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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend having a facebook with out telling me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend just got back together on our break and he says he'll change and every thing was goin great until I find out he has a face book . He never even told me and we been off and on almost three years now and he did a lot of stuff ...

I wonder if the pat on the knee was a subtle pass ... or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Have just started to get a lift into work (for just over a week) from a colleague who has moved to the area nearby, we work in different offices in our company so have only really talked and gotten to know each other a little during the mornings, ...

My kids are Jekyll and Hyde

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15 October 2010 (F) - Hi there, I just really want to know how other parents cope with teens. My two are 16 and 13 and they can be utterly horrendous at times which we have put down to hormones and try to deal with it the best we can. My husband and I seem to spend th...

Update to my previous "non reciprocated crush" question

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15 October 2010 (M) - I wrote this post a couple of weeks ago: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/to-me-it-seems-i-am-being-selfish.html I was glad to take CindyCare's advice, until my friend emailed me two days ago with a bizarre one sentence email about watching a ...

I have her number, a FB friends request pending, we will be seein each other in class, but how do I ask her out?

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15 October 2010 (M) - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on how to get a date with this girl I met recently. So here's everything you might need to know in order to give me something good: We met in the university, in our psychology class, 2 weeks ago. She w...

I'm in a tricky situation? How do I go about it?

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15 October 2010 (M) - She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn't be alone. ...

Why would my boyfriend want to keep this friend around?

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15 October 2010 (?) - While my bf and I were broken up, his friend (who started out as our mutual friend, whom we met through)sent me nasty texts on behalf of my bf. All 3 of us attended the same college, we both knew S (mutual friend,) but not each other until we met ...

HELP! I'm miserable without her, but should I let her go?

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15 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I mutually agreed we should take “a break”. But this is not your average “take-a-break” story. We have been seeing each other 1 year. I am 41, divorced w/2 kids and she is 38, w/1 child and she has never been married. Bott...

I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?

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15 October 2010 (F) - im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking ...

Sexually frustrated... again...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - 27... I'm starting to believe I'm sexually frustrated and can't resolve my problem... After I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, I never dated or been in another relationship other than fuck buddies with no strings attached, when I was with my ex I...

Should I believe him about this online dating account?

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15 October 2010 (F) - I feel like I'm being stupid about this, but the other day I found out my boyfriend signed up for fling.com. He says he thought it was just an adult site where he could look at pictures, but it clearly is a place to find a fling. I questioned him ...

I'm not sure if I'm ready to marry and have kids again!

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15 October 2010 (M) - Serious crisis here Aunts and Uncles... I am recently divorced and with a new partner for a little over a year. I will admit I met her while I was separated, but we did not move in together until the divorce was iminent. We are very much in lov...

Will telling him my feelings scare him away?

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15 October 2010 (F) - Hi - Maybe this is just my insecurities or maybe it is real. We have been FWB for the last months. Long distance one. He used to be the one showing lots of interest in spending time with me and I always had feelings for him. He is the one wanting ...

I never felt like his top priority! Was I right to end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3.5 years and we recently broke up. The peculiar thing is that I’m not experiencing the feelings that are commonly associated with a break-up, (daily crying, no sleep, etc.) I don’t know if this is because I’m really ...

Should I just cut him out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I feel I'm in need of some objective perspectives/feedback, so that's why I'm on this website. I've been seeing this guy officially for about a month now (September). We had some drama (3rd para) initially but I thought it was dealt with. So we ...

My girlfriend is jealous because I have to dance with another girl at a wedding!

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15 October 2010 (M) - I'm having a big problem. My best friend is getting married and I'm the best man. I have to dance with the bridesmaid and my girlfriend is pretty mad with me for that. I told her that its just a dance nothing more than that .. but still she's so ...

He took my virginity and now I don't know how to handle the relationship!

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15 October 2010 (F) - I was always desperate for love and to be loved. I met a guy at work and at first he wasn't my type and way too old (Im 24 he's 38), my family woudln't accept him. So I eventually (being nice) got to know him and started to develop feelings for him. ...

Why did we break up instead of working things out?

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15 October 2010 (F) - My exboyfriend and I are 22 and 23. We were dating for on and off for 5 years right out of high school up until about 3 weeks ago. we dont have any children and have never lived with each other but seem to have made it through alot. We broke up ...

My marriage date is set, my chat friend lied and I am getting all negative!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - i m at d worst stage of life. i m a just passed out enggineer age 22. my parents promised me for havin an mba n just after d month i graduated they fixed out a guy 4 marriage.i did a blunder 2 yrs earlier by being in a relationship wid a married ...

I fell in love and then found she works as an escort

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15 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, I just want to write something what is going on in my life and hope to have some feedback from you readers. I'm a 32 year old Dutch guy who is single for a few years now, i have been dating in these years, but i just cant find a gi...

He was seeing somebody else all during my pregnancy!

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15 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend I have been together for almost 2 years. 4 months ago I gave birth to his son and not long after that I found out he had been seeing someone for a year. But he said nothing was going on and she said the same, though people have sai...

He thinks he is being funny but I find it a real put off!

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15 October 2010 (F) - Help please I have this man i'm seeing and have been for quite a long time. What is bugging me about him is the fact that he likes to tease me because he likes the way i bite back at him.well i don't mind a joke but some of the things he says t...

I just need to get her out of my mind!

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15 October 2010 (M) - hello everyone. i litterally need everybody's advices, coz im litterally going crazy , here is the situation, im in LDR relationship since 2 yrs now with my gf and for some reasons we couldnt meet, anyway lately she really changed so much i mean it ...

I cant see a future with him, should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Hello everyone I am in a relationship with my bf from almost 2 yrs. He used to be my best friend. But now i am not able to undestand him and his behaviour. We both are shy and till date, we've only hugged and kissed each other. I am 19 yrs old ...

I am fed up of doing all the chasing with her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - i have been seeing this lovely woman whom i met on a date site, i like her a lot although we dont see each other much she lives 15 miles from me. when we do meet i always treat her nice ie meals etc however my problem is she will not get in touch ...

Never ending sufferings

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15 October 2010 (F) - I am a 19 yr old girl and i am depressed about the things that l am suffering. Even though i am a very positive girl, still i am not able to overcome the obstacles. I was molested by my maternal uncle since childhood till now bt still i remained ...

Girlfriend was a prostitute and slept with over 350 men before I paid for her to get out of that scene, but I'm struggling to deal with her past!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Dear All, I am 38 years old and left my wife after 16years of a less than satisfying marriage a year ago - we are currently going thru Divorce - we do however have a beautiful young son who is just the best thing in my life - he is 6years old. ...

She might be pregnant but she is pushing me away, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hi guys, am in a predicament right now. I and my girlfriend met last November, we been dating since then.Although we broke up in September this year fot three weeks,when we got back together, we got carried away, now her period is late and shes ver...

I'm at a loss, I have no idea what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just feel like she doesn't find me attractive or want to be with me anymore. We are both 23. We have lived together for the last 2 years, and spend most of our time together, other than when ...

Is he trying to leave me or does he just need space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my partner for 6 years, we are in a Long distance realtionship, and have had every plan to be together in marriage and move.My bf is having a hard time in life right now and dealing with his moms ovarian cancer in which she only has a ...

How do I prevent my ex from relapsing, without giving him hope?

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15 October 2010 (F) - My (ex) husband and I have been seperated for 6 months and have lived apart for 8. I married when I was very young, had only dated him (a whirlwind courtship that was sweet and blissful) for a short time before we were married. For the first 6 ...

Should I walk away knowing he'll be deployed, or try to stay?

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15 October 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this kid since July 2010, he's in the army and is stationed in new York (I'm in Ohio). He is originally from here and met him on one of his visits home. It is now october and I think I am starting to really fall for him but ...

I was scared so I pushed him away and now he doesn't want to be with me

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15 October 2010 (F) - ok so it goes like this, I have been single and afraid to date anyone for the past 5 months. Till one day sitting on a deli bench I met a guy who totally sweeps me off my feet we are perfect for one another. Then I start doing it, the pushing him ...

Do I tell my in-laws their daughter cheated on me?

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15 October 2010 (M) - I found out my wife been cheating on me. Do I tell her father and mother? ...

How can I break through with my partner's kids?

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15 October 2010 (F) - How can I break through and become friends with my partners kids who basicly hate me. They are polite but very very stand offish. is there anyway I can reassure them being my friend doesnt equate to replacing their real parent. I just wish we could ...

Living with very obsessive much older man & scared to go on a secret free weeked trip with my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I'm in urgent need of 100% honest advice. I don't have much time so this is why I'm reaching out. Just for the sake of imagination I'm blond, female in mid 30s slim build, cute, look much younger than I am. Here's my situation.. I've been living ...

Is our relationship unhealthy?

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15 October 2010 (F) - I am a sixteen year old girl, engaged to (no, I'm not pregnant) my nineteen year old boyfriend and best friend of two years. One thing that was immediately obvious to everyone, including us was that we are both jealous, obsessive, and controlling ...

Help about friend that I've lost or is mad!

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15 October 2010 (M) - i met this girl she was cool and all and we told each other we liked one another, but then she became all shady and we got into an arguement and she told me to give her some space, and so i did i dint talk to her or notice her for almost a week even ...

I've been trying to persuade my ex to come back for ten months!

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15 October 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend who I love a lot and she knows it, recently got drunk in a party and kissed one of my friend. This hurts me a lot. At first, I pretend that I am okay with it but my best friend found out that I was upset about it and told her that ...

Who's my Daddy?

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15 October 2010 (F) - My son's ex lies to their 3 yr. old daughter that my son is not her father that her boyfriend is and her boyfriend reinforces this 100 percent. They will not allow Amy, the little girl, to call anyone daddy but bill the boyfriend. Me and my son ...