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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just want our friendship to go back like it was...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Well.. It all started two and half years ago.. We got to know each other really well, her BF who met her after me who she really loves - they shared PW's on every account they have.. FaceBook, Xfire, MSN and so on, well to cut to the question.. ...

I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...

He's choosing the wrong friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Any help would be so greatly appreciated! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three and a half years and we went to college together, graduated together, and now I am working and he is in law school. We barely get to see each other s...

Does he like me? Or just messing with my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - There's is this guy, half turkish-half german, I met exactly one year ago. Normally I like someone very quick (1 day) by looking at the guy's behavior, but this one I met was not like that. I started liking him after almost 1 month, I think I fell ...

What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too ...

Break up or make up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Well a four days ago I found out my boyfriend had a face book without telling me and so I wait to see if he tells me and he still doesn't so the next day I stayed home it was a friday night and I went to bed early because my mom is in the hospital ...

What he did hurt me now I don't know what to do and can't talk to my friends about it. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I'm really confused now. I just found out that my boyfriend has been talking to some men on the internet about wanted to experiencing being with another man. Okay i can say that i understand him a bit, because i have always been curious about how it ...

Should I give up on tough love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - im so in love with a girl i told her how i feel about her,but she is giving me a hard time the thing is that she tells me that she wanna know if she is trully commiting her self to a right guy,she first wanna feel the same as i do feel about her but ...

I don't know how to get over the shame and humiliation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Dear anyone I've been married for nearly 30 years and weve had our ups and downs. It turns out my ex to be hubby has been a secret cross dresser all of our married life. he has hidden it so well that i didn't have a clue until he came out and told...

Comunication Breakdown

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - i have posted her before and was happy with the mature responses i got so im back for some advice and opinion. my on and off girlfriend have had some huge communication issues. I am a talker and she is not. i am dealing with the fact that she had ...

I believe he was my soulmate, and now cant get over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I want to know if a guy I dated was my soulmate, and if so how to do I get over him? So my sophomore year of high school I had a class with this guy... and immediately felt a connection. We both wanted to take it slow and not rush into things, ...

I am a bit jittery about being intimate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...

My boyfriend is more focussed on his sister in law than our wedding plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hey.. I am 19 yrs old girl, having trouble in understanding my bf whom i am dating from almost 2 yrs. He was my best friend and now bf. Things were cool before but now i feel he has changed. We were talking yesterday about our wedding plans when sud...

My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?...

Would him showing his friends naked pics of me be a deal breaker?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (?) - I just found out my boyfriend of 2yrs showed a bunch of his friends and co-workers pictures of my breasts that he and I took during our first year of dating. I don't know at what point he showed these pictures--possibly during a big fight...or ...

Since he dumped me he stalks my facebook page

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I need big help. I met a charming fellow on a dating site a year ago and it seemed we really hit it off but there was something about him that didn't sit quite well. One week he aadored me and the next he would unexplainedly treat me like crap and ...

My boyfriend feels my problems shouldn't affect him in any way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Iv been a bit depressed lately,because my family is going through a crisis, and iv been feeling very low, my PhD work is all stacked up..i have so much to do and i dont even know where to start from, and to top it all, I have a clingy boyfriend (Im ...

I don't want to have to accept this child

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26 year old female married for 4 years now to my husband. We have a 4 and 1/2 year old daughter as well as a 3 year old daughter. Yesterday, I found out that due to a one night stand with another woman, there is now a 5 yr old little girl ...

I am 21 and not married yet but can see lots of problems ahead

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 21-years-old and we've been together for 5 years. We have a precious two-year-old son together...but I don't think I'd still be with him if we didn't have a kid. We've been talking about marriage since we first got tog...

My wife is in ER and I can't get back to her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - My wife is in the ER as I write this. I am thousands of miles away on business. She is 8 months pregnant and has been complaining of pain in between her shoulder blades, more to the right side. It has radiated to the front of her chest. Right below ...

He said I was "not the one" and then had sex with me anyway

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up . we had a nice dinner and he said i was not the "one" however he kept saying he loves me and wants to be my friend. when we left the restaurant we ended up having sex in the parking lot. he still kept saying how ...

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told ...

My heart is broken and life has no colour anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - i met the girl of my dreams about 5 years ago, we dated for three. halfway though, she broke up with me over a text, because i used to get too jealous when she was hanging out with her multiple friends who happened to be guys. regardless, i c...

On again off again for five years but I can't let him go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid my ex and i have been on and off for five years. everytime he is the one that breaks up with me, but we always get back together with in a year or two. Both of us have been with others, him more than me, but i always compare other gu...

We haven't spoken in a week, is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend are in the no contact situation but we never said it wuz over. i stopped contacting him bcuz he wouldnt call me or txt me.. so i figure i would give him time to figure out wht he wants... do to his insecurity and trust issues ...

Very insecure girlfriend, inexperienced me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm new to the site, but have found this site several times in the past while looking for answers to problems. First, a bit of background. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and things have progressed very fast since then. We'r...

Dated him. Broke up. Then got back together. Lost the feeling again. Did it again. Then really fell for him. He dumped me. I love him. How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Awhile ago me and this guy went out. A few weeks later I broke up with him, because I wasnt really feeling it anymore. About a month later, he asked me out again. I said yes,because i thought i liked him again. We went out for about three days. ...

My girlfriend's 'friend' tried to talk her into cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend got a booty call last night from one of her former f-buddies. I met her f-buddy at a party about two months ago. She said they were still friends but not sexually active so I didn't worry about it. But then yesterday he sent her a bo...