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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't be without my boyfriend, but I can't carry on having his dad talk about me in this way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok, here it is. I suffer from slight mental health issues. Having been bullied since I was about 10, I have learned to block a lot of things out, but eventually it all gets on top of me, and I have serious breakdowns, to the point where I curl up ...

He doesn't want a relationship, I do....and it's killing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I met this guy about 11 months ago. At first I blew him off alot but finally gave in and went out with him. From that moment, we had an instant connection. I found out a week later he was in a long-distance relationship but I didn't let me that ...

Based on his depression and a past incident, I'm really worried about him going out clubbing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My 27 year old bf of 2 years kissed another girl over a year ago, and up until a couple of months ago had made a fake profile with another man's pic rather than his own and was talking to other girls online pretending to be someone else. He said ...

Help, my girlfriend may not love me! Suspicious things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...

My boyfriend doesn't have a job, has no money, hasn't taken any steps to go back to school, stays out all night, won't watch our daughter, and calls me a nag and a bore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 yrs. We have a beautiful daughter who will be 2 in December. Me and my bf havent been getting along at all. He blames me for everything. He works 15hrs a week for welfare. He takes a nap everyday. Its ...

I feel so desolate and isolated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - hey guys i dont even like posting as i feel im bothering you with my problems but i need someone to talk to as i feel so down. im 35-im stuck in a dead end job-stuck in a debt management programme thanks to my grasping ex who left me in 50k of debt ...

My man won't give me any!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 2 yrs now. When we first met the sex was hot and heavy and I couldn't keep him off me. Then, 6 months later I found out I was pregnant. He already had 2 boys and didn't want any more kids ...

My boyfriend betrayed me in the worst way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfreind has broken my trust and has done teh worst thing any one could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his famly about it. I can ...

How can I turn this around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I am 32 the same age as my girlfriend. we have recently moved in together, i have started university i am finding it hard and quite stressful. as a result of this my sex drive has diminished somewhat. my girlfriend finds this very difficult and gets ...

My boyfriend cheated with one of my close friends and I can't get over it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hello,im hoping someone can give me some advice..so ive been w/my boyfriend a little over 5yrs we have 2 children together absolutely almost perfect that is because when about 5yrs ago he slept w/1 of my closest friends.shes my friend but shes a ...

Got too close to my fiance's friend, now he's distant, is it because of what could have happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm getting married in July. However, last year I started falling for one of my fiancés friends, he has loads of friends but me and this one became really close, chatting everyday, having the odd lunch or whatever during the day, until we had a big ...

Father of my baby is having thoughts about my friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hi Cupids, Really need your help. Last night i found out that my boyfriend of 1 yr 2 months has been speaking to my female friend, he told her that he's been having 'thoughts' about her, and that he was waiting for a kiss off her. I'm fully aware ...

I am 15, want to be with 24 year old online guy and feel depressed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am 15 yrs old. i am in love with a guy he is 24 we met online...i hate my life no one loves me i don't have any friends i am always depressed my parents hate each other my dad is having affair...i can't talk about my problems with my mom bcoz she ...

Did he have the wrong impression of my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - my story is quite long but please go throught it and advice me. my sister who is older than me and is married have always think that my cousin is in love with me. it is due to his behaviour towards me. he would wink at me. text me saying sweethear...

My long distance relationship has problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 11/2 yrs. We were in a distant relationshp 2 hrs. He was trying hard and took turns traveling to see each other. I had been going through my own thing, graduated from college and could not find a job for 8 ...

My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an ...

My boyfriend can't marry me because of my past.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - In the beginning of our relationship I told my boyfriend about my past sexual relationships. I have slept with more guys than he has girls and have had a few friends with benefits type situations. I wanted to be honest and upfront with him because I ...

Doomed to a life of being single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Am I doomed to remain single? I have been so for all of my life. no joke. I have never found anyone that I like well enough to get into any sort of relationship with, at least not anyone that I can be with. Anyway, I don't know what's wrong with ...

What else can I do to make her feel happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - hi i have been i love with this girl for over an year,and things have always been ok. She has been very easy going . When we got together, she told me that was a phase and now she wanted a serious, long term relationship. the question existed ...

I told my girlfriend I cheated on her, but wasn't completely honest about what happened. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job from her. I called my girl ...

My son makes me happy, my boyfriend does not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Okay so where to start.. I am unhappy. I gave birth to my first child on October 2nd and even though my son makes me happy, my boyfriend does not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. When I first started dating him, he was a reb...

Torn between my ex and his friend, who should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok, i dont really know how to start this off so im just gonna jump in. me and my boyfriend have been going out for amost a year now. and in that year hes been to jail 10 times. I love him to death. but now he just got out the other day and ...

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

Porn the reason he's tired all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2 years. We are planning to get married next year. We used to have sex about 2-4 times a week. He always tells me I'm sexy. However, within the last 6 months, we've hardly ...

I want to stop being jealous of the guy she lost her virginity to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - hey, me again. Warning you ahead of time that this is quite long, and I'm not a good writer so bear with me. Here is some info to start with- Ok me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. We are in a committed Long distance ...

He deletes my comments on FB and likes and unlikes as well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - So my ex, (I'll call him Jay) I had an instant connection with him the moment I met him, but our relationship was short lived. He broke up with me because I was "distracting him from his baseball career." (he was a baseball star in his league) Later ...

Are you SURE he isn't flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok, I have asked about 3 of my friends this and they can't give me an answer. I have this guy friend "Chris", we met last year in class and have been friends sense. I immediately fell for him and wasnt sure if he did. He would always flirt wit...

I am going round in circles with the father of my baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - We have been out this relationship for some yrs. He cheated but apologized i he was with his new girl but continued to tell me how much he missed me But we still talk but in the mean time he leaves her and goes with someone else. but still continues ...

My best friend and my ex flirt in front of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Me and my ex-bf broke up about a month ago on a Friday. That following Monday I found out my bff likes my ex, and that day she told me to get over him and that she was going to ask him if he would ask her out. See, while me and him were dating, ...

Since we had sex I have heard nothing from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 20 year old with little dating experience and very very confused! Please help! I met a seemingly great guy, Steve, online. We messaged for five months and eventually met offline. I felt we had a really strong connection and would get along ...

Does my girlfriend like me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

I'm in love with my coach!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am In love with my softball ast. Coach he is 26 I am 17 I no he has feelings for me because he is always texting me and flirting with me we hang out every friday at the football games the biggest problem is I have a bf that I have been with for 3 ...

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...

She lied about meeting an ex and it still haunts me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I really need some help sorting out my thoughts. I've browsed a couple of other questions none ever really gave a distinct absolute answer. Don't know if there is one. 12/2008 I met Susan. Shes 26 im 23. Instant attraction - nothing I had ev...

The guy who had broken my heart is back...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - He's back. -Que dramatic music!- Can I ask a simple question to those of you out there who had their heart broken before? Let's say that you met a guy/girl who you fell head over heels for. You hung out with him/her ALOT and you've kissed quite a f...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is very trustworthy and our relation is for 3 years. but now-a-days i feel that he is ignoring me, not talking with me like previous. i am not understanding his problem. i asked him several times but he is avoiding my question.is he ...

My sister is setting herself up to be used again, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My sister went out with this guy for almost 6 years. They always fought about the stupidest things because they both thought that they were right about everything. Last February they went through a rough patch. He would constantly flip out at the ...

Depression and its Effects on Relationships

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am just wondering how many relationship that have broken up due to one partner's depression. Who broke up with whom, and when when the others depression was better did you end up getting back together? Can a relationship be fixed if one partner ...

Need to talk to my b/f about problems in our relationship without sounding bitchy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm having a talk with my boyfriend about how he has been treating me and acting and how I don't like it and etc. What are ways to do this without sounding naggy, mean, bitchy, insensitive, annoying, etc. I just want something that wont sound ac...

I've really offended my friend help what can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - advice please. i think ive really offended my friend. we went for lunch yesterday and she was going on about some baby toy for her 5 month old for a while and i went into the shop to look for it to buy for her and was quite tired yesterda...

B/f says he can't move on till his ex gets pregnant or married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I will try my best to cut a long story short. My current love interest, the father of my near 1yr old is still in love with his ex girlfriend and has said on a few occasions that he can't move on until she gets pregnant or gets married. Just a li...