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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

B/f acts like I don't exist!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - I need help and advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, but recently he's been too busy for me and its like i dont exist. We normally talk everynight on the phone before we go to sleep, but he hasnt done it once the past 2-3 ...

He watches porn while I"m lying right next to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Help...Well me and boyfriend have been together about seven months.Everything has been great..Well I THOUGHT.He lives with me and I am a single mom of four and was in a bad marriage for 8 years and didnt won't to have sex and didnt for 2 years then ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. Within the first year he was always kissing me, cuddling me, etc....but now he barely comes near me. It's ME who's always going to HIM, i've tried that thing where 'you let them come to you' but i ...

High maintainence and too demanding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend never seems to understand why I get frustrated when he is constantly late to meet me somewhere etc. It may seem like I pick at little things but I'm not just talking minutes late, I'm talking hours. Now, I'm certain that he loves me, ...

I have scared off my LDR boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (?) - i feel i have scard my man away, we are in a LDR been with each other over a year and half now, well commited see each other best we can when we can, he has texted me every t break and dinner break while at work, and spoke to me every night on msn ...

I Don't Fit the Mold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Because of a chronic illness I have, I have been forced to move in with my parents. I am 26-years-old. I want SO BADLY to be independent, but it is near impossible as I am not able to work enough to be independent. My parents have helped me out ...

How do I tell my girlfriend I like her sister instead of her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - Hii, My question is How can I tell my girlfriend that I dont like her anymore I like her younger sister and also How can I say or propose to her sister? to be honest I have never had sex with my Gf :S yeh its true.. :(...

My friends ignored me and talk behind my back to everyone!

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2 October 2010 (F) - My friends treat me in a mean way, they even ignored me and go around talking behind my back. They go with another group and talk behind my back, and assume that it's my fault for how they are acting. I really didnt know what's going on and i k...

I get paranoid when my boyfriend is away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Please please help . I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with . He treats me so well , but the thing is he works away and I can't bare it. When he's not hear I feel lonely and when he's out I'm ...

Husband blames me for everything!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - My husband of 20 months is what I think is verbally abusive towards me, he calls me a s**g, b***h, w***e, thick, stupid, dumb, joke, f**k up, failure, pathetic. But he says he wouldn't call me any of these things if I didn't ignore him which he says ...

What the hell is she thinking? Am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been through a lot. We've been together for 2.5 years and we're both 20. Back in May we broke up (although she thinks we broke up in April) and we were apart for three weeks. After getting back together things were ...

Attack of the promises sigh*

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has become more honest, but my question is how come after she's promised to never/stop drink again, I fell for it ni believed her. We have been together for 7 months and been through too much at this point. My questio: how come I f...

I am not in love with my pregnant girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is pregnant with my baby but im not n love with her but i really wana be there for my baby wat should i do im thinkn of breakn up with her but don't know how or when. plus she's kind of depending on me rite now as far as finance goes. ...

He's been asking for a divorce but since I've decided yes, he has changed his mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm taking some time off of my 2 year marriage, ever since we were boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has been full of drama, he's always been very jealous and all our arguments get very very bad, like he's always too proud to accept ...

His behaviour did not change when he was told I like him as more than a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I fell for one of my best guy friends a year ago, and things have been interesting. I was going to tell my friend (We'll call him "Nick") about my feelings, but something got in the way and I didn't have the appropriate timing. ...

She dumped me because I failed to make plans for the future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years has just dumped me. I'm 34 and she is 28. I cheated on her once, and it came out at the start of the year. I had also failed to make any concrete plans to move in (start living) with her, or mention marriage / kids. She was ...

My boyfriend flirts and stares at other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - my boyfrien flirts and stares at other women i really dont know what to do i love him but because he does that i dont trust him our sexual life is suffering because of that.Should i worry about those things ...

Will I be alone for ever?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - I am 22 in 2 months i will be 23. I am divorced (i got married at 16) and a single mom of 3. I have been alone so long and i cant even get a guy to look at me. I have done all of the stuff people have told me. (be yourself go out stop looking...) ...

Too many choices, I don't know what to do~

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - Ok. So my situation is complicated. My girlfriend I've been dating for about a month now broke up with me because we lived so far away, went to different schools, and barely got to be together. Well we still both have feelings for each other, and we ...

He says he loves me too much to leave so why am I so confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - i had previously gotten some advice bcuz my bf cant get over my past which i cheated on my ex husband he says i will always b a cheater and at times puts me down.. he is hurt at the fact that i wuz not the girl he expected me to be... but i think he ...

Did I wait too long before asking her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - Hello all, I'm in need of a little insight on this. There is a lot of details to explain, so this might get a little long. First the details of her past. She's going through/has been through a tough time with a break up. She was in love with...

My husband wants me to have sex in a brothel

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - My husband of 8 months wants to take me to Los Vegas to have sex at a BROTHEL. I am not sure why he stated that during sex. There is nothing I have said or done to make him think I am into threesomes. He brought this up during sex which now makes ...

Is her new relationship a rebound and will she come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have recently broken up, about 2 weeks ago, and it's been pretty hard. And she has a new boyfriend that she met while she was involved with me. I know that we both loved each other towards the end of the relationship but the main ...

He wont introduce me to his family or friends because I am black

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Dunno what to do.Been with a guy 8 months and it feels like he loves me and I think I love him but some things freak me out. Like I think hes ashamed of me cause I'm younger and I'm black. He doesn't mind taking me out but he lives with his family ...

I don't want to be a virgin at thirty!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26 year old female...I am pretty, friendly, have lots of guy friends....and most people don't believe me when I say that I am still a virgin. I mainly fear because I am overweight that no guy will be attracted to me. I used to be thin and fit ...

Pregnant with another man's baby but wants me to be the father

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - me and my ex girlfriend moved back in together, after breaking up pretty badly our first go around, i believe in my heart dearly that she cheated on me during our relationship, not even 24 hours of us breaking up she had another man in our ...

I want to know if she is still interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - Ok so here is the deal. So there is this girl I have been talking to for a week or so. We hung out together for the first 3 nights in a row, 2nd night we slept together. I know she wanted to because we were just making out and then she ...

To me it seems I am being selfish

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (M) - There was someone in my life who I am better off moving on from, but I cannot seem to get her out of my head. Additionally, I feel like cutting off contact with her may have hurt her because she has self-proclaimed abandonment issues. I was obs...

I called her an 'attention whore" & now she is planning her revenge

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

2 October 2010 (?) - Recently i had an exchange of words with a girl who i am seeing for about 7 months but we are not committed. I know i said some harsh things but its only because i care for her and even though i tried explaining this recently, she wouldnt respond. ...

I am pregnant again yet when things go wrong he spits on me and runs home to his momma

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - hi i have been in this marriage for 4 1/2 years and we have been together a year before we married i love him sometmes i ask my self why because of how he acts like a spoiled 31 yr old brat we have 2 kids and i have 1 child from a highschool ...

Some of his stories just don't add up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - Hello So I'm having some issues lately with trusting my boyfriend. Some background: we've been together for about six months, i'm 24 he's 23 - things usually are great! he treats me well, he's very sweet, and loves me a great deal. my problem:...