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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

B/f wants a break until I prove myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - god i dunno , im with my boyfriend nearly a year and it was possibly the best thing i ever done . it really was like he's my bestfriend , he was there through everything and equally in turn , i love his friends, social life and family . i love him ...

Is he ignoring me because he doesn't want to be the reason I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I am in the middle of a finishing a long term relationship, with which we have a beautiful three year old. It has been a very stressful relationship. It has taken me' three years to finish it. He leaves on Wednesday. Over the last year I have...

I am insecure and it's eating away at my relationship with my BF...how do I fix stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi all. So, my boyfriend is 22 and I am 20. We have dated for about 4 months. No problems were found until back in late June of this year when he was sitting down and said my ears were big--but then that he liked them. Okay, before I continu...

I get such a rush looking at this girl who isn't my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - I am 29 and in a serious relationship of about 18 months and we live together. It has been a good so far but if im honest not great with many ups and downs and bad times. We have just come out of 4 counseling sessions due to her being unable to cope ...

Is sending me his phone number at 1AM suspicious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

9 October 2010 (?) - Ok, i hope this is explained clearly enough to make any sense. A guy friend of mine, who used to be a "FWB" sort of, slept with me a few months ago and he's not single. Now i know he wants to do this again, he flirts etc... which i won't do. This ...

I'm just not sure where I stand in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 8 months. We have gotten closer as the months went by. He used to phone me regularly and we would spend most weekends together unless he has to work. We got on so well, we would laugh, chat for hours. He even told me ...

Ex is causing me wedding day blues... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I had my son when I was 19 as I was finishing my freshman year of college. My baby daddy was 26 and a total dead beat. We had dated for only a year. It's been five years since I gave birth and I'm getting married to the man I should've had my...

How can I stop being so mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - My ex just broke up with me 2 days ago... He says that I'm tooo mean... I love him dearly but what should I do??? I trip on him off of the smallest things... Help!!! I need it badd!!!:( what do I do... We live together still sooo I know that I ...

Why does my mom speak so badly about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I need help. I'm 20 years of age and living with my mom as I cannot afford to move out yet - my boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. My boyfriend is very responsable, he pays rent, works, studies at university, owns a car and looks...

Why can't I keep friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Going off what people tell me, I am a nice person. I am a genuine, trustworthy and kind. I'm not bitchy and I don't talk about people behind their backs I to am fun to be around. I seem to make people laugh even though I am not funny, I'm just ver...

He broke up, but I don't want to give him up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - My bf and i had been going out for over 10 months. Everything was going ok untill the second day after he started his couse. The started fine. I sent him a text saying going college will make us hardly see eachother. I got a reply saing we need time ...

I wonder if I am just building false hope for myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hi there, was just wondering if I could get peoples thoughts on this, Theres this guy I met and I have fallin head over heals for him and have done for about 3 months now. But about 2 months ago he started going out with another guy. It wasn't u...

Peoples sudden ability to rip apart ones heart that they loved, one time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - How is it so easy for humans to just fucking shred the life and heart out of another in any instance, but im speaking of 2 people as deeply in love as you can get, who stay with each other for along time, one of them starts to lose it, but they do ...

How do I make this whole thing work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - So i have this guy friend who became slightly more than just a friend. I was never really interested in him, didn't see him as that attractive though other girls seem to be very impressed by him and find him charming... Anyway, somewhere along ...

She said she'd marry me but 3 weeks later she says she wont?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - i m 20 yrs old and i propesed a gal of age 22 she was my senior in colldge...after many propses atlast she says yes to me..we were in relationship..and happyli spended time togeder..late night talks,movies,long drives..we spend a very happy ...

Is my Mom wrong for going behind my back with my kids.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hello all. I wanted to ask this question and hope for many replys so I can show my mom bias views. My mom has underminded me several times when it comes to my children. I have always saw her as my bestest friend ever. I am always honest with her. ...

I think about her every second and its driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - hello everybody , thanks for the time you re spendin on order to give me some advise , here is my problem , im in a LDR for a long long time , and its been ages since i didnt see my gf, but lately i just cant seem to stop thinking about her, i m...

How do I get back a person I lost?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - hi, i have a question i lost a person that i totally love..but i really want to get the person back, im doing the no contact..its been 4months since we been apart,i try to talk to the person but nothing works.?? should i wait more?? i know the ...

My OCD boyfriend is very selfish

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 months. He has OCD and everything has to be in specific order with him. He treats me right overall, but throughout the day he says some pretty hurtful things without realizing it. he has poor manners overall and I don't ...

(User's Title) The devil exsits ans sleeps next to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - how do i know if my husband fathers another child...

I am tired of being sad and anger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I am always feeling angry and sad with myself. I sometimes sit here and I cry because I feel angry with myself for not knowing what to do with my life or career. I am always on the internet doing career quizzes trying to find which career is right ...

We have been dating for 5 months but now he says he needs some space and time for himself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, he is separated for 20 months but the divorce is not final. They have a 3 year old together. We have been seeing each other about 2-3 days a week and have professe...

I am in a live in relationship but would like a relationship with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for about 2 yrs and weve been had a good relationship. There is another guy tho that I had a relationship with (kinda) and we have started to talk again and he's started to invite me to hang out again. My bf doesn't like that ...

Do I look fat in this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I am about 132 and 5'7 3/4". My husband keeps saying that I am fat. Are there any circumstances under which, or cultures in which this would be considered fat? Are there any guys here that consider this proportion too fat for their taste?...

He has stopped connecting with me, should I call or email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have known this guy from for over 7 years. We met back in college. We had a nice connection, and strong passion between us. I have not heard from him for a while. Should I call him or email him? I have known this guy from for over 7 years. W...

I have come between two brothers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Help i came in between two brothers :( I met this guy and we became close friends one day he told me he like me but i told him i didn't feel that way about him .so he stop talking to me and we didn't hangout anymore .But then his older brother ...

I want to know how to approach girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hello A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me a few days before our 1 year anniversary. We are still decent friends and talk frequently. She told me that this weekend she is going on a date and may begin to date. I want to move on and begi...

My ex said he would meet up with me but keeps putting it off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking on and off..i recently asked if he wanted to talk more often and he said ok and that he had no problem with that and i mentioned about meeting soon and he said ok to that as well. It took him about 10 days to call aft...

I got into a lot of fights with my friend, and now he wont talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Me and my friend got into a lot of stupid fights and now he won't talk to me! I've said sorry and everything, all he keeps saying is "its not your fault." But I still feel like its my fault. So I decided to give him space after that, something ...

I found out my boyfriend was going to cheat on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, i love him and i do think he loves me were generally very happy, we brokme up for a month in summer and got back together in august, the problem is while we were getting back together he'd been talking to ...

B/f dumped me but I can't accept it and don't want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi i have been with my bf for over 10 months 2 weeks ago out of the blue he told me its not working out and he dumps me. I find out that he did not like certain things i did but never went as far as this before. I lied to him for a good reason and ...

Autism is preventing me from having relationships. Help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I was diagnosed with Aperger's syndrome when I was a young child. The basic description of that is that you are exceptional at some things and lacking at others. I, for one, have photographic memory. Many people say that they have it, but the...

My male friend is mad at me because I talked to my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - A male friend of is mad at me because I had a conversation with my ex-boyfriend today.I quit being friends with my ex about 2 months ago..My ex has called and text,but I havent responded... So my male friend told me just to text him and say I had ...

Open relationship to save a long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - i'm in the forces and soon i'll be going away for 6 month. 3 Months ago i met a girl while i was away with work and have gotten into what seems like a really intense and serious relationship. We seem to have fallen for each other and are talking ...

I don't want to sleep with my teacher but I did flirt with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I know there are tons of questions involving students adn teacher sbut i have yet to find an answer. I don't want to sleep with my teacher. Originally i did but i ditched my 6th hour to go to his class because he had a planning period and i am ...

LDR I don't understand why he can't make more of an effort!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi am 22 f. I'm in a distance relationship fro 9 months. And I love my guy. We were best frens for 6 months prior to that.We haven't met all this while. For the first 3 months we were just great.Then he got busy and drastically cut down on ...