Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 19 June 2008: Wishing you all the best and hope that you will find your next perfect man.
I hope you won't have regrets or remorse from this decision somewhere down the road.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 9 June 2008: When he loved you , it did not matter as your previous marriage was only on paper.
Even if he found out , it would not change anything.
But when he does not love you ,it can become a bone of contention .
A man's perspective can change d... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 9 June 2008: You cannot expect people to change 100% over night.
If she can change 10% or 20% , that is good enough.
The process of change have started and you could give them more time.
Keep the wheels rolling...
Don't go into the game of pro... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 9 June 2008: There are two extreme camps on this porn issue.
On one extreme is the hardcore porn lovers and on the other extreme is the anti hardcore porn haters.
Many of us are in the middle and we can live with some porn in moderations.
One cannot conv... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 8 June 2008: No man is perfect . Every man have their vices.
It is either ogling at other women , watching porn ,
alcoholics, flirting ,smoking, video games,workaholics etc.
... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: Women may be at risk of mental health breakdowns if they have
abortions, a medical royal college has warned.
The Royal College of Psychiatrists says women should not be
allowed to have an abortion until they are counselled on the possib... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 8 June 2008: In this age and time , finding a virgin girl is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
You are not alone. We are not living in the old Testament times where sex outside of marriage is frowned upon.
You need to accept that times have chang... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: You are a team now and if she slags,
you will have to pull more.
There is no such thing as a separation of duties.
You cannot be too calculative .
As a mother you should be there to help and solve her emotional , psychological and fi... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 8 June 2008:
This is a very good article here ;-
The Christian View of Sex
A Time for Apologetics, Not Apologies
by
Janet E. Smith
University of Dallas
http://www.nfpoutreach.org/Sex.htm... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: Sorry the link only send you to YouTube.
You need to type 'Battle at Kruger' in the search window.
or go to this link
http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/08/13/battle-at-kruger/... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 8 June 2008: BATTLE AT KRUGER..!
Watch this amazing real life video about a battle in the African savannah.
How several lions attack a group of buffalo's, snatching a buffalo calf.
It was filmed by US tourist Dave Budzinski while he was on a guided safar... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 7 June 2008: Do Women have Roving Eyes As Well?
I suppose no one talks about women being the worst oglers.
It is always the problems of men ogling at women in here.
Either men are not aware or they are just obtuse or dense..
http://www.pinksuzie.co... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 7 June 2008: We ALWAYS have a choice: lie or don't lie.
Being 'TRUTHFUL' or being 'HURTFUL?'
Should you tell the truth and nothing but the truth all the time?
In court , you will have to tell the whole truth and nothing
but the truth or you would be... (read in full...)
He says he's suffering from loss of sex drive, but has been using porn as 'relief.' I'm confused!
Q. My partner has confessed that he is suffering from loss of sex drive. I recently found porn on his PC and he says that he used it as relief. He said that if guys don't have sex for a long time, their testicles fill up with semen and it can cause ...
A. 7 June 2008: If a man is suffering from a low sex drive,
he would not be interested in porn too.
I don't see any logic in having a low sex drive and jacking off with porn.
This is a bit queer.
His low sex drive could be either stress from work or
... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 7 June 2008: "It is also possible not to sleep with a guy and he doesn't see you again."
Well! What can you say to that?
Good riddance!. LOL!
Your case could be the minority.
Even if you sleep with the guy on the first date,
there is no guarantee ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008: Mice and cats and most animals will only eat their young's if they were born sickly or unhealthy.
I have never read of herding animals will kick and kill their own young to protect the herd.
When a herd of buffalo's are attacked by lion... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 7 June 2008: If you think it is disrespectful then it is disrespectful,
because it is you and not another.
Some men can undress women with their eyes.
Some men can commit adultery with their eyes.
Some men have no controls over their eyes.
I a... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: He who sets a trap for others will himself fall into it.
I hope he has enough funds to pay to his solicitors.
He will only ruin himself.... (read in full...)
I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?
Q. I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their ...
A. 7 June 2008: Cannot blame you for being jealous of his child because s/he is getting more attentions than you.
Even some wives can be jealous in that way when the men
lavish more attentions on the child than to them.
If you love him , then you need to t... (read in full...)
They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?
Q. everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?...
A. 7 June 2008: Don't let peer pressure affects you.
Only time will tell who is right or wrong.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: The only thing she could do is to wish him 'Goodbye and good riddance!'
When there is no more love in him , why do you want him to remain?
Your lie was just an excuse for a divorce.
You have reached a watershed with him and must part differ... (read in full...)
Is 5 years a big age gap?
Q. i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 25 years of age..so do u think 5 years of age gap between us makes a difference..do u think he is too old for me????...
A. 7 June 2008: If the dress fits you , you are not going to be worried
about what other people think about it.
It is your choice and your style.
You dress for yourself or for others?... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 7 June 2008: Each of us are unique and we are not the same .
We are only human and sometimes we make mistakes in life.
But if we does not learn from our mistakes then we are like fools.
"Once bitten , twice shy.
Twice bitten , never to come agai... (read in full...)
Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?
Q. hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????...
A. 7 June 2008: A gay can become straight later and a straight can become gay later.
How and why they change, nobody knows.
It is just one's sexual preferences.
There is no right or wrong on this matter except in some self
righteous and holier than tho... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008:
"It IS possible to have an abortion and actually be *happy* with that decision. "
I do not agree with this statement .
How can you be happy snuffing out the life of another living
being who is perfect and innocent so that you can enj... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 7 June 2008: If you are worried about the financial cost of bringing up the baby,
you can get the state grants from the Works and Pension Department in your area or you can surf on this link ;-
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/index.htm
Type ,'child support'... (read in full...)
Should I give my husband a second chance after he cheated and had a child behind my back?
Q. March of this year was the worse month of my life. I found out my husband of 5 years, had cheated on me 3 years ago. During that affair they conceived a child. The child is now around 3 years old and I never knew anything about her. I received a l...
A. 7 June 2008: I would concur with 'Oldfool's' opinion.
One should not judge him and punish him regarding his relationship with his children.
The children are innocent and withholding his love from them is not quite right.
The only ones to suffer would be ... (read in full...)
He says he's suffering from loss of sex drive, but has been using porn as 'relief.' I'm confused!
Q. My partner has confessed that he is suffering from loss of sex drive. I recently found porn on his PC and he says that he used it as relief. He said that if guys don't have sex for a long time, their testicles fill up with semen and it can cause ...
A. 6 June 2008: If a man does not have sex or masturbate ,
his sperms will be stored in a reservoir.
If he is young, he will have wet dreams to release those sperms.
If he does not do it naturally , he will have sexual tensions.
Sometimes , those sexua... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 6 June 2008: Men like challenges and if a girl sleeps on the first date, she is a pushover and not a worthy target.
Men are like hunters and it is the chase that is thrilling and not the capture of the prey.
When the prey or target is captured, it is ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 6 June 2008: I am sorry , I don't think I will subscribe to the idea of
letting a 15 years old to make a major and important decision of her own in her life.
Do you think they are matured and rational enough to understand the consequences of their actions... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 6 June 2008: Don't be a sad mommie.
You should be happy and blessed to have a grandchild.
Children are a blessings from God.
Look at it from the positive angle.
When you hold your grandchild in your arms ,
you will find there is no other joys ... (read in full...)
He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...
A. 6 June 2008: In my opinions, I think you should give him the reasons why you are leaving him.
You have to give him the right to defend or explain .
It is more fairer this way.
Otherwise it could be a misunderstanding or miscommunication.
Bet... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even if you have the most perfect boobs,
he would still want to look at other boobs.
He is simply attracted to the many varieties of boobs.
You cannot ask a man not to look at another boob...LOL!
His eyes are made for looking.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even married people were once strangers.
Therefore, without patience and the effort to understand one
another, things are likely not to go well.
We need patience in order to become happy.
There are many who dream about experiencing hap... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: In any relationship , there ought to have trust and respect.
Thus if you want your relationship to be healthy and strong,
you will need to set your limits and boundaries.
Tell him your limits and boundaries and if he breaks them ,
then... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: You have a right to feel that way .
If he really loves you , he should give up porn to make you happy and satisfied.
That is what love is all about.
This won't sink into his head until you threatened to leave
him or you compromise o... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I am happy to hear that you are not trying to control him
but sometimes the other side's perceptive may not share the same views.
Two people can view the same incident but have different views and perspectives.
Some men may resent your intr... (read in full...)
He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...
A. 5 June 2008: If he comes from a feudalistic society like those
Emperors,Kings, Sultans and Maharajahs then he is right.
If he treats you like a consort or queen,
then you may close one eye or both eyes..LOL!
If you are willing to share this 'gener... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Women and men are wired differently.
Your hormones are not the same.
Each of us have our own private thoughts and privacy even in a marriage or relationship.
We should allow them some privacy in their life and not control 100% of them.
... (read in full...)
My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?
Q. My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am ...
A. 5 June 2008: If you want to make him understand, talking to him is useless.
He will treat it as nagging and will ignore you .
The only way he understands is through actions.
Pack your bags and leave till he hoist the white flag of surrender .
He wil... (read in full...)
Should I trust the Rhythm method?
Q. I have recently decided to come off the pill after years of being on it because I am trying to adapt a more healthy lifestyle and dont like the idea of all these stuff interfering with my body's natural system. When my husband and I have sex he alwa...
A. 5 June 2008: Even the safest method , the pill is not 100% safe.
You may still get pregnant in rare cases.
There are no 100% safe contraceptive methods
... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I said most men (not all) like to look at porn.
DiovanLestat.
Those men who don't watch porn are the dead, the unborn, the
hypocrites, those blind, those self righteous and holier
than thou types, those wolves in sheep's clothings, tho... (read in full...)
Should a 25 year old man take viagra?
Q. should a 25 year old man take viagra? im only asking this because latley ive felt very stressed and am finding it difficult to perform,the strange thing is i feel turned on but my penis wont become erect,what do you think the problem may be?...
A. 5 June 2008: Your problem is most probably stress.
It can lower or kill your libido.
Eat well, sleep well, regular exercise and learn to relax and detress.
Your batteries will be recharged.
... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 5 June 2008: Here's my take on those questions.
Why does this guy want to be with a 16 year old?
Because they found love in each other.
He maybe old in age but he is still like an adolescent kid.
What do you actually have in common?
Loving each o... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Jesus said,"Why don't you cast your burdens unto me?'
If you have done that , then you will feel free from that guilt.
If you believe in God, then you should forgive yourself and have faith in His words.
"You have been forgiven, child!"
... (read in full...)
Can we overcome this? He has issues with my past and my self confidence is low...
Q. Ok, I'm having a lot of doubts here. Me and my bf have been having problems. We've been together for almost two years, and we're mostly happy. But for ayear or so, there have been issues. It's about my past. I always had this "feeling" that h...
A. 5 June 2008: You need to constantly reassure him that you will be telling
nothing but the truth from now onwards.
Tell only the truth and no more lies to him.
Leave the past alone as there is nothing you can do about it.
Live in the present and enjoy... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my wife wanting to be a surrogate mother to help her twin sister have a child?
Q. Hi everyone. I came home Monday happy to be home to my wife and our newborn twins. I was met at the door by my wife who excitely told me that she wants to carry a baby for her twin sister. She is 41. Her sister recently recovered from breast canc...
A. 5 June 2008: There are other options to have a baby .
Go for an IVF and a surrogate woman.
You can read my article here;-
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/12/09/designer-babies-rent-a-womb-woman/
Your wife is more closer to her twin sister than t... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: For those women who cannot come to terms with the men's
viewing of porn,
I suggest they dump their imperfect partners and look for a puritanical males or don't marry .
Good luck to them.... (read in full...)
Why do women say they want to remain friends after they've dumped you?
Q. Hi Can any women help? What is the real reason you want to 'stay friends' with a guy you have dumped? My g/f dumped me 3 months ago after a few arguments but wants to stay friends. I have asked her to get back but she said no, so she doesn't ...
A. 5 June 2008: You are like being the car's spare tire.
If her new tires get bald or punctured, you maybe her answer.
It is one of those options when you are just friends and can be upgraded when she wants it.
Sometimes , you may never know ,a friend can... (read in full...)
My lover says its not a relationship!
Q. I have a problem. I like a guy who is really brilliant and has always been straight with me. He says he fancies me too, However he told me not to expect a relationship. I'm sleeping with him and all he says is 'we'll see' about the relation...
A. 5 June 2008: Keep your options open.
Go out with other guys and see you will provoke any jealous
reactions from him or get him down from that pedestal.
Good Luck.... (read in full...)
We just have sex. Why can't I say no?
Q. Sorry this is kinda long but i really need some advice and please no rude answers!! There is this guy who I lost my virginity to. he's 21 and I'm 18, we're both in college. we have a lot in common and he said that he liked me but just got out of a ...
A. 5 June 2008: If you want to learn how to say 'NO!"
Go stand infront of the mirror and practice saying 'NO!' a 100x.
See your own natural reactions and pick that stern face .
Rehearsed it and fine tuned it to perfections.
... (read in full...)
Some men put work before their women, how is a proper ordering of priorities?
Q. What ranking is a woman meant to come in their partners life?? What should be coming before them and after?? Some men put work before them, is this right?? Or should a women come before work?? Just a general question really. Something me and...
A. 5 June 2008: Generally speaking a man's priority list should look like this.
1)God
2)Self
3)Career
4)Wife
5)Children
6)Mother
For some the mother maybe on the 4th spot higher than the wife.
For the wife she expects this priority list.
... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: To My Friends Who Are………… HEARTBROKEN !
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks
but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are………… NAIVE !
How to be... (read in full...)
I feel as I am running out of solutions and am considering prostitution...
Q. i want to be a prostitute i am struggling with money at the moment and i need some to help me life and enjoy myself i live in england does anyone no of how i can do it or of any agencies to call ? ...
A. 4 June 2008: If you are intelligent , witty and have the looks , try social escorts.
Know any friends in this line or check it up with those agencies.(Google it online)
Before you venture into this call girl business, you may like to read my thoughts here... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: If he has commitment issues, then he is not in the marriage market.
Do not waste your time .You will only go back to first base.
To My Friends Who Are………… STILL HOLDING ON ..
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love... (read in full...)
Should I give my husband a second chance after he cheated and had a child behind my back?
Q. March of this year was the worse month of my life. I found out my husband of 5 years, had cheated on me 3 years ago. During that affair they conceived a child. The child is now around 3 years old and I never knew anything about her. I received a l...
A. 4 June 2008: The rice has been cooked , it is up to you if you want to eat it or throw it to the dogs.
Do not do anything out of anger.
Let everything cool down first and let rationality returns before you take any decisive actions.
Doing anything ... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 2 June 2008: Not every 16 year old have the same maturity levels.
To group them as too young and simply don't know anything
about love or life is to view the world through our own experience and myopic views.
You are 16 and according to your countr... (read in full...)
My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?
Q. My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am ...
A. 4 May 2008:
Some people are too blind .
They can only see with their eyes but not with their hearts.
And the eyes can only see the surface of things.
Do not be rash or too quick to judge a person or u could
regret for the wrong decisions. ... (read in full...)
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