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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Now that he's out of prison he's blowing me off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I met my fiance 11 months ago in prison and over the year that we have been together we have grown to be so much in love well so much like we were in love and now that he is out his family doesnt like me and he has been trying to blow me off for the ...

We aren't getting along and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - i feel like me and my boyfriend arent getting along and hes driving crazy...what should i do?...

Boyfriend losing interest, how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend has recently gone back to university which is 3 hours from where i live, i rarely get to see him anymore and i am finding it really difficult. Hes in his last year but i got so used to him being around over the summer holidays ...

He won't reply to any of my texts/ calls, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I got all hot headed on monday and after he had left i asked him by text if he was using me just for sex. SOmetimes it does feel like this as we dont get to spend much time together. Having thought about it I guess I was a bit harsh on him and ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with drugs. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - This summer my boyfriend started trying to do drugs. He had never done anything like that before, which is how I liked it, because I am morally against drugs. However I made myself accept his occasional use. When he got to college, his habit got ...

I think I've ruined everything in my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Ok. so here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have beend dating for a little over a year now, and everything was perfect. We did everything together. She went out of her way to do really good things for me and told me things like I'm the mos...

So lonely with no friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I'm finding life a little lonely and sad at the moment without any friends. I'm 21 and live with my partner of 2 years. I can imagine you are probably thinking now "Of course you have friends, EVERYONE has at least one good friend". But I really a...

He makes me feel guilty for my past relationships and doesn't feel he is 'equal' to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together just under a year now. we have had a lot of ups and downs, and although all the great times we have shared outweigh the arguments, it's beginning to get too much. he is my 5th serious relationship and...

I'm torn between three guys, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Pull out the popcorn and get comfortable, this is gonna be long. Hiya Aunts and Uncles, I'm in quite a confused space with 3 really great guys at the moment. Lets call the first guy Jarvis. We dated for about 7 months but it took 3 months...

Why can't my ex and I let go of each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hello Dear Cupid. Please help!! I am stil madly in love wth my ex, and he knows it, and he messages me if I do not hear from him, and I message him vice versa. We do not see each other much, but when we do it usually really nice, but he always ...

Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...

I love her but this relationship is tormenting me, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - (Taken from a previous forum I posted in) I love her, she's my best friend too and we've already spoken about a future together, etc. but I'm having doubts now. We probably haven't spent more than 2 days away from each other. When there's t...

We broke up and it's driving me crazy, how do I cope, should I let her be??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - hey everyone . okay so my ldr gf and i broke up , and its killing me . i just wonder if u should really give her a space before i try to get her back . but im worried , what is she gets with some1 else during this time ?!! coz i know some guys are ...

Need suggestions on how to control my aggressive behavior??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been married 3 years. It seems tho that e can't get over past mistakes. I love my husband but he tends to keep secrets n when I find out I go ballistic. I can't Handle hurt n the fact that I have never met his son or that he never sp...

He cheated and got her pregnant and I'm mad as hell

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Before a get started...i want to say i love my boyfriend very much. BUT...we have been through too much. i don't know what to do anymore. We have been dating for almost 2 years now. the past 5 months is the best our relationship has ever been. w...

My husband always watches sex videos how can I make him stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone I have a problem.....I am married. Its been two years. Every thing is cool. Even my sex life too. Here comes the problem my husband always sees sex videos.It makes me feel very bad when he watches sex videos. I want to make him stop se...

Should I tell her the truth, or stick it out for this baby and see what happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been fighting a lot. I fell in love with another woman, and was going to leave my wife for her. Then my wife told me she was pregnant. She asked me point blank, "do you want to have this baby with me?" Since I KNOW that I F'd ...

My sister is filing for divorce from her husband because she thinks him and me were playing "footsie"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am very close to my sister. I am single. My sister has been married for 10 years. I am also close to her husband. I was visiting my sister last Sunday and she, her husband, his parents and I were playing card games on a table. I accidentally ...

I need help on talking to my boyfriend's parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I need help talking to my boyfriends parents. I'm incredibly shy and so have trouble talking to people I don't know well. Can anyone give me any advice on how to keep a conversation? I'm very grateful to them as my BF and I were long distance an...

I slept with him and now he's cold to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some boy advice! Ok so on my course that I'm doing where I'm nursing or training. There's this boy who I noticed first day! Very cute! He kept looking at 'me and we spent 4 weeks looking over at each other in lectures! I finally did some ...

Why do I let him BACK in my life because he has nowhere to go? I've got to get him OUT of HERE!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: I am an educated,loving,generous widow with one adult child in college. I got hooked up with a man who was married to a family member I never really knew..who is now dead. He had a drug habit (meth), smokes, drinks, has NO ability ...

It bothers me that my boyfriend is taking drugs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while, he's English and I'm Asian. Most of the time I try not to let cultural differences become our relationship problems. However, there's one thing that bugs me quite a lot: the fact th...

He wouldn't put into the relationship what I was so we broke up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - ok so 3 weeks ago my boyfriend and i seperated, after 14 months, 10 of those living together, I have 3 kids he has 1, my kids well behaved his a nightmare, i put 110% into him and his son even with out realizing pushing mine away, We loved each ...

My boyfriend is nice to me some days, but not so nice on others!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - So I'm hoping to attempt to make this question relatively short. I really need some advice because there's no one else in my life right now *sadface*. Soo I recently moved in with my bf and it goes well on some says, not so well on others. Sometimes ...

My boyfriend hasn't called me in days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend hasnt been talking to me... i dont get why really though... a week or so ago he had surgury... he didnt talk to me for like 5 days befor that cuz he didnt want me to worry about him then he called me and told me he was doing ok... its ...

Never Been Loved

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - I'm going through a bad breakup.. I was off and on with this guy for 2 years...and he just told me he never loved me tonight. It was always a battle ground...but I thought he cared. I just found out he didn't, he was using me. This got me reme...

I've been so stupid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - ive made such a mess of things and I dont know what to do next.My wife and I just started a business running a bar together and have been working 18 hours a day 7 days a week.Its going really well. However I got it into my head that she was starting...

Was I wrong in getting back into a relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - me and my ex boyfriend got back together but now its seems like its all the same things from the first reason we broke was i wrong for getting back into this relationship, should i just have moved on? how can you move on from someone youve been w/ ...

Girlfriend decides no sex until "I'm ready" because I was afraid she got pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 28, and we have been together about 9 months, and our sex is great. A few months ago she told me in her past relationship she and her ex never used condoms, while in my past I have always used condom. I guess I was ...

He doesn't want to get married again even though he says he's marry me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Please help! Going out with seperated man with 2 kids for the last 2 years. Initially I was skeptical and worried would it work out with his baggage, etc. I know we all have baggage but I suppose I always thought I would meet someone single like me ...

My boyfriend danced with and texts another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Having problems with boyfriend and another girl he just met? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. Were both college students, only 45 minutes away. But the other night, my family was up for family weekend so i couldn't see my ...

I moved to a new place, want to make friends but have very little contact with others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hola everyone, I´m an aunt here on this site. I really enjoy helping people, but I really need advice about how to deal with loneliness. I just moved to Queretaro, Mexico, where I´m a TEFL teacher. I really love my job and Mexico is amazin...

How to make your boyfriend and your parents get along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend thinks that my parents hate him but they don't they just don't like the fact that i hide it from them the first couple weeks then they found out. they took my phone away and said i could never talk to him again until i ran away and ...

I'm not as physically attracted to her as I used to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - So this question goes primarily out to guys, but girls can answer as well. I am 16 and have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. And for some reason I'm finding myself not being as attracted to her. At first I didn't know why, but as i looked ...