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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to live in an abusive environment but I'm confused.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I have been in limbo for nearly a year, the stress is presenting viscerally now and my indecision is hurting all the people I care about and I really need help deciding what to do. I have been married for a year and a half, together three y...

I am ignored when girlfriend is stressed, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - When my girlfriend of 5 years gets stressed at work mainly she practically ignores me but continues doing things with her son family and friends and then get annoyed when I raise this issue and accuses me of not being supportive, what am I doing ...

Unattended by hubby so I cheat and then feel so shameful! Please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I need some help I cant stop seeking and cheating on my husband i love him very much however he is so cold to me and not supportive of me in any ways that i can think of. I constantly seek out the eyes and hands of other men to fill a void i feel ...

In a casual relationship where I miss him. Is this over now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Hi all During the last six months i have been in a casual relationship. He used to contact me all the time and show clear interest in seeing me. Ten days ago i sent him a text saying i missed him and wishing him to have fun (he has been on holi...

I gave up everything to be with him, but then I found out he isn't divorced... yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Moved from another state to be with my long lost love after 13 yrs of no contact. Gave up my good job house to come back home and marry him (we're both divorced) and start a new life. Found out I'm pregnant and also that he is not divorced. When I ...

Some days he's interested, some days he's not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - heres a long story short iv met this boy and he seem intrested some days but then does bother for weeks am i wasting my time or try and make him intrested ??...

Why do I feel hurt seeing her with another guy when I am the one that ended the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - I have just broken up (6 weeks ago) with my gf of two years. She has a small daughter and really wanted to get married. My intentions were also to get married. But I always felt that she was not in love with me. For example not all that eager to ...

I miss the closeness we once used to have

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6 October 2010 (F) - Im having a long distant relationship and have been for the last year...we had a row and i ended it but 2 weeks later i sent him an email saying that i missed him and wanted him back...i really did grovel..anyway he said that he loved me but we were ...

Some trust issues in new relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I started dating this guy almost 4 months ago, and this has been the most different relationship I have ever been in. He likes his space and doesn't like to see me often because he said that ruined his past relationships... with seeing them ...

Boyfriend makes me feel beholden to him and its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Looking for some advice!! I'm a 47yr old woman who it seems has got a realtionship all wrong again..or have I? Maybe its me??!! I'm with a guy who's 50..he runs his own business..and he is very financially sound. He likes to let me know of this...i...

How to beat an old french-woman-player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - I was in a relationship for one year with a french woman player, 10 years older than me. She treated me like shit the whole year. Then she decided to move to a different city. And when she was ok again she broke up with me. Now after one month she ...

Is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - In a long term relationship that has lasted for almost 5 years, is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing? The girl in this relationship has went through many break ups but patched back with him thinking he might change ...

Where does our marriage go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - i recently found out that my husband of 8 years went to a lapdancing club and paid for a private dance and tried to touch the stripper, this happened 6 years ago. i found out from a freind that thought i knew. he tried to deny it at first, then he ...

He wants me to pay expenses for his house but I don't live there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I both own houses. He rarely comes to mine but wants me to come to his. He has a child that he has custody of every other week and we get along great. I have suggested for the kid's stability that we do the week he has his kid at ...

Only son is in living with another man in a gay relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Hi I have given birth to 3 sons in 22 years. 2 died at birth and my living son is just 17 and has met someone from the internet 'A 21yr old man!' he did not tell me what was going on just that he was moving out. Neither lads work and sponge ...

Why do I always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - Why do i always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy? I have recently entered into a new relationship and as soon as i saw love forming i started to mistrust my partner. I have an insane paranoia and do not trust her whenever she is out. ...

All of a sudden I am overcome with my feelings for my girlfriend! Why has this happened all of a sudden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - hello everyone, first of all thanks for your time you spend to help me, i think im having a crush on my own girlfriend, here is our situation , we are in LDR for about 2 years and for some reasons we didnt see each other in this 2 years, anyway ...

She has been seeing another man behind my back! Despite this I still want us to work but trust is a major issue now....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - Hi , I am really in a mess. About a month ago I suspected my girlfriend of two years was cheating on me. I was right and she admitted everything to me 7 days ago. She has been seeing a work colleague and says she is falling in love with him . ...

I really want to overcome my secret affair with my male cousin now I am going to get married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - oK my problem, im in my mid 20"s. growing up was Pretty hard my parents all ways working you same old story, but my problem is that all my life ive been stuck in a limbo of sick mental mind games. that i find really hard to overcome and people and ...

I don't know if I want to miss out on an opportunity with someone so amazing for a trip..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Alright so I really need some help. I am beyond confused and stressed out and dont know what to do. So back in June I had decided I was unhappy in my home town and wanted to finally travel, which is something I have always wanted to do and never ha...

Should I let go of him, or is this older man (who happens to be my sisters ex!) worth risking everything for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - The thing is, I am a young girl in my late teens and for almost 4 years now I have found myself drawn to an older man. Yes, that may sound rather generic but there’s more to it. It all sort of started when I was 14-ish years old I met this guy ...

How can I spice things up after having a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for 5 years now and we are kind of happy.... We have a baby- heath. in the last 3 years he hasnt really been very afectionate towards me...when it comes down to having sex... he will only say "are we gonna have sex ...

He made a list of things I do that annoy him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for at least ten years, but have only been dating for about a year and a half. He had a crush on me for the LONGEST time and I always turned him down, until I realized what I was turning down. He is funny, ...

Is our relationship turning into a fading spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 15 months almost to the day. Our courtship was awesome and we have great chemistry--plus, he's my bestest friend. God, I used to look back at our time together and just be marveled... The first guy to twirl me ...

Is our marriage doomed before it starts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - My fiance and I just moved in together a few months ago. We had lived together before at his dad's, but this was our first place on our own. Ever since we moved in, he has been sleeping on the couch unless I beg him - then he is mad he has to sleep ...

My crush asks for other money and other girls numbers from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Okay so recently this boy in my spanish class started talking to me and let me know that he was interested. You see he's two years older than me and has a bit of a bad boy reputation so at first I turned him down, but we ended up kissing and I ...

I think my ex is losing his mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - my ex wont leave me alone... i think he's slowly losing his mind. im 19 and i live alone. we have been apart for about a month, and when i took him i didnt wanna get back wit him he told me if i eva said so much as said 1 word 2 him eva again he'd ...

The man I love found out about my crush on a girl and isn't talking to me!! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - *Sigh* I think I just lost a man because of a woman...I met Frida on saturday and she really fascinated me, I mean she was sooo confident and mysterious and smart! I'm on the rocks with my guy. I feel used one moment and loved the next...he found ...

We are trying to move past the second affair. Should I stay or should I go now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 9 years, I cheated on him about 7 years ago and he found out. I never came clean but he is pretty sure that something happened. We have been married now for 6 years and for the past 2 years we have had a rocky ...

I want to move in together but he's dragging his feet about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and one month. We are both 24 living at home with parents. He moved up here from flordia to start fresh in a new place. I know everyone says this but we are very much in love and plan to be with each ...

How long is too down? The sex has never been good and now I don't look forward to being with my husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for 21 years. During that time our sex life has never been that great for me,. For the past 10 years I have had no desire to have sex with my husband, do so just to keep him happy as a wife should, normally only last a couple ...

He just wont talk to me! Why wont he tell me why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - Hi there, i need your help, its a long story but i'll try to cut it short. basically i fell in love with this guy and i thought the feeling was mutal. He just seemed to shy to say, afew things happened but i still didnt say anything a...