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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend's brother's girlfriend speaks badly about me to other people! Is she just jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - What should I do about my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend? We're going to a wedding in belgium the day after tomorrow. Sleeping in the same hotel as my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend. Last night my boyfriend was at their house sorting out the ...

I feel like we're drifting apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend, both still in high school, have been dating for about 10 months. We've been pretty close so far, but lately it seems like he's pulling away from me. I can tell he still loves and cares about me but i start to worry sometimes. ...

Boyfriend's ex died 7 months ago and I feel he is just stringing me along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. His ex-girlfriend, who found out she had leukemia about a month before they broke up (about 2 years ago) passed away about 7 months ago. My boyfriend still talks about her, and o...

Because of my abusive sexual past my boyfriend is afraid of overstepping bounds

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi, so I'm having some serious issues here. I wont disclose any actual information or names, hence anonymous, but I would really appreciate some advice. I've been dating my boyfriend steadily for almost two years now. We've reached a marker...

Girlfriend acting suspicious. Cause for concern?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - My first ever question to Dear Cupid! This question may sound textbook, but I would like an outside opinion. About 6 weeks ago, my girlfriend decided to take some time apart. She said that she needed a week to think about what she really want...

She left her husband for me and now I don't want her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I dont think I love my girlfriend of two years anymore. Here is the situation, 2 years ago I met this girl, but she was already married for 4 years but something happened and we started talking with one another and before you know it we were getting ...

Why do you answer to these questions?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...

Why don't I love my boyfriend?? am soo sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - omg so my boyfriend is SOOOO sweet... he says he loves me after 3months..but i like him..but i dont love him.. when he says i love you tons and tons.. i know he does and i can feel it.... i dont say anything back.. i just say ok.. and hu...

Iv never been able to relax or have "fun" - teach myself tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - Hiya guys and gals for the last couple of weeks i have been doing some self reflection, my gf left me a few weeks ago, i loved her loads, but however, i am slowly accepting my loss and accepting her as a friend instead. - this isnt the issue h...

How do I show her I'm back to being the man she fell in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for eight months. We have much in common and have had lots of great times during this period. Sure we have had our downs and well, and a few arguments along the way. We pretty much hit it off from the first date, ...

Should I leave him alone or wait to see if he realises that I really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I am confused this guy says things like I went overseas with the wrong girl, if you had of been there with me it would have been awesome! and I wouldn't care if we did nothing at all as long as we were together! Then he suddenly changes and pulls ...

Should I work on becoming friends with her instead, or just completely forget about her and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I’ve known this girl three years ago, when both of us were twelve. We were classmates. Now we’re in different schools. I fell in love with her. I sent her two letters and a gift and I think I went a little too far, because she then started calling ...

I'm worried if I hadnt discovered these messages he would have gone ahead and had 2 girlfriends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my bf for 8months now and ive totally fallen in love with him. However, he has an ex girlfriend who he broke up with coz he cheated on her (not with me). She moved to a different city for the most part of this year and now she's back ...

I cant let her marry her cousin, but I am not in the right place for marriage either! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I need help,serious advice on my situation. I am 22, she is 21. Our society is not like yours , so things are different and complicated. her family wants her to marry her cousin now. She has her option which is she has to marry now,she can marry ...

I hate my job, and struggling with love! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - i cant stop thinking about these things! this is not completely realated to realationships. im 13, still classed as a kid to some people. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are going along fine and all the rest. i have a job as a ...

He is so confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - we were friends for a long time.. we met during our review for our nclex exams. we were always talking during our review about our life, lovelife, dreams and hopes.. he is silent but becomes talkative when we talk.. after our review, we go to coffee ...

How should I take things from here?

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12 October 2010 (F) - hello i am 45 he is 42, i met him quite by accident and we have started to date, things were looking fine but now i have the feeling he is backing off.................not sure whether heis feeling insecure and i should try to reinforcre or i should ...

I need help, I think I'm about to do something very stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I need help im about to do something very stupid (maybe) SO as you imagine im brokenhearted, we broke up 6 months ago, we broke up she says couse i was "mean", i think she just did not love me. We dated for 3 years, she asked several time to ...

Together for 3 years and planning on getting married, but I still have not met any of his kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 yrs. We see eachother almost every other day since the first day we started dating. i have 1 son from a previous marriage, and he has 2 sons (living w/ him) from a previous marriage, now age 7 and 13...

Help me to understand my bi-sexual boyfriend...What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi xx Im so confused, i Really do need some help :'( My boyfriend and i have been together 4 years (were 20) and hes recently (last 6 months) come out as being bisexual, and i really want to be okay with it and to understand how he feels and t...

My boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend - we are dating for a month now but he can't seem to get over his EX-girlfriend... they were in a relationship for 6 years n after that she has left him for another guy... i...

I'm worried my past might come back to haunt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - i am a 24 yrs .typically from a cultural family .i have bitterness in relationship in my past.with many .everyone were a cheater .just made for physical relation .this hurts me a lot .due to my past even some of my fren scolded me .i was helpless .i ...

Do I mean something to him or has he been just messing me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, there's one thing i'm wondering myself all the time. When a man fell for a lass, would he want to be in contact regularly and yet would want to know how's thing going with that girl? I lost my faith in love since my first love failed ...

How do I deal with this crazy girl who wont leave me alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - Ok have a problem I got a girl trying to re-add me on facebook she dosnt seem to get the hint after all the trouble she has caused by saying and doing nasty things she has pushed altogether 3 friends away and 2 mates against each other . I've given ...

Did I do the right thing or should I have stayed and tried harder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - so I've been dating this guy on and off for about 2 yrs now and i left my finance for him . i realized while i was in engaged that i wasn't happy i just thought i was . when in reality my ex bf made me happy he always has .so i ended my 1 month ...

Is this a male thing or or does he some weird issue ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Ugh !! I am really confused. I have been with B for 3 years , we broke up ( over stupid issues that we are both correcting) but continued to date , we go out once or twice a week and talk daily . He tells me he loves me . The problem I have when I ...

Are men who watch porn more likely to ogle women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I understand men glance, and I understand men look at attractive women. If the woman is extremely attractive or if she is scantily clad, I understand men will probably want to look a little longer. So, what I am wondering is if my boyfriend wat...

Why would he think he would be the one for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - hi, i met a guy who im not interested whatsoever, we just talk once in a while. at the begining when i met him, he asked me if i was a virgin. he insisted to know and for some weird reason guys tend to know who is and who isn't (like if its written ...

My fiance is starting to have feelings for friend who helped her while I was on tour overseas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - my fiance and i have been togather for a year and a half and im home on mid tour from afgahanstan and we have a six month old daughter but about a month ago she told me that she thinks that she is starting to have feelings for one of her friends ...

HELP , should I MARRY this girl ?

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12 October 2010 (M) - I met this girl and I fell in love with her , it was in a different city where I live and she was coming for a visit to Denmark , we hanged together for two days , and in the end of the second day I told her that I liked her very much and she said ...

He always has to be right, even if its about stupid things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi so i have a question dealing with my bf. We've been together 5 years. He's very opinionated and is a no "BS" kind of guy. he's got a good heart but sometimes when he's having a conversation with somebody and they disagree or make a different ...

I'm so sick of his hot/cold behavior!

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12 October 2010 (F) - Well, theres this guy I've been seeing. We started seeing eachother in like early april. Then at the end of may, i suddenly didnt hear from him, so I was wondering what was going on. So after a week of not hearing from him, I found him on myspace, ...

Was I wrong for ending things? He's not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I am 46 years old and have been dating a man 53. He has never been married. His last relationship lasted 7 years she left him suddenly for another man and moved to another state. We have been dating for almost a year. I have asked if that ...

He's not putting in the effort anymore, should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - When I first got with my boyfriend he was the most romantic man I've ever met/known. He used to do the loveliest things for me all the time that used to make me so happy and I totally knew how into me he was. This carried on for almost a year, he ...

How do I stop fantasies about our relationship and wondering if its serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months now, and I've run into a kinda personal issue. It doesn't have anything to do with him, he's perfect, treats me great, and I love him with my all my heart. The problem is I feel like he's the one for me, and ...

Boyfriend says it's over if I get another tattoo!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi all My boyfriend has told me that he might leave me if i get another tattoo, piercing or modify my body in any way. We have been together for 5 years and i love him dearly. He is very sweet and kind and i do value his opinion on body modifi...