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When do you know you are ready for sex?

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Question - (24 May 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When do you know that your ready for sex !???!

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A female reader, MissWendlemoot Australia +, writes (25 May 2008):

MissWendlemoot agony auntWhen you feel absolutely no pressure from a boy to do so and when you are not doing it because you think a boy will like you more if you do.

When you have talked about pregnancy and STDs and have a reliable form of birth control and condoms.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (25 May 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntWhen you have an itch that won't go away

and only that someone who can give you the reliefs.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntWhen you are over 16, and possibly even 18, as 18 is the law in some parts of the world.

Whn you are ready you won't be asking. There is so much peer pressure, and pressure from boyfriends, so don't fall into this trap. When you are too young, it is likely you will feel like a child playing at an adults game.

In a couple of years time, it will feel very different, and a more natural thing.

You need it to be special, and a thing that you don't rush into.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (24 May 2008):

kenny agony auntFor starters when you are over the age of 16, which is the legal age to have sex. And also when you have found someone that you love with all your heart, and the feelings are reciprocated both ways.

Take care x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

when you dont need to ask the question.

when you dont have sex because you're horny but because you're so in love with the person you're with that you want to be as close as possible to them.

This is the only one thing in your life that you can give away and NEVER have back.

if only i listened to comments like these when i was your age

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

When you no longer feel the need to ask the question.

Oh, and as LJ001 recommends, do wait until you're over 16.

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A male reader, 2112EricYYZ Canada +, writes (24 May 2008):

2112EricYYZ agony auntyou know u are ready for sex when u are 100% sure you are in love with him and that he is 100% sure he loves u also its helpful to fallow the bases tak each base at a time not all in a month but maby all in 7 months but sex complicates alot of relationships expecially at your age

hope it helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

When you've found a guy that loves you beyond your wildest dreams, when you know you want to be with him for life, and can overlook his bad points, appreciating every last one of his good points. When you feel safe in his arms, and trust him with every ounce of your heart, knowing he will never hurt you.

Oh, and when you're over the legal age.

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