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A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?

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Question - (2 April 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2010)
A age , anonymous writes:

what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (3 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHe means it as a compliment but there is further room for improvements.

You need some polishing to make it into a fine and shining gem...

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A female reader, naughty girl United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2010):

Its not a compliment or an insult. Just a throw away comment. Never take a throw away comment personally they mean nothing.

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A female reader, sumthinelse66 United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

to me it means your absoultely beautiful but your have moments just take it as a compliment

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2010):

His heart was in the right place, but like all men he perhaps didn't make himself clear enough. He loves you, believe that he does.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (2 April 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntDoes he mean, "a diamond in the rough?"

They kept using that phrase a lot in Aladdin (that's where I first heard it).

I concluded that it meant someone who is very special in spite of the fact that a lot of people undervalue or overlook their value.

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A male reader, UncleDoug United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

Hi,

The phrase "diamond in the rough" usually has a positive connotation to it. Think about it - a diamond (of any kind) is still a diamond, right?

Good luck.

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

Auntie E agony auntSome one who is a "diamond in the rough" is a person who has a lot of redeeming qualities but is just a little rough around the edges, manners, ladylikeness, that sort of thing.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

I wouldn't take it as an insult. To me it's like saying, "Nobody's perfect, but you are still very valuable to me."

Just this guy's interpretation.

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A female reader, Aliceinunderland United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2010):

Aliceinunderland agony auntmeans your good just need some more practice, all it means is he loves you, your just a little outta practice thats all xxx

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