How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 30 June 2008: Relax, he is just a normal hot blooded male .
If any male is not interested to look at pictures of naked women ,
I think he is not from this world or a hypocrite of the highest order.
He would not be interested in any females too.
You ... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 29 June 2008: “The important thing is not what they think of me,
but what I think of them.”
Queen Victoria, 1819-1901.... (read in full...)
Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!
Q. This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressuri...
A. 28 June 2008: Everything comes in a full circle . It is called Karma.
Whether she has a right to be mad at you or not ,only time will tell.
Put yourself in her shoes and see from her perspective.
If you cannot accept it , it does not mean that you are ri... (read in full...)
He masturbates to porn--would phone sex and webcam use make him masturbate to me??
Q. Okay. So my boyfriend has been lying to me about masturbating to other girls for about a year. I found tons of porn on his computer yesterday. I am really angry at him and I was wondering if phone sex would make him masturbate to me? And possibly if ...
A. 27 June 2008: You may achieve a limited success by doing that but it is a man's nature to seek varieties in their fantasies.
Hence the masturbating to porn with all types of girls .
Men and women have different sexual fantasies.
Accept the difference... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 27 June 2008: Firstly ,you cannot stop him or police him from looking at naked pictures of women. He has been brought up that way .
Secondly , he does not think like you because he is not a woman.
Generally speaking ,most men just enjoy the beauty and do no... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what being a prostitute is really like? And is it dangerous?
Q. I'm 20 and i have a house, which i'm renting, but i recently lost my job and i owe rent. I also owe money for other things. Someone i know has said they can get me a job as a prostitute, i don't know if i can do it, or if i'm that desparate. Does ...
A. 25 June 2008: The greatest fear and scourge in this profession is AIDS or STD's and cancer.
Some clients may not want to use the condoms..
Too many sexual partners can run the higher risk of getting cervical cancer.... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what being a prostitute is really like? And is it dangerous?
Q. I'm 20 and i have a house, which i'm renting, but i recently lost my job and i owe rent. I also owe money for other things. Someone i know has said they can get me a job as a prostitute, i don't know if i can do it, or if i'm that desparate. Does ...
A. 24 June 2008: Prostitution is like the bright lamp that attracts all those fly and insects to it. Like flys , they will not last long .
No one ventures into this profession if they had a choice .
It is only when they have no other alternatives or ... (read in full...)
Our kids live with me, can she force me to do a DNA test to prove they're not all mine and take them away?
Q. Split up with my long term girlfriend last year and she's been trying to make life difficult for me since. Our kids live with me and that's where they want to be. Now she wants a DNA test to prove they're not all mine. I'm not going to willingly do ...
A. 24 June 2008: If she goes to the courts and the court mandates a DNA ,
there is no way you can avoid it.
As to who will have custody will depend on that judge,
it is entirely a different matter .
The court will decide who to grant the custody to after a... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what being a prostitute is really like? And is it dangerous?
Q. I'm 20 and i have a house, which i'm renting, but i recently lost my job and i owe rent. I also owe money for other things. Someone i know has said they can get me a job as a prostitute, i don't know if i can do it, or if i'm that desparate. Does ...
A. 23 June 2008: If you have no job and no money , you cannot pay your debts.
You can put your debts on hold temporarily till you have the money.
In the UK, you can apply for dole since you are unemployed.
This should tide you over until you get a job.
... (read in full...)
Our divorce is nasty and he won't talk to me..how can I get him to communicate?
Q. I am in the process of getting divorced and my husband sees his son alternate weekends. When he comes he will ring on his phone to tell my son to be ready and if I come to the door to answer he will not look at my face. On drop off he will drop at ...
A. 23 June 2008: Obviously your soft approach to this problem does not work on him.
You need to change track and try another way.
Since he does not care about paying an exorbitant sum to his lawyers,
there is no way you can stop him.
Desist your eff... (read in full...)
Our divorce is nasty and he won't talk to me..how can I get him to communicate?
Q. I am in the process of getting divorced and my husband sees his son alternate weekends. When he comes he will ring on his phone to tell my son to be ready and if I come to the door to answer he will not look at my face. On drop off he will drop at ...
A. 22 June 2008: Mirror back his actions and let him feel what it is like.
Better still if you can magnify his actions and show that you can play that game too.
Give him his own medicine with extra dose and he will change when he is at the receiving end.
... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he isn't in love with me any more. Should I keep trying?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 5years. The last 6months ive had depression and i didnt no, but in that time i said nasty stuff to him that i didnt mean. Last weekend we broke up over the phone as we live with his parents in their garage and it was ...
A. 21 June 2008: When he sees you are dating another guy ,
he may come rushing back to you.
The thought of totally losing you has not sunk into his mind yet.
Do not wait for him. You need to move on with your life.
... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he isn't in love with me any more. Should I keep trying?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 5years. The last 6months ive had depression and i didnt no, but in that time i said nasty stuff to him that i didnt mean. Last weekend we broke up over the phone as we live with his parents in their garage and it was ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sorry about your problems.
Life is short and you need to think positive and not negative.
If the old does not go , the new will not come.
When one door closes , another will open.
Don't go chasing after him , he will instinctively run ... (read in full...)
I get no pleasure from vaginal sex, any advice please?
Q. hey....well i don't really do things like this but i feel its my only last option!!!! i lost my virginity last year,obv it wasn't that nice and i got no pleasure but iv'e been having sex regualary since,my problem is that i get no pleasure whatsoe...
A. 19 June 2008: I suggest you read up the info on this link.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/helpwithorgasms.htm... (read in full...)
I get no pleasure from vaginal sex, any advice please?
Q. hey....well i don't really do things like this but i feel its my only last option!!!! i lost my virginity last year,obv it wasn't that nice and i got no pleasure but iv'e been having sex regualary since,my problem is that i get no pleasure whatsoe...
A. 19 June 2008: A survey indicated that only 30% of women achieve orgasm from penetration alone. Most women need stimulation of the clitoris by hand or oral to reach climax.... (read in full...)
My future mother-in-law sent 60 invitations and made arrangements for a formal dinner for the wedding but we have no money!??
Q. I am eighteen, have no parents and share a flat with two other girls. I am getting married at the end of the year to an only son whose parents, naturally worship him. His mother thinks I am going to turn him against her, which is the last thing I ...
A. 19 June 2008: Congratulations on your coming wedding.
The problem is not yours.
It is between your MIL and her son.
You just go along with their plans.
I am sure your MIL has a contingency plan or she would not
have gone ahead to issue those ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 19 June 2008: Wishing you all the best and hope that you will find your next perfect man.
I hope you won't have regrets or remorse from this decision somewhere down the road.... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 17 June 2008: He loves you but not the responsibilities or obligations as a b/f.It is like loving from afar.It is like still living in a fantasy and not in the real world.... (read in full...)
I get depressed about my "small" boobs...
Q. im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...
A. 16 June 2008: Don't fret, you have a b/f and God compensates you with other perfect body parts. Love is more important than anything else.
This is a lovely poem for you to read .
My heavenly gift..
Oh I wish I had boobs that would wobble.
Mine just sta... (read in full...)
Are these signs I need glasses?
Q. When I read I begin to get a headache come on and I need to blink excessively and my eyes sometimes water. The sun and computer screens make my eyes hurt after a while even when distanced away from me. I've begun leaving curtains closed wh...
A. 15 June 2008: "Getting a headache when you try to read and/or view computer screens is sometimes a symptom of long-sightedness that can be corrected by wearing glasses."
This is only true if the patient is middle age from 32 and above.
Since the OP is only a... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 15 June 2008: He wants to be free and not to be tied down like a couple.
He wants more independent from you.
To do things without having to think of you or consider your feelings.
It is a time where he wants to explore and see the world without feelin... (read in full...)
What's best for my child's sake? Do I stay or leave?
Q. Hi, i'm in a relationship of 8 years, and in the end we don't sleep with each other, or ever kiss or hug, i dont want to kiss her. I have one child and i think that i'm in it for her, so i can look after her. Our relationship has been dead for year...
A. 12 June 2008: If you don't love her and want out ,
you can talk to her about a divorce and settle the question of
who should have custody of the child.
You need to settle amicably with her for the terms of the separations .
Talk to her . Give and ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 12 June 2008: You can obtain a judgment by default against him and is binding.... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me at his birthday party! He thinks I was 'easy' in my past!
Q. I'm so hurt and angry! My bf of almost 2 years is having a birthday party tomorrow. Ok, it's not exactly a party, it's just that his friends and classmates have planned to take him clubbing tomorrow night. The thing is, this guy is so hung up...
A. 12 June 2008: Do you like this kind of life?
If you don't , you have the power to change things.
If you cannot get the satisfaction or happiness.
why stay in that relationship?
It is up to you to decide what you want from life and you do
not hav... (read in full...)
What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?
Q. I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me....
A. 12 June 2008: Glad to hear that it turned out right.
Sometimes it is just faulty communications problem.
He is a man and he thinks differently.
It is always good to get confirmations or miscommunications would occur.
... (read in full...)
My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!
Q. So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined ...
A. 11 June 2008: 3 1/2 years is quite a long time . The chances of him being a Casanova or fly by night cheater is slim.
But it is prudent to go over to his place to check him out before you want to marry him.
Good luck and all the best to you.
... (read in full...)
I my love only worth 11 thousand euros?
Q. hi cupid, me and my husband just got married and he said he love me, he wanted to buy a house and lot for me, cost 11thousand euro" is that all he can give to me? is that all how much he love me? shall i not complain and accept what he can give, ev...
A. 11 June 2008: I would agree with female anon.
Some girls have the liberty to choose the Western culture or
the Eastern traditional culture whenever it is advantageous to them.
In the traditional mode, a girl expects the men to be the
bread winner and... (read in full...)
I my love only worth 11 thousand euros?
Q. hi cupid, me and my husband just got married and he said he love me, he wanted to buy a house and lot for me, cost 11thousand euro" is that all he can give to me? is that all how much he love me? shall i not complain and accept what he can give, ev...
A. 10 June 2008: 1 Euro = M$5.00 .
11,000 Euros = Rm55,000.00
It depends on where you live in Malaysia.
You can get a terrace or a link house in the rural or some sub urban areas.
You have not offered much information here.
Is your husband a forei... (read in full...)
Not sure why we broke up but he wants to be friends. Should I stay in contact?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm feeling very confused right now. My boyfriend of nine months broke it off a little over a week ago. I knew he'd been having a few doubts after attending some of his friends' weddings, but we had decided to talk things over and ...
A. 10 June 2008: It is no harm to meet him for one more time
but you should not expect too high from this meeting.
Go there , meet him , act and talk normally and then part amicably as friends.
Don't dig up the past but to move on , to each his/her own ways... (read in full...)
Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?
Q. I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...
A. 10 June 2008: Yeah! Let the past go and live in the present.
That was a wise decision.
Congrats to your coming engagement with your b/f.... (read in full...)
My daughter is 19, unmarried and pregnant. Any pointers?
Q. My daughter is 19 and lives with her bf. I was against that decision, but she's grown. Now, she tells me that she is pregnant, I don't know how to handle the situation without alienating her. I don't approve because she is not married. It's not what ...
A. 10 June 2008: Congrats to you and your daughter!
That's the way to go.
Bless them and always be there for them when they need you.... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 9 June 2008: Thanks for your update.
You need to think of yourself first and not sell your soul down the river to some heartless and soulless creature.
... (read in full...)
My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!
Q. A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about ...
A. 9 June 2008: Congratulations! Happy fatherhood to you!... (read in full...)
He told me he loves me. Does he?
Q. ive been with my boyfrriend for over a year and a half,weve been through a lot and we get on really well although we are very different .he told me loves me but how do i know whether he really loves me or not.please help!...
A. 9 June 2008: Don't see him for a few days and see if he misses you .
Gauge his reactions .
See if he puts you first or his job or his hobby's.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?
Q. Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?...
A. 9 June 2008: Yes! it is possible to have sex with a semi erect penis but
you cannot thrust as hard like a hard on penis and you may not be able to ejaculate .
It is no fun for the women.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 9 June 2008: When he loved you , it did not matter as your previous marriage was only on paper.
Even if he found out , it would not change anything.
But when he does not love you ,it can become a bone of contention .
A man's perspective can change d... (read in full...)
I'm 12 years old and depressed!
Q. im depressed.im 12 years old.i've already wrote a poem that said i would run away and never come back.i dont know what to do.my dad can die any time now.my family treats like im a nobody.i dont have much friends.the ones i have never thinks of me.im ...
A. 9 June 2008: Eat, sleep and be happy because Jesus will take your dad to a
very beautiful place when he dies.
He will not be in pain anymore and he will be free forever.
You don't want your dad to be unhappy you are depressed or run away from home.
Y... (read in full...)
How do I break up with her without completely crushing her?
Q. Well me and my girlfriend of 10 months have been having numerous problems ranging from you basic arguements to trust issues and to be honest im not all that happy with the relationship. My girlfriend is currently away at summercamp for the next ...
A. 9 June 2008: Breaking up is such sweet sorrows.
Send her the pillow you dream on.
When she thinks of you , she can hug that pillow and cry herself to sleep.
She won't feel crushed because you will always be besides her.
If you find your pillow binne... (read in full...)
I love two boys!
Q. Can I love more than one person? There is a sweet boy in my school and anothere I met on a party! Both are so sweet and I want to have they! Is that o.k.? Can I do this?...
A. 9 June 2008: You can love as many boys as you want but you can only marry one.
It is not wrong to love more than one boy ,
but in the end you will have to pick the one you loved the
most to be your life long partner.
Perhaps , you are having pupp... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 9 June 2008: Time and tide waits for no man.
The world will not stop just because you want to get off.
If a person who has legs and do not want to walk ,
it is because they have become mentally crippled.
Set your spirit free and do not tie your ... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 9 June 2008: You cannot expect people to change 100% over night.
If she can change 10% or 20% , that is good enough.
The process of change have started and you could give them more time.
Keep the wheels rolling...
Don't go into the game of pro... (read in full...)
My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!
Q. A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about ...
A. 9 June 2008: It is no wonder you are treated like a servant .
Don't be a househusband. Set your limits and boundaries or get out of her life.
She is just using you.
Go and get a better paying job.
Tell her , 1+1 = 3... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 9 June 2008: There are two extreme camps on this porn issue.
On one extreme is the hardcore porn lovers and on the other extreme is the anti hardcore porn haters.
Many of us are in the middle and we can live with some porn in moderations.
One cannot conv... (read in full...)
Not sure why we broke up but he wants to be friends. Should I stay in contact?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm feeling very confused right now. My boyfriend of nine months broke it off a little over a week ago. I knew he'd been having a few doubts after attending some of his friends' weddings, but we had decided to talk things over and ...
A. 9 June 2008: It is like flying a kite.
When there is a strong head wind,
the kite is forced to fly higher and pulling the string taut.
You will need to release some more strings or the tautness may force the string to break.
Give him some slack and... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: You just told us the reasons for his behaviour towards you.
It is up to you if you still love him and want to carry on this relationship.
You will need lots of patience, love and understandings to stand by him.
He has lost his confidence ... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 7 June 2008: He is like a shadow.
When you chase a shadow , you know the shadow will run away from you.
You need to ignore him and leave him to sulk like a little boy.
When he grows up , then he may come back for you.
Otherwise, say goodbye to him... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 7 June 2008: We ALWAYS have a choice: lie or don't lie.
Being 'TRUTHFUL' or being 'HURTFUL?'
Should you tell the truth and nothing but the truth all the time?
In court , you will have to tell the whole truth and nothing
but the truth or you would be... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: He who sets a trap for others will himself fall into it.
I hope he has enough funds to pay to his solicitors.
He will only ruin himself.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: The only thing she could do is to wish him 'Goodbye and good riddance!'
When there is no more love in him , why do you want him to remain?
Your lie was just an excuse for a divorce.
You have reached a watershed with him and must part differ... (read in full...)
Do people who cheat change?
Q. hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)...
A. 7 June 2008: Each of us are unique and we are not the same .
We are only human and sometimes we make mistakes in life.
But if we does not learn from our mistakes then we are like fools.
"Once bitten , twice shy.
Twice bitten , never to come agai... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even if you have the most perfect boobs,
he would still want to look at other boobs.
He is simply attracted to the many varieties of boobs.
You cannot ask a man not to look at another boob...LOL!
His eyes are made for looking.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Even married people were once strangers.
Therefore, without patience and the effort to understand one
another, things are likely not to go well.
We need patience in order to become happy.
There are many who dream about experiencing hap... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: In any relationship , there ought to have trust and respect.
Thus if you want your relationship to be healthy and strong,
you will need to set your limits and boundaries.
Tell him your limits and boundaries and if he breaks them ,
then... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: You have a right to feel that way .
If he really loves you , he should give up porn to make you happy and satisfied.
That is what love is all about.
This won't sink into his head until you threatened to leave
him or you compromise o... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I am happy to hear that you are not trying to control him
but sometimes the other side's perceptive may not share the same views.
Two people can view the same incident but have different views and perspectives.
Some men may resent your intr... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Women and men are wired differently.
Your hormones are not the same.
Each of us have our own private thoughts and privacy even in a marriage or relationship.
We should allow them some privacy in their life and not control 100% of them.
... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I said most men (not all) like to look at porn.
DiovanLestat.
Those men who don't watch porn are the dead, the unborn, the
hypocrites, those blind, those self righteous and holier
than thou types, those wolves in sheep's clothings, tho... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: For those women who cannot come to terms with the men's
viewing of porn,
I suggest they dump their imperfect partners and look for a puritanical males or don't marry .
Good luck to them.... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 1 June 2008: It is all a matter of perceptions.
What you see may not be what you get.
Saying is one thing but doing is another.
Some people may say it out but may not do what they said.
What is said today may not be applicable somewhere down the ro... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 30 May 2008: At this moment you are buffeted by strong winds and the storm in your life has not abated.
Keep your eyes focus on Jesus or your aims in life.
Do not let anything distract you.
Take each day at a time and do not think too much about tho... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 28 May 2008: Treat him like a good friend and you will slowly win him back.
Since you have the physical barrier , you may need to use the phone or internet to communicate with him.
Every relationship has its ups and downs.
You may have to wait for tho... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 28 May 2008: If you wait under the apple tree and wait for that particular apple to fall,
you may have to wait for a long time.
If you want to speed up things, you may have to shake the
tree or use a ladder to pluck that particular apple.
If ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 26 May 2008: If you love him , you should not back away from him but instead you should fight for him.
Are you going to let somebody just steal your man away?
Is your relationship not worth saving?
You are going to show him that you want him back and lo... (read in full...)
Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?
Q. I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...
A. 12 May 2008: You have two options.
Kick out your ex or your present b/f.
Do nothing and let your present b/f grow up and accept you lock,stock and barrel.... (read in full...)
My daughter is 19, unmarried and pregnant. Any pointers?
Q. My daughter is 19 and lives with her bf. I was against that decision, but she's grown. Now, she tells me that she is pregnant, I don't know how to handle the situation without alienating her. I don't approve because she is not married. It's not what ...
A. 10 May 2008: I love my daughter unconditionally and without any judgmental views.
Whether she is right or wrong, I will stand by her.
No matter what happens, she deserved my utmost support.
I do not imposed my views or thoughts on her.
She has a rig... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 24 April 2008: I admire your spirit and fortitude.
Thats the way you should handle life's problems.
Leave every thing to God and accept the will of God.
Things happened for a purpose and you will see the full picture when God reveals them to you.
... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 23 April 2008: What goes around, comes around.
He dumped you and she will dumped him for someone younger.
Her needs and demands from him would be too much for him to handle .
Their needs are incompatible.
Man are creatures of habit.
When he left ... (read in full...)
What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?
Q. I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me....
A. 13 April 2008: The ball is at his feet.
It may not be as bad as you perceived it to be.
He may see it differently.
Anyway , you wait for his response.
You may still like the guy even if he does not have the time
to talk to you or give you access unl... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 25 February 2008: You are a whole woman even if you are without a man.
I am glad and happy that events have moved to your satisfaction and that you can chart your own life and begin a new life with him, a better and more understanding partner.
You have rest... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 18 February 2008: If you are an extremely attractive and kind soul, why do you worry with a dead wood ?
There will be plenty of fresh and virile men who can replace him.
Do not let him destroy your spirit.Let no man tell you what to do or chain your spirit.... (read in full...)
| *aura1318's friends
These are mutual friends, so *aura1318 has
added them and they have added *aura1318!
|
