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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why can't insecure people get over they're negative experiences from the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm an insecure person, I have all those symptoms, but I cannot afford professional help so I came here, because I know that you're very helpful. I kind of "discovered" the root of my insecurity, it lays in my past, I've been cheated ...

My past is destroying my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hello In the past I have had quite a few relationships that ended badly and im not in good terms with my ex's My last relationship ended because my girlfriend cheated on me then dumped me for her ex that she told me she hated and never told me ...

How can I get him to send money over to for our son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hi there I want to ask about husbands natures - does anyone know how to tackle them once you trust them, they dodge you, how to ask for money for my kid and myself while living in Pakistan on vacations and he is living in UK? he is the only son ...

I diverted my phone as I was upset at him but it resulted to more trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I want to get this off my chest. Let's call him Robert. To make my story short, he was my friend online and he was in a relationship with a girl during that time. I really had no plans to meet him but he surprised me one day when he followed me t...

He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (?) - Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...

Mom's abusive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (?) - Hi, this isn't a relationship question but i would really like some advice. I live at home with my mum and her boyfriend, my dad left when i was 5. Her boyfriend moved in shortly after he left. Ever since he moved in it has been hell, he is very ...

This LDR is just becoming too much for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hi I was introduced to a girl a few months back by a friend. We got on really well, but she was still seeing this guy, although it had really come to and end with him. I lost contact with her, then she popped up on facebook and told me she'd fi...

He wants to be 'just friends' but it's not enough for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - After 2 years my lover just wants to be friends and im heartbroken.We did have a few fall outs and we always made up but he has had alot on his plate for the last couple of weeks and being stressed out.He said he still loved me but i cant see why he ...

Doesn't want a relationship, doesn't want to commit, but wants you around all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - What do you call someone who doesn't want a relationship, and doesn't want to commit, but wants to be with you ALL THE TIME? If you're in this situation where you're stuck with this person, and you love her dearly, what do you do? She doesn't want a ...

Am I right to feel insulted by work guy's friendship snub with me to new woman at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hello. There's this guy i work with that i'm really good friends with (or so i thought). We often catch up at lunch or grab a quick coffee during the week a couple of times. This new woman started last month, and she often confides in me. She tells ...

Why do we go through periods where we don't talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hey I've had a situation with this guy who is 10 years older than myself. He has had many female friends before and after me. when we met we became really good friends and he told me multiple times that he thought I needed a good guy and that he ...

I worry my girl might be sexually frustrated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - hey. i cant get the thought out of my head that my girlfriend is sexually frustrated. i ask her all the time and assure her that it is better for her to tell me and to not worry about my feelings but she says everythings fine. how can you tell if ...

I want to get away from my parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so I'm feeling a bit odd asking about personal stuff online (which I've never really done before) but it seems like in this situation, a stranger could probably give me better advice than my friends or family. So anyways, here's my proble...

I feel he doesn't want to be exclusive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - What if ive been dating a guy for 3 months now, tho it doesnt feel like he wants to get exclusive...About 2 weeks ago he said he loved me for the first time...He says it all the time now. I feel like he really means it...So, I took it that we were ...

I hope there is still a chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend for 2 years just broke up with me 2 months ago. We are both 23 years old and I can say that we were happy and so much in-love in the first 1 year and 5 months of our relationship.We rarely argue and we care so much for each other. She ...

How do I move on so we can start over????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - my ex- boyfriend and i have been through alot in the 2 years we've been together on and off. i have really bad trust issues, and i think its a big part of us not working out. i've had a lot of people hurt me, and disappoint me, and turn out to d...

So he tells me he loves me but he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - i now this boy his name is Alex he says he loves me but only by texting me and telling me but not face to face.so anyway i am in love with him ill do whatever to go out with him.so he tells me he loves me but he already has a girl friend one time i ...

I ruined it with my girlfriend's father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Well, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, I know we are sort of young...im 18 shes 17. The point is that I had a great relationship with her father, which was very important to me and very important in keeping the LDR alive. Last summer ...

I was married and dating a younger guy of 20

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I dated a guy who is 15 years younger then me. I was his very first true love (as he said). We started dating when he was 20. The relationship was wonderful as i feel myself young again and wanted him so much. I had a strong sexual at...

Why didn't my younger lover come to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

My family blackmailed me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - My sister and my brother were blackmailing me because they found out that I was having a romantic relationship with my cousin and they treated me really bad, calling me names and everything. They blackmailed me for revennge with exposing my secret ...

Is he not that into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Me and this guy i have been talking to have been friends for 4 years. im now a senior and he just graduated marine corps basic training. he came home last weekend and is leaving next tue. When he came home from basic training i decieded to tell him ...

I am really confused about liking a girl who has hurt me so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Here's the situation: My girlfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago and im having trouble getting over her. Now, she wasnt perfect. she was insecure, somewhat hypocritical and judgmental at times. but so was I (insecure that is), so i couldnt ...

Girlfriend Troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Q: 1 i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done...

Can I trust his wife around my child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Q: 1I need help and understanding of what I should do. I was in a relationship/affair whatever u wanna call it with a married man. I am now pregnant by him and due next month, and he is also back with his...

He has to get married soon but I'm not sure that I want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hi , I met a guy after i went through divorce and was very alone and insecure(2 year back). He had been in similar condition too. i feel in love with him. My conditions improved with time. He proposed me for marriage but since he proposed i am fe...

I'm insecure and my boyfriend makes it worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I suffer from insecurity but my boyfriend makes it worse. He is always texting other girls or messaging them. And he saw his ex behind my back for coffee. It'd be so easy to move on from him if everything else wasn't so perfect. Him and girls are ...