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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He talks to me like nothing has happened but he won't sleep with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - hey guyz, i kno this may get confusin but i dnt know what to do anymore =( so here goes, me and my boyfriend had an arguement about a week ago over something silly and since then he wont sleep in the same bed as me ( he has seperated the be...

How can I try to get his dad to be nice to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Ok. This is a teensy bit awkward. Basically, the guy I've been seeing for over a year, I've had a crush on since I was 12. Although I payed him a lot of attention, he was never really interested in me, so I gave up and dated another guy. We all go t...

Should I just leave him to simmer...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - See this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-could-possibly-have-been-going-through-his.html for the story leading up to this. He's been writing me on Facebook nonstop telling me how sorry he is and how I'm somehow different from t...

Did he have sex with others? Should I believe him when he says no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - we lived together for six years ,he ended up moving out,its been a year we started to salvage the relationship,we havent been sexually active in this year i was waiting for him to treat me better and he is showing me that he is somewhat . So I asked ...

Was I out of line in saying I was too good for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 4 months. I fell in love the first night, based on his personality, how he presented himself, how he made himself be. He was someone I had always wanted, I loved who he was. At the begining he tried to make time ...

How do I get over these feelings of resentment for my younger sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - For the past year, I have been feeling resentful towards my very young half sister. Also for the past year, I feel that I do not have a close relationship with my father. My father left my mother for my step mother 16 years ago and I would only...

Would it help if we lived together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i split up after he cheated over one year ago we stayed together for months but it just blew up we're now trying to fix things again to get back together, i have depts and mortgage do you think he should help me out if we live ...

Confused by this love triangle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello, I have been dating a guy for a few months, he was great at first helped me with everything, told me he was married but getting a divorce, he came for a visit a few weeks ago left early saying he needed to get back to fini...

Marrying an older guy soon..but he treats me like a child! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I'm getting married in seven months...but I'm just not happy in the relationship..I'm marrying an older guy, who is more established than I. Which would normally be a good thing but the closer we get to our date the more he makes me feel like I'm ...

I have Borderline Personality Disorder..should I leave my bf for his own good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a fantastic, supportive relationship, but I've recently found out that I could have Borderline Personality Disorder, I'm worried that my boyfriend won't be able to cope with my behaviour for much longer. It's a lot for me to deal with but I ...

When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy? Especially when it lasted very long (4 - 5 years). Where there has been breaks ups but then patching back many times. Hurting the girl emotionally with harshful words and slapping...

His friend's stag is at a stripclub! I am feeling uncomfortable about him going!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My bf is going to a strip club for his mates stag. I'm obviously not going to say anything. But is is abnormal that this makes me really uncomfortable? ...

Why do all I attract is Jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I am a 21 year old female. I know I have a good head on my shoulders. I am a fulltime college student, and more importantly, I know where I want to go and where I want to be in life. Ok, now on to the juicy stuff. I just dont understand why I always ...

Will she ever wake up and realize what she has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - I recently broke up with my gf or 5 yrs. It's about the 15th time or so that this has happened very possibly for the last time. She has major men issues. She has never had 1 positive male role model in her life. I had sent most of or time proving to ...

Why does he bother to say he'll change when he doesn't even make the effort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - i have been on and off with my partner for 7years because he has cheated,lied,and wudnt take on the responsibility of a father and was a selfish partner.every time i would leave him,he would come looking for me some time later.i have 3 kids with ...

I am confused over my ex and in pain. He still responds to me. What do I do? Think?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi All, I would appreciate your advice on the following heartache. In breif. I dated a guy and he took me to meet his parents and best freinds within weeks. All was good, and we got on very well. I fell in love with him within a few weeks, but we ...

Single mum with a big headache!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I started seeing a lovely man 6 weeks ago. I have a 9yr old daughter who lives with me and he has a 6yr old son who stays with him 9 days out of 14. My ex only sees my daughter every other weekend but I have had her 2 weekends in a row. My new ...

Boyfriend went abroad, does he want me to stick around for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for nine months, the big challenge now is that he traveled abroad to study and the time difference is about six hours, we hardly talk because of that. It's been three weeks and some days now. Before he ...

I don't know if I should follow my head or my heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now , its been a very tough relationships as we both come from different backgrounds .. i'm from a quite nice one .. his isn't so fortunate .. but we love each other very much . i really truly love ...

My sister was caught stealing from my prospective employer but doesn't care

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I have lost all respect for my sister. She was the person that I looked up to. The worst part is that she doesn't even seem sorry, and she isn't showing any guilt or remorse whatsoever. It's a long story.... I have just started back at college ...

My boyfriend of three years tells me I am ugly!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! What can you do if your bf told you that your ugly? I have beem with my bf for 3yrs, last year he told that im ugly and he don't know why he's in love with me, he says may is because of im good in sex, i was realy hurt and after that ...

HELP! I LIED AND NOW I NEED HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - Okay so long story: Me and girlfriend broke up quite messily in February. I was devastated and begged her to get back but she wouldnt. I knew she still loved me alot at the time so I told her I was seeing another girl (when in fact I was...

Secretly I don't want to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (?) - Hello. I really like this one person in my class. I've liked him for more than a year now and he doesn't know about it. I really want to tell him but I fear rejection. Due to which I haven't really even displayed any remote emotions of liki...

He wants me back but I don't trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, am in a dilemma. Am torn apart i dont know what to choose please help. I was in a relationship for almost 3yrs with my ex boyfriend. It was a long distance relationship. I loved this man so much and i still do. During this 3yrs all w...

I fear our relationship is falling apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend of six months has become really distant and I am concerned that he is cheating. He has questioned his love for me in the past, and has admitted to being "sick of me" before. From time to time he does make an effort, such as ...

I want her back and this makes me angry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - My GF left me because she wants to "live life worry free and have fun" a few days ago which has me confused and hurt as it is, she said that i scared her when i said i wanted to settle down...she saw no future in me aswell. i keep trying to convince ...

We are separating, but she means the world to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - Hi I'm after some advice, my wife and I are seperating and she is going home to live in Canada with my 2 year old daughter. We have both had huge money problems while we have been together for the last 6 years and there's been big issues with my ...

Partner slept with my best friend who is in a relationship with my partners brother! They don't know I know please help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - It's so horrible it's eating away at me everyday i resent him a bit for it even though it happened before we were together but my friend told me before we even met. Basically my boyfriend has slept with my best friend,She then shortly after got into ...

Twitter codes and teenagers

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

3 October 2010 (?) - Ok this is probably the rarest question submitted. But i am hoping someone knows the answer. I have a 16 yr old daughter and as a concerned parent, I like to know what she is up to. I notice from time to time on her tweeter page she would type a b...

It would seem I am just another girl with relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. I don't want to say that I'm just another girl with a relationship problem/question, but it seems to be just that. I have diagnosed myself with the fact that I have commitment problems...

I'm leaving for two weeks, shouldn't he be wanting to spend his time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 yrs and we have a beautiful 13 month old daughter together. All of my family lives across country so I try to go and visit a few times a year, he has yet to ever come with me. He always seems excited for our ...

She is separated, not divorced, is it worth spending my time, I do care for her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - I'm in my early 30's. Have been married before and went through a horrific experience with the seperation. It's been a few years and I just started to get back into the swing of things and I'm now getting serious with this woman. She is appx th...

Is he cheating or am I too suspicious??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is the first boy in my life. 3 months ago I found that he has been on many dating sites, all of them of sexual nature and he said it is old and that he doesn't use it anymore. I found old emails of him praising his ex ...

Is there hope for the two of us, he said he was finished, but is back for sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up a week ago, due to my bad habits i guess or so he says. He said he was tired of the little petty stuff i did and that they added all up and he cant deal with it anymore. I love this man with all my heart i wrote him a ...

How do I figure him out, he acts like two different people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I have a coworker that I hang out with a lot. We started out as lunch buddies and then about his intentions though because at work, we flirt with each other and he is always nvading my personal space like pulling my hair or trying to steal my phone. ...

I am not attracted to my skinny boyfriend with his beer gut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Me and my fiancee just made 2 years we have a 6 month old son, i am 19 and he is 24 and we plan to get married next year. Here is my dilemma im in love with him but not physically attracted to him. I like my guys muscular at least somewhat, he is ...