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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex is being very friendly, what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...

Everything was going great ... then she got jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - There's this girl that I know I love. (We'll refer to her as Girl A) I have no doubts about it, I'm absolutely certain of it. We've been best mates for a few years now, and I was recently trying to find the courage to tell her how I felt. We were at ...

How do I know if I should salvage this at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for ten years....sometimes he's been great, alot of times not. i recently kicked him out and started seeing an ex. (well not really, i just wanted to show him i really could find another.) stupid kinda, i know, but we agreed t...

Why did my 'f-ck buddy' suddenly turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - i have a fuck buddy and i told him i thought as him as a friend and that i didnt know if i needed that cause friendship leads to relationship. then i relized he is not going to be here but couple more weeks and he will be out of the state and with ...

My dad fired him after he caught us kissing! How do I make him see that he is a good person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - my dad owns a construction company and in june he moved came home from work and ask my mom to let CHase ( a new guy he hired) to stay with us until he found a place of his own. Chase is 25, had just moved back to the neighbour hood and my dad wanted ...

Controlling relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been this my guy on and off for over 6 years, and seeing as im only 20 we have grown up together. When we meet i was seeing his best friend in 10th grade, and his friend was my first real boyfriend... i didnt know what i was doing just hav...

He wants to "catch" me with another woman, but I don't want any part of it! will I lose him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have a bit of a problem at the moment. Me and my partner have been together for thirteen years or so now and we have a really good relationship. I mean sex is not always regular due to having three children and both or us working, but he has a ...

I wish I could forget him even though I liked him...

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24 October 2010 (F) - I feel depressed as having come back from a lovely cruise once again there was a young man who works on there far younger than me although on two cruises we have had a lot of eye flirting and looking in certain ways. I bought him a small gift so ...

Do guys have their dark/cold moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. It was all fine until up to two weeks ago, where his grandma went to the hospital, and he received his marks back for one of his college courses (which he got like 60s when he was aiming for 90s). ...

I feel he is only with me because he cannot be with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - my bf has a gf about seven years ago (relationship lasted two years) it was his first serious relationship and it ended badly. I have been with him for three years and things are great. However, I am convinced without a doubt in my mind that she is ...

She says I'm not boyfriend material!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Im 13 years old.I love my girlfriend very much I think about her always.She wants to break up. She told Im not a boyfriend meteriale i dont know what that meen.i wnat to get her back.Help me ...

What to do about the ex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Me and my ex had a long distance relationship, she didnt like it even though it was just an hour train trip, so she had doubts whenever i went home so she ended it next day after i seen her. she turned nasty 2 days later saying she didnt love m...

He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...

I think weed is coming between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okay hey guys im alittle sad and i loveeeee my boyfriend weve been together for a year but i love how we are when were not fighting but when we fight he says somethings.. Like insults me alittle not appearce wise but that im pathic.. Yesterday we ...

I see lying as a lack of respect and self control

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will never "do it again" and have grown from the experience and ...

She is single again and I would like to pick up where we left off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl I shared very strong chemistry with. However before I could ask her out, she was approached by her old friend she knew from a longtime ago and she decided to go out with him. It did not last longer though and she is now single again. I ...

What you guys would do if your girlfriend tried to set you up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years we have a wonderful relationship and only had one bad patch and now its all back on track- he loves me and tells me so and I love him very much too. I recently made friends with a girl and I think she is ...

Attention deficit disorder or just plain abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I really need some help here. My fiance (or ex fiance - we ended it last night) is ADD and a month ago we moved in together although he is still in the same house with me and my 3 kids. Everything I say gets shot down in flames. I am always the pe...

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...

I love him but sometimes I hate him too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - need advice i have been married for 6 years my husband works i also work my husband complains about money and thinks i should work more hours i do every thing at home washing cleaning etc all the shopping on my own he does nothing he dont kiss ...

I would like to work overseas but my family are worried about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi. I'd like some advice on this. Last year, i worked as an Au Pair in Spain, but unfortunately, it didn't work out, and i was sent home after only being there for two weeks. I dont want this to stop me from looking for another Au Pair position ...

He said he liked me and then started ignoring me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hiya i'm having some trouble with this guy. i have probably only known him for 3 weeks now. he first contacted me on facebook. he acted like he wanted to get to know me. he goes to another school but some of my friends know him so i was just b...

Bored and depressed after being dumped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - After being dumped cruelly by my ex, I'm trying to focus on other things. I've been really unhappy with my job. Its a dead end job and it bores me to death. The company doesn't promote anyone and there's no other areas that I can switch too. I ...

My boyfriend sulks and refuses to talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - After any sort of argument we have my boyfriend will sulk and not talk to me. One example back in May was when we had a minor disagreement over something he blanked me and then i suggested we met up to talk things over, that pushed him further into ...

I understand boundaries but I still want to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Having a major dilemma, Im 21. One of my closest friends was going out with this girl about 2 years ago. They went out for a year and a half and then broke up mutually. Over the duration of the relationship I became close with her and we became fr...

Our LDR seems to be self destructing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I need some sound advice... I have been a relationship for almost 1.5 years now. My boyfriend loves me a lot;and i love him a LOT too. But our relationship seems to be self - destructive...its a long distance rel'ship for one. And two, we ke...

He deletes his emails and texts which makes me worry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock ...

Boyfriend deletes all his texts! Should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

The process of (LDBI)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

24 October 2010 (?) - This article consists of four simple words, Love, despair, broken, and incomplete. In other words the process of LDBI. Everyone goes through this process atleast once in their life, maybe more. Let me explain this process to you in greater detail. L...

I just broke up with my girlfriend but did I blow things out of proportion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my GF for a little over a year now, During that year we had broken up for about a month and a half. She started seeing this guy. I started dating around too. eventually we ended up getting back together. This guy that she was dating s...

What did I do? Is he jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for almost three years. We were so happy together but suddenly something happend. We were arguing sometimes. He told me that we can't be together because we always fight and he told me to be friends.After the breakup ...

My boyfriend forgets to call me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been so happy go lucky. yeah we had our probems but today i had it up to here! he goes to the movies with his friends and knowing i dont do nothing all day he dosent call mei told him why didnt call me and he said he forgot ...

We had sex, all was good, then he dumped me via text!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Alright so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month. Everything was going Super Great! Then one day, The morning was really good.. we woke up together.. we were cuddling.. he told me he loved me and didn't want to lose ...

I don't want my sadness to be selfish!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met my wife when i was 30, she was 39. We have spent the past 15 years in what our closest friends call the perfect love. I am, however, feeling very depressed about the timing of our love. We did not get to have children together because she had ...

Why doesn't she want our relationship to be 'official'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - My best friend and I lost our virginities to each other back in the beginning of June right after we graduated from high school. Yes, she is a girl and yes, I am a guy. Anyway, she asked me if I'd be okay with taking her virginity considering she ...

After arguements my best friend refuses to talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - if any body can give a good advice..i havent talk to the girl who has been my bestfriend for years..she said said she doenst know when she will talk me.. we had arguments but i dont think they were that strong to send our friendship to the ...

You've got a friend in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hi im a guy from the UK and theres this guy i want like to be friends with *this may sound wierd* but where like two completely people im like long hair and hes like a trouble maker. ive beeen in his class for over a year i sit next to him in m...

Boyfriend left me because I miscarried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - ok, where do i start. i guess it all started 4 years ago. I was with my first boyfriend for ten months. he broke up with me and 2 weeks later he was with my best friend. i lost the 2 of them. my other best friend left too. i was so alone. then came ...

Why would a woman do this to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or ...

I've just discovered my boyfriend has female friends he texts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi people as i live with my boyfriend for over a year, i just thought to use his fone to txt one of my friends then i relaised that he has girls as friends that he never told me abut and they been texting for awhile and im not sure whether to tell ...

I don't think he feels the same about me any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi guys i been with my bf for 1 year and half and we both sharing a flat. lately i relaised that we argue over everything e.g wat to eat, going out, wen i come back home late from uni etc. even the other day it was our anniversary and i dressed up ...

How can I make things better in our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - i married a man that is seven years older than me and we've been married for four year. at first everything was fine, now things are going downhill. he lost his jobs making 17 dollars an hour, we've been having money problems, he took a job making 8 ...