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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We won't be talking as often... how do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - My friend, "Jane," and I have been best friends for 7 years now. Her boyfriend and I go to the same school while she goes to a different school. She had a barn dance last weekend and her bf was unable to go, so she invited me. We were drinking ...

I don't trust my boyfriend and I wait for the next bad thing to happen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend messed me about a bit for the first half of our two year relationship [he met up with his ex behind my back, he flirted with other girls and was just generally not appropriate for a guy in a relationship]. Now he's behaving but my trust ...

Should I never accept calls from him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I was dating a married man a few years ago. Not trying to break up a maarriage but because he said she cheated and they were getting a divorce. Well, the divorce never came so of course I tryed dating someone else after some years passed. ...

B/f dates all these other girls but calls me his "wife"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot and whom i love a lot too. he has had 2 other girls in his life which he truly loved. am the 3rd one. apart from that he dates 4 girls with whom he does not has true intention. it happens that last time i...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...

She wants to move in together but I don't feel ready

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a woman for two years now, she wants us to move in together, but i dont feel ready, thing is she is very sociable when we go out to pubs parties etc she goes up to the bar for drinks goes outside for a cig on her ...

Parents don't like my b/f and are always trying to come between us

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31 October 2010 (F) - Hello all! So my parents dont like my boyfriend, were almost ingaged, hes just getting the ring....anyways, my parents know were dating, they know were serious, but theyre always trying to come between us. Theyre always trying to catch some reason ...

Should I talk about whats wrong when nothing can be done about it?

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31 October 2010 (M) - Do I talk about whats upsetting me if there's nothing we can do about it ? How can she help me ? This is kinda the second part of a question I asked earlier. Her past is really really difficult for me to get over and for the first week it se...

What should I say to his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay..so I have this guy friend (he has a 3 year relationship with a girl...until now) and we've been good friends for about 2 years now. And I must admit that i like him more than a friend should. Within those years of being friends, we somehow ...

How much baggage is too much baggage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - How much baggage is too much, should it matter anyway? Am I to swallow my pride and move on. How do I stop thinking of the negative ? Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now. Prior to that I was in a long term relationship straig...

My married man won't respond

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Happy Halloween everyone. Well i have a new problem,I know the answer that everyone is gonna say but i just want some reassurance on what i need to do. I have talked to my friends and coworkers and they have said what i think i should do. This ...

What did I do and what is he doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay..this is a long story so just try and keep up. At the end of July this year (2010) I met this guy, M.A.D (Since that's the initals to his first, middle and last name). I met him through a guy that I've known for five years and used to like me ...

Does he think our relationship won't work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend doesn't call me at all even if i ask him and i am afraid that he doesn't want to get close to me because he doesn't think it will work or does he want it to work IDK i really want to be with him ...

Lie after lie from him. Shouldn't he be trying to make it up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lied. Now what? PLEASE help? Thursday I was with my boyfriend and I called him for our late night convo. But I remember him saying that he was going to have visitors and want get to talk to me tonight . I could hear that he was at a par...

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...

Who is the bad guy now between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I spent the night with my bf last night. We just see each other twice a month as it would be expensive if we see each other on a weekly basis but we chat, call and text everyday. He lives 2 hrs away. Here's the thing, when we met, he had just star...

Girlfriend not interested is sex any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend on and off for about 8 years, and we have a 5 year old daughter together. We have been back together now about 8 months, and I am making a very sincere effort to work things out this time around. She had wanted to ge...

Do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 ...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

Daughter in law rules the roost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Suffering mother in law My daughter in law just wants my son and not me at all. Latest is to day both grandparents present and the 2 grandmothers did the cradle fun ceremony and were ready to leave town. She gave the baby to all 3 grandparents to ...

My friend doesn't seem to want to share "her" friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So. A few months ago I was at a party and talking to this guy who I had spoken to a few times before. Previously I had never even clocked him as a potential crush but there was just this moment that I realised I liked him. I saw him around a few...

He claims he can't be in a relationship right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 2,5 years. We were even engaged. I'm 24, this guy just turned 23. Evert hing was perfect for the first 2 years. We fought like normal couples do. Sometimes fights were over nothing, sometim...

How do I talk with my mom after her stomping out of my house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - there has always been tension between my mom and my husband because he is 2 yrs older than her. she hates him 4 that which in turn makes him dislike her too. last night after dark as soon as our dinner was done my parents made an unannouced visit. ...

I feel that I do not want to offer a man anything else apart from sex as this is all that I feel that I require.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello Readers, I would like to ask for some advice please and am very appreciative of advice I have had in the past. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney for the last 2 years. To cut to the chase it started off as him being very interested ...

I took photos of his girlfriend's underwear and now he's found them! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i was cheated my friend who was done some good things for me but now i m feeling guilty one and half year ago i was leaving with my friend and sharing a flat in building. his girl frnd was my girl frnd's sister and so we were as group (girls w...

Best friend's wife took him away from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Life a bitch sometimes hi I've known my best friend for 8 years I've always been there for him for better or worse I'm not gay by the way I have a girlfriend lol but I'm just trying to make a point when I said for better or worse. We were so close ...

I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice. I have a boyfriend who has never had a girlfriend before. So that means I am his first girlfriend. He has many girl friends and there is just one specific girl that I am worried about. From the ...

She turns me off and on like a switch

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always ...

Why can't she look me in the eyes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - So theres this girl who before used to look me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, but now she cant seem to look at me in the eye and never for a more than a second, however she seem...

Should I wait for him to choose between her and I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Should I wait for him to choose? I was dating a guy for a while, we were first very good friends. Things were okay but then he felt I was nagging and complaining all the time, also, not supportive of his career. Because of those reasons he chose...

He doesn't talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid my boyfriend at doesn't talk to me at school does he still love me...

Boyfriend physical with me, it always involves alcohol

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I love my fiance more then anything! We plan on getting married and having babies together. We have been through so much together and I know he loves me dearly! I have never been in such a loving relationship but the other day he beat me up quite ...

How do I stop these thoughts of other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Before I met him, I was promiscuous for a few reasons. I really do enjoy it though. I've been called a nympho before. The point is, I have a past and my boyfriend knows about it. When some...

Boyfriend still thinks I'm talking to men online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We met online, and didn't meet in person until 11 months prior internet meeting. During those 11 months, I wasn't faithful completely, I talked to other men online. I was a ...

I have a sinking feeling that my bf is in love with another girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have a question, my boyfriend last night told me that he was sorry about being snippy at me the last couple of weeks. He then went on to tell me that he has been snippy because he is confused. He went on to say that he didn't want to tell me about ...

How do I get my girlfriend to realize this guy isn't backing off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend (18 y.o.) and I (19 y.o.) have been dating for 4 years. It is a long distance relationship (about 3.5 hours distance), but I drive down to see her every weekend. I grew up with her (I've known her for 7 years), so I sho...

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

My girlfriend started dancing at a strip club!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I know this is a long post but I don't have anyone I feel like I can talk too about this situation and I really hope some people here can read through this and tell me what they think. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months ...

I think I've finally had it! Should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Confused, pissed and frustrated. I can't stop feeling angry over boyfriend not helping me co-sign for an apartment. We have been together 10 years. Lived together for 5 years, 3 years lived in my own apartment(we do better with a little space ...

Why is my husband watching so much porn?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...

I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ...

Broke up with my gf over stupid issues, I want to sort things out but she says its over!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Please help, I am confused. I recently split with my girlfriend, we were living together for 3 and half years and have a younge child together. We were argueing a lot and small things that could have changed on both parts didn't. since the split i ...

Can this relationship grow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I don't have anything in common. He has things that he like to do and the same for me. He stated to me that he don't think our relationship will grow because we don't have anything in common. He wanted me to listen to this song of ...

Should I try harder to make my girlfriend love me or start flirting with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - i am confused about my relationships. i am a girl in a secret relationship with this girl that i absolutely adore. but the problem is that she moved to a different country a couple weeks ago and now its an open relationship (meaning that we can meet ...

I either love him or I'm used to being treated badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Iam currently in a relationship wherein things made a sudden changes, All the while that he is unemployed at his attitude and behavior I was there for him to support finacially, emotionally with all the complications in his life, suddenly came a ...

I am not thrilled about the wild boy's night out before out wedding!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Heyy guys I have a big problem on my hands that i really need some advice on. Me and my other half who have been together for quite a while have decided to get married, the wedding isnt until 2012 but its already being planned however all of h...

How do I get this woman to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26-year-old female in a relationship with a woman for the past two and a half years, and it's not working out. She is an alcoholic, sometimes physically violent, very often abusive, insanely jealous. She moved into my flat about a year and a ...

Why does he ignore me and stare at other girls? I cant take much more of this but he keeps begging for a second chance....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me very much but i dont feel his love..he doesn't make me feel special, he doesn't give me the attention i need.. me on the other hand gives him all the love and a...

I've lost all the men in my life, but I have realised I really care about boyfriend number 2. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - hello dear cupid, well this is my story. when i left high school i met a guy during the holiday, i usually hear about him but i rarely saw him before. he is my friend's nephew. one night at their family's wedding he asked his aunt about me, and told ...