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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm pregnant, he's unemployed, how can I make him get his priorities straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Im almost 7 months pregnant and it seems like my boyfriend cant get his priorities straight. He got laid off from work and instead of looking for another job he wants to go fishing every day, or hang out with his friends instead of spending quality ...

Please tell me he's not wanting to break up with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I split form my long term partner 12 months ago and immediatley met someone else. i am living on my own with my son. my new partner as been with me 24/7 and always telling me how much he loves me. he is a proper gentleman. our sex life is amazing, ...

My boyfriend is possessive and controlling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we got engaged when we were together 7 months. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and we did lots of things together. We also got on well with each others families. About 2 months after we ...

Why do I always have to smooth things over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hello All, I hate to ask others opinions on things because usually I can take care of things on my own....but lately it seems nobody is taking my side on things and I'm just curious as to what others think. I have been dating my boyfriend for ab...

He's angry and not into sex, but I can't end it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend of two years, he was really sweet and caring, affectionate and loving. But now we’ve been together a while, his horrible temper has emerged, he swears and punches walls etc when things don’t go his way. When we argue ...

It feels as if he is forcing himself to move on because we broke up over something so small and silly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, after a year we had a break because i was being overly argumentative, and we never fought, it was only 2 weeks and ever since then we were better than ever. we wet on several holidays together and spent a lot of ...

How can I help my stressed out boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend takes a very important exam next week and he's so stressed and worried and looks awful. How can I be of some assistance to him? I say comforting things but they just don't work! I feel so powerless watching him like that!...

She seems to put her friend before me, am I right to be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has a best friend who she is really close to. She's female. But my girlfriend goes to her whenever she is sad or whenever she is worried and talks it through with her. She speaks to her always before or sometimes instead of me. Should ...

Boyfriend is cheating on-line, but I still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am really at a loss as what to do. My boyfriend has been very distant to me these last 3 months. We broke up for a couple of weeks about 5 months ago (my instigation because he was being unsympathetic to me while I was miscarring our b...

I cheated on him, but now I am the one that is paranoid all the time....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend now for 6 months and around 4 months ago i cheated on him which is the biggest mistake have ever made. we worked through it and he moved in, but i have become very paranoid and feel like i am suffocating him, i dont know ...

I am disappointed...should I give our relationship another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - My bf just finished his PhD degree and he is working now. Besides work, he is living a lazy and slightly depressed lifestyle which he carried on from PhD. I hate it because I feel my relationship with him has low passion and I don't know what to do ...

Mom being stalked by her ex and doesn't seem to be taking it seriously

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I think my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend and I'm worried she's taking it too lightly, she doesn't find this as a dangerous situation, but I think it is or at least could escalate to something more serious. He and her dated last year ...

He wants to live with me, put a front on that we're together in front of family, friends ets, still do business together but be 'separated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years. He cheated a few yrs ago when we were on again/off again and we both moved on together...or so I thought. In the meantime I started my own business, my mother became terminally ill and my fiance and I ...

I miss him but I really don't know what I miss about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - After nearly 17months of my BF living with me, broke up many time over same issues then got back after few days, this time I told him in front of my adult kids that its really over, hes gone back to his mum and we have no contact for 9days, I miss ...

I have lost my fiancé because I got distracted. I don't want to loose him. Please help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I am living in with my boy friend since last 4 years. Last year we got engaged. When we met each other 4 years ago, we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We were into each other. At that time we were international students. Money was bit ...

She is involved with a drug taking, alcoholic sex addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - There is a girl at school that I have been friends with for a long time, atleast 7 years. I am really worried about her because She has recently started going out with a guy who is a huge druggy, alcholic and sex addict. I really don't wanr her to ...

My mother is emotionally numb, how can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Both my parents were teens when they had me (mom was a month from 18, dad had just turned 19 five days before). My dad was the one who wanted to keep me and my mom was very reluctant. She had big plans for college and a career and she had to give ...

He leads me on and cuts me down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - There's a guy. like always. And he's my best guy friend and I'd tell him anything and i love him...and i will never let myself "like like" him because i know he's kinda 2 faced. He told my friend he likes her while he's goin out with some one el...

I am trying to be friends with an ex, but I still sit at home and think about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - Its been one year since the break up occurred, we dated for 1.5 years (High School/College Lover's) and during this time I have tired focusing on myself. I feel great after my runs and lifting weight's. I am in the best shape in my life, and I have ...

My boyfriend is addicted to his newest compute game

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we still both care for each other very much. However, I feel like we are drifting away from each other. He is addicted to his newest computer game. He spends all of his time on it. ...

Has she totally moved on and doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - Hi so this is my story... My Ex girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years..And one day we had this huge argument about her not giving me time and etc.. With this heated argument, she suddenly blurted out that she needed some space.. So I gav...

H said he would come to mine but he went to hers instead

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - is it ok to be mad at your boy friend if he said he'd stay at your house then go to this other girls house,by the way he had sex with her this is befor he met me...kinda pissed off...

My boyfriend has just signed on for another six years of army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is in the army but he wants to stay another six years in the army? Should i stay with him? I really love him but it is really hard to be an army girlfriend please help.....

Am I being spun a line online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have recently met a man via a dating site (something I am not proud of and feel rather ashamed by). We have exchanged phone numbers and emails and seem to get on pretty well. However, recently his words have got more flirtatious and ...

Why would he send a picture of himself to another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I am 13 yrs old. In 6th grade I started talking to this guy in my class, we went skating and texted and thats about it. He was pretty much my 1st friend that was a dude. I guess I said some pretty weird things. He switched schools due to ...

I feel haunted and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Please, someone help me this. Months ago, I met an older man who almost forced me to have sex with him. I forgave him two weeks later...Three months later, he took my virginity. Four months after that, he calls me as often as he can, tells me he ...

Should I just let go and be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Im having a hard time wtih my situation right now. For starters, he has ruined trust in the past by flirting with women on his phone and being caught in a few lies. September 24 2010 made two years of us being together. October 1st was the official ...

I am married to a man who lies about everything!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

13 October 2010 (?) - I don't even know where to start, but here it goes; I am married to a man that constantly lies about EVERYTHING- and he breaks every promise that he makes. Each passing day I can feel my sense of self-worth and self-esteem grow weaker and weaker, ...

I love my boyfriend but keep thinking about my school crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I guess I should start off from the beginning. When I was in high school there was this guy in my grade that I had a huge crush on. I had always kind of liked him ever since he had moved to my school in the 5th grade but obviously back then it was ...

I am a mother of three young children and being threatened

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Me and my long term partner split up and 6 weeks later i met a guy who was pretty decent but i soon ended it with him as i was still deeply inlove with my ex,since this i have slept with my ex but he now no longer wants to speak or see me and im ...