Do you believe such a person exist in this world?
A lie big or a small is still a lie.
If you tell one lie too many and get caught ,
you cannot be trusted. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?
Q. Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...
A. 29 May 2008: Those who have tasted the bitterness first will enjoy the sweetness later.
Maybe you were born for greater things as God is making you stronger by this process .
Life is a series of learning curves.... (read in full...)
How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate?
Q. How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate? I sometimes think a fling is just a temporary thrill and not for the long haul. how do you determine the truth?...
A. 29 May 2008: A bridge called love…
Love is like the coming of spring,
it maybe slow and gradual or it maybe quick and sudden.
When we wake up in the dream of love ,
we can feel the music in the air,
the warmth of the sunshine and blossoms on t... (read in full...)
If I love my boyfriend why do I feel like cheating on him when the occasion rises??
Q. why is it that i love my boyfriend and i cant seem to live without him but when ever i notice a new guy i feel like cheating i feel like i wanna start something new with someone else.....
A. 29 May 2008: There is a white angel and a black angel in you .
That is the black angel when you have those thoughts.
The white angel triumphed in the end.... (read in full...)
He hasn't spoken to me since I brought home a new kitten! Was I wrong?
Q. So my relationship with my boyfriend has been dodgy for some time. We have been together 10 years. He's away a lot on business so our time together is really limited. To cut it as short as possible, I am an animal lover and would give any creatur...
A. 29 May 2008: The Australian aborigines called it the 'Walkabout!'
They simply disappear to walk somewhere into the jungles and then emerge again after sometime.
Just give him some space and he will call you again.
Don't call him.... (read in full...)
I have HPV, would it be better to stop having sex, or can we still? He might have it too...
Q. Iam 19 years old and i have Hpv. i know that you cant know who you got it from because it can years to know that you have it but how many years can it take or about how many or the most it can take? i have a partner of four years and i want to know ...
A. 29 May 2008: For those who choose to be sexually active, condoms may
lower the risk of HPV, if used all the time and the right way.
Condoms may also lower the risk of developing HPV-related
diseases, such as genital warts and cervical cancer.
But... (read in full...)
How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test?
Q. How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test? When I was taught, they said 4 - 6 weeks. But everyone on here seems to be saying "in a week" or "leave it 2 weeks"! Which surprises me. Does anyone have the actual medical knowledge to tel...
A. 29 May 2008: You can Google this question or you can find the answer on this site;-
http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/whenpregnancytest.html... (read in full...)
I'm feeling bad about the huge fight with my best friend. What should I say?
Q. Okay, so me and my best friend got into a huge fight last friday. She was making me look like an idiot in school to make herself look better around this guy that were both talk to. I got mad and told her sister who had picked up the phone that I d...
A. 29 May 2008: Just tell her that you are truly sorry and offer her a treat.
It does not matter if she was wrong and you were right.
When you admit that you were wrong ,it shows your maturity.
What is important is the final results.
You want to ... (read in full...)
I think I might have over reacted, what should I do?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend (of 11 months) yesterday. I went through his cell phone (something that I really hate and very unlike me) and found msgs to other girls. I found the same type of msgs in January and confronted him about it. He said he ...
A. 29 May 2008: If you want to solve this problem quickly ,
call him out and then talk to him about it.
Apologize if you felt you have over reacted or wrong.
If he does not want to talk to you or come out to talk ,
try another time on another day.
... (read in full...)
When should I get a pregnancy test?
Q. hi i was reading what you guys wrote about the Pregnancy test. Well i just had sex with my husband and something happen so i will like to know, when should i do it? I hope to hear from you guys soon byebye thanks...
A. 29 May 2008: You can do the test on the 5th and 6th weeks from your last period.
What is that something that happened?
He ejaculated into you ?... (read in full...)
How do you ask some one you like to be your boyfriend?
Q. I like this guy and I want to ask him to be my boyfriend but I don't know how to ask him. Any Suggestions?...
A. 29 May 2008: If you want to talk to a man , talk to him in plain simple English and don't hint or beat about the bush.
He cannot understand those female language except in simple commands.
Just ask him if he would like to be your b/f?
It is simple an... (read in full...)
When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off?
Q. When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off? My boyfriend and I live together, and he is always on, and when he isn't doing that it's porn. His love of video games is so juvenile and puts me in a...
A. 29 May 2008: Get him out of the house more often to ween him off the games.
Go watch movies or any activities together and his addictions will wane.
You should have put your foot down when you feel he has an addiction.
Use the carrot and the stick to ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to stop anxiety and stress?
Q. whats best way to stop anixety and stress?...
A. 29 May 2008: I deal with stress and anxieties by casting my burdens on to Jesus and accept whatever comes .
There are things which I have no control nor can change it.
I will have to accept that many things are fated.
Exercise, belief in God and live a... (read in full...)
She won't talk about sex and I'm extremely unhappy and thinking about ending the relationship.
Q. Okay so I'm almost 18 and my girlfriend is 15 we have about a 2 year 9 month age difference and we have been going out for about 10 month now. Now on to the question I feel that I'm a very sexual person and I know she's a little younger then me and ...
A. 29 May 2008: If you want this relationship to work ,
you have got to put her first .
If you want to be first, then you need to find another girl.
Love is about making the other person happy.
... (read in full...)
He hasn't spoken to me since I brought home a new kitten! Was I wrong?
Q. So my relationship with my boyfriend has been dodgy for some time. We have been together 10 years. He's away a lot on business so our time together is really limited. To cut it as short as possible, I am an animal lover and would give any creatur...
A. 29 May 2008: It is a storm in a tea cup and it will soon blow over.
If your love is strong , nothing will separate you too.
Just sit it out till the storm pass over.
... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?
Q. Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sur...
A. 29 May 2008: If you love him and want to continue in your relationship,
you will have to forgive him and move on.
Time will slowly heal your hurts and pains.
Nature has a very queer way.
The things you feared most will come to past and what you abhorr... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: The first step to rebuild the trust is to forgive him for all his transgressions.
Wipe the slate clean and start all over again.
Have you done that?
If you cannot forgive him totally and move on,
then it is pointless to talk about trust... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: If you want to rebuild the trust,
then you need to throw away all your bias and prejudices
and all your opinionated ideas and start all over again.
Either that or dump him.
Come down from your high horse and feel what it is like
wal... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!
Q. Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...
A. 29 May 2008: Why ask for advice on a website if you will not take it?
That is a very good question.
It depends on the quality of the advice.
If it is bias, prejudice ,insulting , belittling and judgmental, would you accept those advice?
Advice given ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!
Q. Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...
A. 28 May 2008: Why don't people here stop playing and acting like GOD with their high moral judgments?
What makes you people think you have the right to judge her with your self righteousness and holier than thou attitudes .
I wonder if you have never sin a... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 28 May 2008: Treat him like a good friend and you will slowly win him back.
Since you have the physical barrier , you may need to use the phone or internet to communicate with him.
Every relationship has its ups and downs.
You may have to wait for tho... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 28 May 2008: Do not call him even if you feel the urge to do it.
You need to restrain yourself because you would give him the wrong picture.
Wait for him to call you and just talk normally and do not show your eagerness.
Treat him like a friend.
Th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me and calls me names. I don't know what to do.
Q. Ive bin with my boyfriend now for 2 years, at first he was lovely now he hits me pushes me, calls me names fat, ugly etc, wont help with the kids if he dont get his own way. one is his. he works in the day he comes home helps a bit with the children ...
A. 28 May 2008: You are being mentally and psychologically abused due to his addiction to the x-box and the lack of sleep.
You need to stand up to him for your rights .
Tell him your limits and boundaries .
Get prepared to leave because it can get worse... (read in full...)
I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!
Q. I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got up...
A. 28 May 2008: He is just immature and irrational.
Treat him like a little boy and move on.
Mature people don't act like that.
Blowing hot and cold.
Leave him alone.
He is not worth your attentions.... (read in full...)
Do people who get engaged young have lasting relationships?
Q. Ok. i just got engaged to my bf of 3 years and many people have criticised this. so i want to ask you ppl do you think a relationship wer u fall in love in a young age and then get married wen they are older will last??? like we started goin...
A. 28 May 2008: Generally speaking nobody knows what will happen in the future.
By looking at statistics, chances of a lasting relationship is not high.
But you could be in that other half.Nobody can say for sure .All is just speculations only.
If you ... (read in full...)
Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?
Q. I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...
A. 28 May 2008: "He paid for the holiday and told me to pay him back when I could."
Did you actually agree with him on that ?
This was in oral and not in black and white and is not binding except that you want to play fair.
There is no time period and only ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 28 May 2008: If you wait under the apple tree and wait for that particular apple to fall,
you may have to wait for a long time.
If you want to speed up things, you may have to shake the
tree or use a ladder to pluck that particular apple.
If ... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 27 May 2008: In the society where I live, we just leave them alone unless
they are addicted to it or neglect their responsibilities or duties to their wife.
We treat it just a male thing.
We do not report them to the police and have them thrown
int... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 27 May 2008: Man are visual creatures.
They are affected by sight than by feelings.
Sometimes when they have sexual urges and when they want to masturbate, they need visual stimulations.
If there is porn , they will watch it and if there is no porn ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 27 May 2008: Marriage is about love,sex, money and power.
You should always compromise your ideals and do not set too high an expectations from the other.
There is no way you can avoid those fights in a marriage as we all have our own idiosyncrasies. ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!
Q. Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...
A. 27 May 2008: It is praiseworthy that you intent to keep the baby and to
keep the boy out of the picture until he is ready to accept
the responsibility in the distant future.
Get the baby scan for any major defects and if it is a perfect baby ,you can ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Some churches or denominations follow their interpretations of the Bible,
Some churches may follow a different interpretation.
Who is right and who is wrong?
God will’s everything to happen.
Only God knows why the church have a gay ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Prejudices in the church..
This is quite a very good article.. Believe whatever you feel is right and not to impose your views or belief on others.
If your conscience say it is wrong , then it is wrong for you.
That does not mean that e... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 26 May 2008: If you love him , you should not back away from him but instead you should fight for him.
Are you going to let somebody just steal your man away?
Is your relationship not worth saving?
You are going to show him that you want him back and lo... (read in full...)
I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!
Q. I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...
A. 26 May 2008: I think you should not do any unilateral actions.
If you book the hotel room without consulting him on the
date and venue , he may take it wrongly or be offended or he may not be free on that day.
It may backfire on you.
This is a sensit... (read in full...)
I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!
Q. I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...
A. 26 May 2008: It looks like he is not treating you with the proper respects due to you.
If he really loves you , he would listen and try to make your dreams come true.
He is also belittling you. Sorry , if I seem harsh.
... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 26 May 2008: Both of you are lost at sea.
You should give him more time to think over.
He is confused and unstable and he needs more time to see his mistakes.
He will come around when he can think clearly.
If you love him , don't push him away.
Tr... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 26 May 2008: You did not answer his earlier SMS. He got your message.
You have to forgive him and move on with your life.
The less you talk about him or mention him ,
the better you will forget about him faster.... (read in full...)
I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!
Q. I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...
A. 26 May 2008: Spending a day and night at the hotel is a very romantic
venture because of the ambiance which is beautiful and scenic.
It is like you are in Shangrilla where you are in a world of your own.
This is a very good suggestion and worth the... (read in full...)
I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!
Q. I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...
A. 26 May 2008: You have laid down your conditions and if he cannot accept them due to reasons best known to him, then don't have sex.
If he is truly in love with you , he would have talked to you and see how you can both overcome this problem.
If he has a f... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Whether you are a gay or not , it does not matter much because according to God, we are all sinners.
If you are a gay , you sin, if you are not a gay , you sin too.
A sin is a sin and it does not differentiate whether you are a gay or not.
A... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 25 May 2008: Here are some more insights about men.
If she gives her number too fast she’s probably a slut.
If she doesn’t give her phone number she’s a stuck up bitch,
If she doesn’t want to have sex she’s faking.
If she doesn’t want to go out aft... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 25 May 2008: Whatever you do will never be enough for him.
He is just a man and it is better you become who you are
rather than whom you want to be.
Men Are Hard To Please
The problems with GUYS:
If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with h... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 25 May 2008: "To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and try not to understand her at all."
A wise saying.... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 24 May 2008: If you want to rebuild the trust,
you will need to be more open and accept him as he is.
You need to see from his perspective and not your female perspective.
Men see things differently.
They know what is real and what is fantasy.
It ... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 22 May 2008: He could be having second thoughts or some remorse over his abrupt leaving you in the lurch.
Being in a strange land and far away from one's family can make him feel nostalgic and that something is missing in his life.
It would depend on you wh... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 21 May 2008: Your husband is irresponsible , childish and have abandoned you and his son.
You have to pick up the pieces and start your own life without him.
You may give him a time period and if he does not come back
for you , you will have to accept ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 24 April 2008: I admire your spirit and fortitude.
Thats the way you should handle life's problems.
Leave every thing to God and accept the will of God.
Things happened for a purpose and you will see the full picture when God reveals them to you.
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My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 23 April 2008: What goes around, comes around.
He dumped you and she will dumped him for someone younger.
Her needs and demands from him would be too much for him to handle .
Their needs are incompatible.
Man are creatures of habit.
When he left ... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nothing is forever or cast in stones like Moses tablet.
Today's enemies maybe tomorrow's friend.
Life is full of paradox and quirks.
Don't go to him now because he will instinctively run from you .
When he sees you have given up on him, h... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nobody knows what the future will hold.
Look at the bright side of things.
If he was meant for you , he will come back.
You cannot say there is no more hope.
Hope is there and only if you don't give up.
I am not going to give you any ... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: All you can do is to apologize to him and stop arguing with him.
The more you argue , the more it will harden his heart.
Whatever he says, just keep silent or say you are sorry.
Just tell him what you did was wrong and you don't know why and h... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you are gay and you are happy about , so be it.
Can anyone be a gay?
Obviously if you are not one, you cannot be one.
If you think being a gay and it is sin,
then Jesus comes for the sinners .
For He came for the weak , the infirm... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you believed it is a sin , then it is a sin.
If you don't , then don't believe what others say.
There are gay churches and gay pastors.
Let no one judge you and neither you be a judge.
According to God. all are sinners, whether you are... (read in full...)
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