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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We have a few issues about her exes but I love her to death!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Hello Everyone! Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over two years and lately we have been experiencing a few issues over whether we want to have kids or not and we also have decided that we shouldn't be together, but then we got b...

Why wasn't I invited to meet his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I'm not sure whether I'm over reacting so thought i'd get someone elses opinion on this one. My bf and I have been together for a year, and lived together for 6 months. I've never doubted his commitment to me -he seemed really keen on moving i...

How much will it take me to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for nearly 12 years. I am now 26, he is now 30. In the beginning of our marriage was bad, he cheated with one of my best friends 6 months after we were married, than a year later with another ...

Do you always need to compromise on the things you want in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Hi there. I broke up with my boyfriend (of 3 years) about a month ago because he was downloading porn. He refused to meet me half way on the subject and didn't care about how i felt on the topic. To be clear, the issue is not him downloading porn...

If I could just get him to talk to me we could get the relationship back on track

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - OK, so me and my ex have been on/off for 4 years.. I love him dearly and when we together he does too. The reason why we are such an on/off couple is because of arguments. When we fight I prefer to talk about it where he prefers to have days to calm ...

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

My fiance is very controlling!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My fiance is a very dominating person.. he tries to control me.. he has a problem with all of my male friends.. he manipulates me..i tend to compare this relationship with my past relationships and i am afraid to say that the past relationship was ...

After 11 years my partner has still not divorced his wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 11 years, we have 2 children together. When i first meet my partner he had not long left his wife. Within a year i was pregant and he left me, we later go back together and have since had another planed child and ...

My fiance told me he is bi!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - hi there... i'm engaged and recently my fiance told me he is bi!!! before we met he got drunk one evening at a friends place and one thin lead to another and they had sex! he always had a desire for a man and has suppressed this for 35 y...

Guy is mad at me giving me the silent treatment, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - this guy who I like and likes me is mad at me because we were talking Saturday night online about things going on with me. I was telling him how I can't trust these people who I only know from online who play a lot of games with me. I was telling ...

I want to know what women think about this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - what do women think of their male friends who sign up to sex dating and relationship sites? ...

My girlfriend misbehaved with my younger brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - hi i am 27 years old and my girlfriend is 21 years old ,once my younger brother who is 22 misbehaved with her ,she told this incidence to me...and when i asked whom did u told except me ,she told her sister,but after some days she told she only ...

My older lover dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'm 28 and i lost my 40 year old girlfriend. She dumped me for several solid reasons after a year and 2 months. She said she loves me i couldn't say it back. I wasn't sure if i loved her if i was afraid to be alone. She wanted me to move in with ...

Do women remember everything about their past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Hi DC, I have a Q regarding what women remember. Over the years, I have had a few relationships. I remember practically everthing (good/bad/happy/sad) about them and reasons for the break up. Maybe its because I have a good memory. Durin...

Breast cancer and my man has always looked at other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My bf has a wondering eye, which he has tried to curb and does his best, but I still catch him doing it. I've just been diagnosed with breast cancer and I know after I start my chemotherapy, I will lose my hair and eventually if the chemo is ...

I love him, but I would never let him know that because I don't want him to feel bad that he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Guys, I need some help. I was with a wonderful man for two years. We lived together for about a year and a half. He was my best friend. He started acting different over a period of time. He gained alot of weight, was smoking alot of marijuan...

Feelings for my boyfriend run hot and cold! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I've reposted because I had no answers and I really need to know what to do before I see my bf again tonight, please help!! Ok I'm at my wits end about what to do with my bf. We've been together for 4 years and lately I've been feeling hot and ...

My partner stares at beautiful women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Hi there women of the world. What do you do when your man keeps staring at beautiful and attractive women when he does not think I can see him. He just stares intently at them. The other day whilst in Melbourne he was walking ahead of me and he had ...

Three year relationship ruined?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ohk so ive pretty much ruined not only a friendship i have had for nearly three years with this guy (lets call him Thom)and his bestfriend (Daniel). Thom was explaining to me the other week that he liked me and that he thinks me and him would work ...

Where are the good men hiding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Right now I'm very discouraged. Where are all the good men hiding? In the past years my dating experiences have been bad. I've tried dating friends, acquaintances, co workers, random people.. nothing seems to work. I think I'm a fairly normal pe...

My boyfriend never has any money and always has to borrow from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I'm in over my head. my bf and i have been together for 3yrs now. we love each other so much.there are so many issue in our relationship. basically i have to help him out financially everytime. he has no money whatsoever to carry him from month to ...

In a 8 years relationship - isolated.insecure.falling apart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I have fallen in love a hundred times with only 1 guy, he deeply love me. he respects me, he always try to understand me even sometimes I know I’m being so dumb. I am 25 and he’s 26, and we are living together for 2years now, far from our home ...

She is jealous but wants to keep her ex in the picture but not mine, what to do here??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My partner and I have only been together for about 5 months. I have had a total of 2 partners before her. She has had myrriads. She ask me the other day to quit communicating with my last ex because she was afraid I would end up having an emotional ...

They will not let me carpool with them, which of the following should I do or otherwise??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I have a neighbor who I am on friendly terms with and another person who I would consider a friend as I have done lots of favors for her. We have also carpooled to some of our kids' activities in the past. I recently joined their Ladies Clu...

What happened here with my boyfriend, do you understand it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - so im a little confused with my boyfriend or ex or whatever he is. We broke up not to long ago cuz i made a mistake. But everyone makes mistakes and i think it can always get sorted. So anyway we live together and been dating for 5 years. We kinda ...

How do I tell a guy that I don't want to talk to him anymore nicely??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - please help. I was on My Yearbook.com, (bad site i know) but my friend made me put my number in one guy's message box and now he won't stop calling me. I realized that i really don't want to deal with anyone I meet online and really actually want to ...

My bf will not "own" me around his friends or say I love her, should this be a problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My bf has this dual personality. To me, he speaks and act perfectly. Seriously, could not get a more perfect boyfriend. But when he is with his friends he doesn't ever speak of me like he loves me. He will chat about how hot some girls are, joke ...

We have different ideas on what a relationship is.. loving or just fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ok I'm at my wits end about what to do with my bf. We've been together for 4 years and lately I've been feeling hot and cold when it comes to him.. One minute I see myself growing old with him having kids getting married, and a day later I'm ...