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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ...

Does he care at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hello hope you all can help... ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years... he says im unaffectionate (i am such a loving person but gave up trying because he is non affectionate) ...if fact my question is this .. Ive always tried in the rela...

We can have sex three times a day and he will still beat off to porn or role play with women on the net!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - i have been with my bf for almost three years. we have one kid that is 2 and another one on the way. when we first got together he always beat off to porn or was role playing with other women on the net. he promised that he was done but i kept ...

Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...

My trust in him has died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up because he says I don't trust him..the reason I don't trust him is because he lies to me about the smallest things..we have a child together and my family lives cross country so I can't just move out quick..but then ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

I upset him now he wont talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My bf is currently not talking to me, I upset him last week and since then hes not been talking to me. I have tried to get a face to face meeting to apologise but he wont hear of it, so as a last attempt to save our relationship im going to write ...

Yikes, do I rekindle the old flame or cultivate the new one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have an old love (over 20 years) that I reacquainted with this summer after finally ending a messy divorce last year. My old boyfriend lives far far away and works in remote jobsites so he is rarely available. In the months since I last seen ...

I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a ...

My girlfriend has me confused and down lately, what do I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 months now and it has been going great until just a week ago. After the first month of dating she was the first one to say she loved me but it wasnt strong love yet, and that it would get stronger over ...

I need help. I don't want to give up on us, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I promise to make this as short as possible. Me and my (ex) boyfriend were together not that long but 6 months. We were not together 3 months out of the 6 and basically lived together a month and a half out of the other 3. THe months we were apart ...

I don't like it when people call my girl sweet names

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I have this girl and she's really wonderful in every way. Just an issue is that I am NOT sure but I wonder if she's cheating I really doubt it because she's never like that. It makes me jealous when people go all over her and call her "my ...

Can I not give my heart completely because of all the hurt I've suffered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend of two years and I broke up two years ago for MANY reasons I will not discuss. He was my first love (as I was his) and I had given my all to him (well, everything but my anal virginity). There were a few times throughout this ...

Are we doomed to keep repeating the same pattern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - So here's my situation. I have been seperated from my ex of over 8yrs for about 2months ish. In the first month we still used to see each other quite alot and usually end up in bed but then all of a sudden she cut contact with me. I started to think ...

I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral... this might turn out really long, in a way I just want to vent, but also some words of advise or opinions that can make me feel better w...

Angry at parents even though they do everything they can for me, want to stop feeling this way, help please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I want to stop feeling angry and my parents and sister, please help advise me how to... My parents are good people. They worked very hard, saved every penny and had a hard life. They've given me a good life as well, roof over my head, an educati...

We are on a week break of our 7 year relationship. What do you think will happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are Juniors in College, both 21, and have been dating for 7 years. We love each other dearly, but feel we have no time for each other. we never fight, and frankly I feel like we have a very good relationship.. when its going good ...

What should I do with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I'm 29 years old and I met my girlfriend 5 months ago. The question is what should I do with her? Situation is as follows: She has 2 sons (5 and 7 years old) and she separated from her husband about a year ago. They grow their children "togeth...

He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...

His addiction to video games is destroying our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - What would you do? I am with a man who is lovely, upbeat, faithful and generous, but over that last 2 years, it seems his demeaner to me has changed in a negative way. The way he talks to me, and about me, seems to be not to put me down, but to say, ...

I'm worried my partner is interested in my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having troubles. I have a fear that he is more interested in my friend ( who is married..by the way) as they have quite similar personalities and enjoy the same hobbies and have been bought up a siminlar way. My friend has ...

My fiancee wants to leave with my baby girl, how can I make her see all three of us should stay as a family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Hi All, Just need some advice as to what to do! A month ago me and my fiance started to have some issues with our relationship. Basically i've gone further and further down on her list to a point where i was getting absolutely no attention. We had a...

What can I do to forgive and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I found out about a month ago that my significant other cheated on me about six months ago. We are not married, but we have been living together for 5 years and have two little boys. About a year ago she decided to go back to school. I told her to ...

Why does he hide so much from me? He knows I wouldnt get mad, I just hate the lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hi id really apprecitate some advice on this please guys. i have been trying to save my marriage after finding out certain things about my husband he was hiding things from me that have turned out to be not a big deal but he hides things from me ...

Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we ...

Am I lovesick for her? What can I do to stop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Hello to everyone, I have a few for me relevant questions that I can't get answered by myself... About relationship. I'm together for almost 3 months with the person for whom my feelings have gone wild, REALLY wild. The same thing happens to he...

I feel like I've traded one dad for another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - i recently turned 18. Like most teenagers, i have been long awaiting this time period in my life. Well the time came and all i want to do is have fun. but its like i cant. iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years. hes always been kinda controlling and ...

How can I show her I'm telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this ...

Text message gone wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hii.. i really need advice..please help me...i was in a relationship with a guy for past 1 and a half years...we both were serious about each other...in august i had a fight with him and in anger i wrote a message to him in which i put my entire a...

My bf's wandering eye, flirting, and internet cheating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid...im a female in a monoginus relationhip with my boyfriend..most things we have in common that make it so wonderful are, our health and keep our selves becoming over weight, our kids, our physical, our wonderful sexual relationship, our ...

I got amazing 'jail mail', but now ... ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I was seeing this guy for 2 weeks, then he got locked up for 60 dys. during that time i got some amazing "jail mail"...however once i mentioned to him i was worried that's all it was he freaked and the lovey dovey stuff stopped. he is home now, and ...

I love my girlfriend, and want to propose to her, but now I'm having doubts

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, I am madly in love with my girlfriend, I'll call Tracy, of nearly two years. I've been wanting to propose to her (she knows this), but lately, her actions have been giving me doubts. In a nutshell, I think she's is obsessed with th...