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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend is a mooch!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and she moved in with me about 4 months ago, she has no job dose not go to school and I have to pay for evrything includeing my pot that she smokes, iv bugged her scince day one to get a job ...

Reasonably angry or crazy sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has very special ways to just completely enrage me. Normally I am very even tempered but he has a way to just make me lose it! We have been to many sporting events together. We are usually cheering, drinking, having a great time and...

Why is he telling people that we aren’t together anymore if he said he wants to make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my ex were together for 5 years and have two wonderful children. Recently we were going through some financial problems that required me to move back home with my parents for the time being, i have moved back with our kids an...

We've been together for 3 years but we've never had sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for three years now. As a partner he is wonderful, he respects me, he is loyal and we love to spend time together. I am 25 and he is almost 40. He is my first serious relationship and I have not had sex with anyone. ...

Is my spouse hiding something???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Your spouse says they need their privacy and has a password on their computer account that they won't give you. Does this mean they are hiding something or is it harmless?...

My little 7 year old daughter has turned nasty. What can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hi,can anyone help.My 7 yr old daughter who is usually a happy little child,has turned into an moody arguementative and basically nasty.She has just started junior school and i have a feeling it could be this.She has been split up from all her ...

Boyfriend used to use Escorts, should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Just looking for a little advice and input from others, especially other women. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend(33) for 6 months now although we've been seein each other for 9 and basically live together at his place although I have my own ...

What should I do? How should I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - this man i been dealing with for about 2 months make me fel so good and happy i wanna spend all my time with him and i want him to spend all his time with me, we like being with each other and it may sound wrong but he been staying the night for ...

Am I looking way too much into her text? Or is she giving me an opportunity to call her and talk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hey: My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because I was studying for my medical boards (the 6 months prior) and she grew apart due to the time away (saw her once a month during that time and very stressful for me). The last...

I want to be with him, but I don't want to be obvious about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I was with a guy for 3 years, and we broke up in February. In the beginning we loved each other, but there was a lot of arguing throughout. That is why within those 3 years, I broke up with him three times because I was not happy and I thought I ...

His ex is getting in the way of our relationship.

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5 October 2010 (F) - I have always had problems with my boyfriend calling other women, is it right or am i being possesive?lately his ex called him and though at some point he even gave me the phone to talk to her, i still feel bad maybe she might go on calling and this ...

This is not how a loving relationship is meant to be... is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - I'm not happy about our relationship, she always seems mad or angry when I come home. Seems like all we do is live together. She said its not me, but it cant always be the kids either. We kiss like we kiss our mothers, just a quick peck. She always ...

B/f wants to have sex, I want to wait till marriage but am afraid of losing him!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I disagree and he seems disappointed about it. He has been pushing for it during our last make out. I am afraid that one day our relationship will be spoil because of my rejection to have sex with him. I ...

I blocked my b/f on facebook, will he be upset about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace ...

Why doesn't my family realize I'm growing up and not a child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My parents are asking too much of me, they took away my internet upstairs after many long years of having my own laptop in my own room, they take away my ATM card (I earn enough money to buy stuff they normally wouldn't.) They take away everything I ...

Bad financial situation and she wants me to leave because I won't give her a "fairy tale" wedding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am 21 years old my fiance is 22 years old. We have been together for 4 years engaged 2 years. Recently we moved from salt lake to phoenix. kind of a spur of the moment thing no job yada yada yada. But It has put alot of stress on our re...

There's something about me that attracts bullies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I have been the victim of bullying so often in my life, especially in my working life, that I've lost count. There's something about me that attracts bullies like flies to shit! I am an extremely honest and hard working person. I'm not a ...

Ideas on how to approach a stranger to start a friendhship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles/And everyone else, I am painfully shy, and I am already 21. I have only been in one relationship and that was with a girl, the problem with that is that I am gay. And so in that relationship back in the day there was no c...

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is divorced with a 2 year old. He asked me to go to his mom by the coast for a holiday 2 months ago, and while we were there, and when we got back, he asked if I was keen to go down again in December and spend christmas with his ...

What are the important things to feel in a long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - What do you think are important things to feel in a long term relationship for it to stay strong and work well for a long time? I feel content with my boyfriend. As well as happy, stable, comfortable, loved, fulfilled and open. There's a lot of...

Is it ok to be in love with a married man 13 years my senior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - i opened this account to just ask...that is it ok if iam in love with a married man who is aroung 13...14 yrs older thn me. i love him so much...we talk on phone..he says he loves me and he loves his wife also...its driving me nuts...plz help!!!!11...

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I need help i have a guy situation. Well ill start off saying im a young girl and i like older guys because i assume they would treat me better and have more values. Well i was dateing this guy back in december to febuary and after we broke up i ...

How can she expect me to tell her what I feel and how I feel if she's all aggressive about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - To the point: Sometimes, when I feel horny, I might send her tips about it, like a suggestive text message. But she always takes it the wrong way! Like, she thinks I'm always thinking about it, but I don't, I really don't. Especially when I ...

Should I really just let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Bear with me, this is the short version... The last two months I have been "dating" this girl. She recently got out of a year marriage, and when they finally split, we instantly hooked up. During her birthday part this past summer that was at ...

Can my boyfriend force me to give up our child?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I might be pregnant. I've only ever been with one guy (my bf of a year and a half) and I've always told him that if I got pregnant by accident, the only option for me would be to keep it. I've scheduled a doctor's appt to find ...

How can I get my mum to back off? She is so over-protective!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My mother is obsessive and calls me literally 20 times in a 5 hour period if I go out to meet friends, even if I do answer. I don't get it, I don't do anything I shouldn't and rarely even drink, and I've repeatedly proven I can be trusted. In spite ...

He is angry with me for being fascinated by this girl! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I told the man I was seeing about a girl who "captured my curiosity." He listened to me describe her for a while without saying anything. But, when I was done, his voice sounded sarcastic and over-polite. It can't be jealousy, I don't think he cares ...

Advice on boyfriend's porn.....

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I’ve been with this guy for almost ten years in a serious relationship and he is wonderful on many levels. However, long story short, I discovered porn on my boyfriend’s internet history by accident earlier this year and I confronted him about it. ...

My girlfriend wants to live with her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - So....I'm a lesbian in a long distance relationship. We've met online and we've planned to see each other. But then one day, she and her ex boyfriend who i didn't really worry about, made a plan. To move to California, Which is just a state over ...

He still tries to sleep with me even though I found out about his girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I found out that a friend of mine, or guy I've been talking to, whatever you wanna call it, has a girlfriend.I found out a month ago. I told him I didnt want to be his friend anymore,well after roses and a ton of phone calls were still friends, but ...

Pregnant with twins but getting no help from my ex! What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hi, its me Veronica again. for those of you who answered my last question here's a follow up and another question. For those who didn't here's a recap. I'm 22, have a eight year old son,and pregnant with twin girls. My ex boyfriend is a cheating...

Paranoid and unreasonable or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 5 yrs.. We have two sons who are 5 and 1. Shortly after our first son was born, my sister in law told me that an ex girlfriend of my husbands had spread a rumor around (months before) that they had slept to...

He never tells me where he's going when I am with him? Is this normal or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for a lil over a month an was wondering if your boyfriend is supposed to tell you where he goes, like instead of I'll be right back?? Like sometimes he will tell me and sometimes he just says I'll be right back an ...

Nearly 30 and single, how can I get my love life back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles I'm fearing I'm going to be alone forever. I'm almost 30, quite pretty, intelligent and training to be primary school teacher. But it seems everyone but 'me is in a serious relationship and happy. I had a boyf on and o...