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Should I let him be or keep trying?

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Question - (21 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i need help on this one..

me and my bf split up 2weeks ago and yet i still dont know what to do!!i was with my bf for 7months and ive fell for him big time..

he got into abit of trouble in the past is due up in court soon and this was part of his reason for getting up and going he said hes just afraid but is this really the reason??

i think he got up and left was because his ex keeps telling him she still loves him but yet she has a baby with his best friend and i think he still has feelings for her...does he??am i being paranoid??

he always tells me he loves me and would never hurt me but hes so depressed and tells me i can do better but i dont want better i love him and dont care about what hes done in the past and i told him that last week when he cme up to talk about us....

should i leave him be for a while or keep tryin to win his heart back?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 May 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf you lead a horse to a well and if the horse is not

thirsty ,he will not drink even if you put a bucket of water under his mouth.

You should call a time out and go out and enjoy yourself and set this problem aside for the time being.

You cannot get an instant answer now and only time will show you the truth when the time comes.

In time, you will see the bigger picture and know what is the right and appropriate actions to take.

Don't go chasing the rainbows or the winds that blow here and there.

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A female reader, Aeval Australia +, writes (22 May 2008):

Aeval agony auntDarlingheart, I may sound harsh but I say leave. Go and have some fun in your life, your too young to worry about this type of thing now! It sounds like he has unresolved issues with his ex and with going to court ect. Let him sort those issues out and although its an old saying the worlds "if you love someone set them free, they will come back if it was ment to be"....

Good luck !

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