Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 19 June 2008: Wishing you all the best and hope that you will find your next perfect man.
I hope you won't have regrets or remorse from this decision somewhere down the road.... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 17 June 2008: He loves you but not the responsibilities or obligations as a b/f.It is like loving from afar.It is like still living in a fantasy and not in the real world.... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 15 June 2008: He wants to be free and not to be tied down like a couple.
He wants more independent from you.
To do things without having to think of you or consider your feelings.
It is a time where he wants to explore and see the world without feelin... (read in full...)
Not sure why we broke up but he wants to be friends. Should I stay in contact?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm feeling very confused right now. My boyfriend of nine months broke it off a little over a week ago. I knew he'd been having a few doubts after attending some of his friends' weddings, but we had decided to talk things over and ...
A. 10 June 2008: It is no harm to meet him for one more time
but you should not expect too high from this meeting.
Go there , meet him , act and talk normally and then part amicably as friends.
Don't dig up the past but to move on , to each his/her own ways... (read in full...)
My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!
Q. A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about ...
A. 9 June 2008: Congratulations! Happy fatherhood to you!... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 9 June 2008: Time and tide waits for no man.
The world will not stop just because you want to get off.
If a person who has legs and do not want to walk ,
it is because they have become mentally crippled.
Set your spirit free and do not tie your ... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 9 June 2008: You cannot expect people to change 100% over night.
If she can change 10% or 20% , that is good enough.
The process of change have started and you could give them more time.
Keep the wheels rolling...
Don't go into the game of pro... (read in full...)
My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!
Q. A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about ...
A. 9 June 2008: It is no wonder you are treated like a servant .
Don't be a househusband. Set your limits and boundaries or get out of her life.
She is just using you.
Go and get a better paying job.
Tell her , 1+1 = 3... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 9 June 2008: There are two extreme camps on this porn issue.
On one extreme is the hardcore porn lovers and on the other extreme is the anti hardcore porn haters.
Many of us are in the middle and we can live with some porn in moderations.
One cannot conv... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him due to his age?!? Or stay with him? He's everything I could ask for!!
Q. not to long ago i met a guy and he was everything i wanted,we really understood each other.up until last week i never asked him about his age but i recently did and he told me he was 16 thing is im 20 so i said i needed time to think about us and i ...
A. 9 June 2008: Give me one good reason why you should give him up?
... (read in full...)
Has he lost interest in me, since I feel we do not spend as much quality time together?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend is confusing. Ever since, I had a agurument with him in the last 2 weeks it feels he doesn't want to spend quality time with me anymore then he used too. Well, he still calls me frequently [even, when he has no money on his phon...
A. 9 June 2008: You could be over sensitive .
Perhaps he is quite busy at the moment and not because of the tiff he had with you.
He probably forgot about that incident and moved on.
... (read in full...)
Husband's stress and burnout caused our marriage to shatter, we are living apart whilst he recharges his batteries. Is there any hope for us?
Q. Not Sure If You Can Help But Here Goes........... I have been with my husband for 19 years, we have been through quite a lot of things in this time, 5 miscarriages,a serious accident,to name just a few. Since Oct 07 he started to gain extra ...
A. 9 June 2008: Keep up your good work as a single parent and I pray to God to
give you more wisdom and understandings and your family to be reunited again as earliest as possible.
Have faith in God and be patient.
Your love and understandings will pull... (read in full...)
Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?
Q. Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that ther...
A. 9 June 2008: Your b/f is abusive and physically violent.
It will get worse if he does not seek treatment or you allow him to formed that kind of pattern.
You will need to be more affirmative and put your feet down.
Let him know where are your boundarie... (read in full...)
I discovered that being a jerk does not make girls like you.
Q. I screwed up big time. A few months ago I read on some website that girls only like guys who are complete jerks. So I decided to be a jerk to a girl that I liked in hopes that she would start to like me. That was really stupid because now she sees ...
A. 9 June 2008: Be your normal self or better still refined your mannerism and
she will notice that you have reformed and changed for the better.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Are there treatments to help me thicken my hair?
Q. Hello, this is rather embarrassing... I'm a young female, and as far as I can remember, I've had a little quantity of hair. My hair is shiny and healthy, it isn't brittle or frizzy, it's shiny a bit thin though, but it still looks nice. However...
A. 9 June 2008: You may try those hair treatments but it could be expensive and the results may not be favourable .
You can read more on this site;-
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/hairloss/a/hairloss.htm... (read in full...)
Pain during intercourse...what can I do?
Q. why do i have lower pain during intercourse? its so painful i have to ask him to stop sometimes. it really sucks and i feel so bad for him what can i do?...
A. 9 June 2008: It could be due to several factors, not enough fore play , unable to relax, not enough lubrications ,a well endowed dick or vaginismus
You can read more at this link;-
http://web4health.info/en/answers/sex-menu.htm... (read in full...)
Not sure why we broke up but he wants to be friends. Should I stay in contact?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm feeling very confused right now. My boyfriend of nine months broke it off a little over a week ago. I knew he'd been having a few doubts after attending some of his friends' weddings, but we had decided to talk things over and ...
A. 9 June 2008: It is like flying a kite.
When there is a strong head wind,
the kite is forced to fly higher and pulling the string taut.
You will need to release some more strings or the tautness may force the string to break.
Give him some slack and... (read in full...)
Dumped him and now I apologized..so why is it so hard for him to forgive me?
Q. Dating a guy for two months. He was totally into me at the beginning, but I wanted to go slow. He said all the right things and I fell, hard, for him.. All of the sudden he needed time alone and space, it really freaked me out.. I thought I was ...
A. 9 June 2008: That guy has lost interest.
Nothing to be gained by chasing after him.
It would only be a waste of time and efforts.
Leave him alone.
If he comes for you , then he is yours.
... (read in full...)
What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?
Q. At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?...
A. 9 June 2008: At 23, they are not really matured and in the threshold of marriage.
What they wanted is probably some fun and sex and not relationships.... (read in full...)
Embarrassing skin rash that won't stop itching! Help
Q. Can somebody help me? For the past two weeks or so now, I have felt this horrible itching downstairs. As a result, this has developed into some sort of skin rash. This isn't the sort of thing I want to seek help about from a doctor, so does ...
A. 9 June 2008: Wash with soap and water and then apply honey on it.
Honey has antibacterial qualities . The itch is probably caused by sweat and bacteria.
If it does not work , go see your GP.... (read in full...)
Trying to save my marriage but my husband doesn't want me for anything but sex...help!
Q. I am a 51 year old married woman who has desperately been trying to save my marriage recently my husband told me he doesn't want me anymore except for sex. The reason he gave me was because I won't give him a massage when he ask me, and I won't give ...
A. 9 June 2008: If you want to make him toe your line, pack your bags and leave him and he will cut his craps.
Stand your ground and you will get more respects from him.
Don't be like a doormat and let him walk all over you.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 8 June 2008: No man is perfect . Every man have their vices.
It is either ogling at other women , watching porn ,
alcoholics, flirting ,smoking, video games,workaholics etc.
... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: You just told us the reasons for his behaviour towards you.
It is up to you if you still love him and want to carry on this relationship.
You will need lots of patience, love and understandings to stand by him.
He has lost his confidence ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: Women may be at risk of mental health breakdowns if they have
abortions, a medical royal college has warned.
The Royal College of Psychiatrists says women should not be
allowed to have an abortion until they are counselled on the possib... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 8 June 2008: In this age and time , finding a virgin girl is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
You are not alone. We are not living in the old Testament times where sex outside of marriage is frowned upon.
You need to accept that times have chang... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: You are a team now and if she slags,
you will have to pull more.
There is no such thing as a separation of duties.
You cannot be too calculative .
As a mother you should be there to help and solve her emotional , psychological and fi... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's lying?
Q. Very confused, need some help please. So my man is a tow truck driver so he works all the time. The problam is that he does impounds on the week end and is gone until about 3 am, sometimes when he gets home he smells like alchol and when i ask him ...
A. 8 June 2008: Hire a PI or get a friend to monitor him.
You will have the proof.
Men are creatures of habit.
They do the same thing everyday.
... (read in full...)
She broke my heart and it took me months to get over her. Now after 9 months she texts me out of the blue and my wound reopened, what do I do now?
Q. Dear All..I have a major head masher...my ex and i split 9 months ago. It was messy, she told me i was the best, we made love, i kissed her as she left for work etc....then that evening, i was dumped...my heart laying bleeding...anyway, Its taken me...
A. 8 June 2008: When she is lonely and blue , she thinks of you .
Do not go back to her because she would be only using you and
you will be shown the exit when she finds someone else.
You are expendable.
Save yourself from a second heartbreak!
Mov... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex without protection and still not get pregnant?
Q. is there a time when you can have sex without protection and stil not get preg?...
A. 8 June 2008: Anytime you have unprotected sex , you run the risk of getting pregnant.
There is no safe time . Better be safe than sorry.
If anyone tell you there is a 100% safe period,
you believed at your own perils!!!!... (read in full...)
She is not sexually attracted but loves me?
Q. i have been dating a girl for two years now and just the other day we were having a fight and she told me she wasn't sexually attracted to me at all. What should I do? She says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me....
A. 8 June 2008: Words spoken in a fight or anger should not be taken into considerations.
She was just lashing out.
You should not take it to heart.
Forgive her and move past this episode in your life.
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes.... (read in full...)
He thinks my sisters picture is me - Help!
Q. Hello, I'm a 24 year old female who has had a rough life I've been using my sisters pictures as passing them off that that's me for about a year now. She knows about it and thought it was funny. Now I've met a great guy who I'm totally in love ...
A. 8 June 2008: I think you should give him the surprise when you meet him.
This way , you get to meet him for sure.
If you tell him now , you may run the risk not meeting him.
You may hint to him that you look abit different from that picture.
Do not ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and he acts like nothing changed!
Q. Okay, I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend acts as if nothing has changed. I mean, we're still together I guess, and he stays at my apartment usually but lately..it's as if everything else is more important to him. I''ve always had a perfect ...
A. 8 June 2008: Everything will pass.
He may have his own worries and he may just not know how to
handle your situation or relate to your pregnancy.
Him being there with you is expressive of his love for you ,
even though he may not have expressed... (read in full...)
Why does he bait me and how do I stop it?
Q. I almost started a relationship with a guy I worked with through volunteer work. I found out he was married and stopped things in their tracks. I still see him at the volunteer meetings. It seems I cannot win with him. He told me he wanted to speak...
A. 8 June 2008: It is better to run away than fight with the devil.
There are other volunteer organizations you can join.
If you stay , you will be continually subjected to his
bombardments and may weaken your resolve.
I will choose the flee options.
... (read in full...)
We fought and stopped visiting - now I think he is seeing someone else!
Q. I have a long distance relationship with my bf. I visit him once or twice a month. We are planning to move in together when we find a place, but it is taking longer than expected. Last month I had a fight with him about his phone calls with his...
A. 8 June 2008: You have possessive love and it is not easy for a man to accept you.
If you love him , you will need to close one eye and if you cannot , then you need to move on.
You do not appear to be high on his list.
To some man , his ex is sacrosan... (read in full...)
How to get over my soon to be ex-husband?
Q. How do i get over my soon to be ex husband? My husband and i have had a 13 year relationship. On again off again most of the time. We got back together in 2004 and married the next year. The marriage lasted only a year. He wasn't ready and he had...
A. 8 June 2008: Forgive him , bless him and wish him all the luck as you go on rebuilding your life without him.
You don't have to depend on anyone to give you happiness.
You create your own happiness.
Be in the driver's seat.
Go where you want to go... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are both really shy around each other. Does anyone have any tips?
Q. dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been going out for over a year now and we are both still really shy around each other. can you please give us some tips on how to overcome that shyness? ...
A. 8 June 2008: You can Google that question and find many online tips.
Be bold, be more affirmative and venture out of your comfort zones.
Try new things,explore, prod here and there and experiment with new concepts.
Relax and do not be afraid to make mi... (read in full...)
Why would a guy choose to wear a condom even when we are using the pill?
Q. im not complaining about the fact my bf wants to wear a condom. we started with them then after 8 months we just used the pill now 6 months later he wants to use them again which i dont mind but why would a guy want to start using them again? he ...
A. 8 June 2008: It is possible that he wants to be doubly sure that you won't
get pregnant as the pill is not 100% safe or due to human error ,you forget to take them .
It is possible also that he may not trust you with the pills
because you might wan... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend's boyfriend and now I'm pregnant.
Q. i need help and quick. im 13 and about three months ago i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend. i regret it, because im pregnant. i dont know how to tell people. let alone my best friend. please help....
A. 8 June 2008: You might like to look up this site for more helpful info's.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/unplannedpregnancy.htm
In the UK, girls younger than 16 will still be allowed to
have abortions without their parents' consent, ... (read in full...)
He's a workaholic. Should I let him go?
Q. dear guru at first i really liked this guy im dating but because of his workaholic habits and the fact that he has no romantic bone in his body im kinda turned off i like him but i feel he is not the one for me should i go with my gut feeling ...
A. 8 June 2008: 'All work and no play will make Jack a dull boy.'... (read in full...)
I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?
Q. Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...
A. 8 June 2008: You cannot get pregnant from anal sex if you are wearing a condom.
There is a risk of getting pregnant if no condom is used as
there could be leakage as the penis may hit the wrong target
or he ejaculates on your outside or when you was... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 8 June 2008:
This is a very good article here ;-
The Christian View of Sex
A Time for Apologetics, Not Apologies
by
Janet E. Smith
University of Dallas
http://www.nfpoutreach.org/Sex.htm... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: Sorry the link only send you to YouTube.
You need to type 'Battle at Kruger' in the search window.
or go to this link
http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/08/13/battle-at-kruger/... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: BATTLE AT KRUGER..!
Watch this amazing real life video about a battle in the African savannah.
How several lions attack a group of buffalo's, snatching a buffalo calf.
It was filmed by US tourist Dave Budzinski while he was on a guided safar... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 7 June 2008: He is like a shadow.
When you chase a shadow , you know the shadow will run away from you.
You need to ignore him and leave him to sulk like a little boy.
When he grows up , then he may come back for you.
Otherwise, say goodbye to him... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 7 June 2008: Do Women have Roving Eyes As Well?
I suppose no one talks about women being the worst oglers.
It is always the problems of men ogling at women in here.
Either men are not aware or they are just obtuse or dense..
http://www.pinksuzie.co... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 7 June 2008: We ALWAYS have a choice: lie or don't lie.
Being 'TRUTHFUL' or being 'HURTFUL?'
Should you tell the truth and nothing but the truth all the time?
In court , you will have to tell the whole truth and nothing
but the truth or you would be... (read in full...)
He says he's suffering from loss of sex drive, but has been using porn as 'relief.' I'm confused!
Q. My partner has confessed that he is suffering from loss of sex drive. I recently found porn on his PC and he says that he used it as relief. He said that if guys don't have sex for a long time, their testicles fill up with semen and it can cause ...
A. 7 June 2008: If a man is suffering from a low sex drive,
he would not be interested in porn too.
I don't see any logic in having a low sex drive and jacking off with porn.
This is a bit queer.
His low sex drive could be either stress from work or
... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008: Mice and cats and most animals will only eat their young's if they were born sickly or unhealthy.
I have never read of herding animals will kick and kill their own young to protect the herd.
When a herd of buffalo's are attacked by lion... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 7 June 2008: If you think it is disrespectful then it is disrespectful,
because it is you and not another.
Some men can undress women with their eyes.
Some men can commit adultery with their eyes.
Some men have no controls over their eyes.
I a... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 7 June 2008: Each of us are unique and we are not the same .
We are only human and sometimes we make mistakes in life.
But if we does not learn from our mistakes then we are like fools.
"Once bitten , twice shy.
Twice bitten , never to come agai... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008:
"It IS possible to have an abortion and actually be *happy* with that decision. "
I do not agree with this statement .
How can you be happy snuffing out the life of another living
being who is perfect and innocent so that you can enj... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008: If you are worried about the financial cost of bringing up the baby,
you can get the state grants from the Works and Pension Department in your area or you can surf on this link ;-
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/index.htm
Type ,'child support'... (read in full...)
He says he's suffering from loss of sex drive, but has been using porn as 'relief.' I'm confused!
Q. My partner has confessed that he is suffering from loss of sex drive. I recently found porn on his PC and he says that he used it as relief. He said that if guys don't have sex for a long time, their testicles fill up with semen and it can cause ...
A. 6 June 2008: If a man does not have sex or masturbate ,
his sperms will be stored in a reservoir.
If he is young, he will have wet dreams to release those sperms.
If he does not do it naturally , he will have sexual tensions.
Sometimes , those sexua... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 6 June 2008: I am sorry , I don't think I will subscribe to the idea of
letting a 15 years old to make a major and important decision of her own in her life.
Do you think they are matured and rational enough to understand the consequences of their actions... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 6 June 2008: Don't be a sad mommie.
You should be happy and blessed to have a grandchild.
Children are a blessings from God.
Look at it from the positive angle.
When you hold your grandchild in your arms ,
you will find there is no other joys ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even if you have the most perfect boobs,
he would still want to look at other boobs.
He is simply attracted to the many varieties of boobs.
You cannot ask a man not to look at another boob...LOL!
His eyes are made for looking.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even married people were once strangers.
Therefore, without patience and the effort to understand one
another, things are likely not to go well.
We need patience in order to become happy.
There are many who dream about experiencing hap... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: In any relationship , there ought to have trust and respect.
Thus if you want your relationship to be healthy and strong,
you will need to set your limits and boundaries.
Tell him your limits and boundaries and if he breaks them ,
then... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: You have a right to feel that way .
If he really loves you , he should give up porn to make you happy and satisfied.
That is what love is all about.
This won't sink into his head until you threatened to leave
him or you compromise o... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I am happy to hear that you are not trying to control him
but sometimes the other side's perceptive may not share the same views.
Two people can view the same incident but have different views and perspectives.
Some men may resent your intr... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Women and men are wired differently.
Your hormones are not the same.
Each of us have our own private thoughts and privacy even in a marriage or relationship.
We should allow them some privacy in their life and not control 100% of them.
... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I said most men (not all) like to look at porn.
DiovanLestat.
Those men who don't watch porn are the dead, the unborn, the
hypocrites, those blind, those self righteous and holier
than thou types, those wolves in sheep's clothings, tho... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Jesus said,"Why don't you cast your burdens unto me?'
If you have done that , then you will feel free from that guilt.
If you believe in God, then you should forgive yourself and have faith in His words.
"You have been forgiven, child!"
... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: For those women who cannot come to terms with the men's
viewing of porn,
I suggest they dump their imperfect partners and look for a puritanical males or don't marry .
Good luck to them.... (read in full...)
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