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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

First time my boyfriend has ever been violent, should I give him a chance if he goes to anger management?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Two days ago, I tried to talk to my boyfriend about his behavior dealing with other girls, not the first time out of 4 years we'd talked about this. I had prepared myself to finally let him go (or at least I thought I had). I did it all in a very ...

Tired of feeling worthless... Is this porn addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. i've known him for 8. we get along great, have alot of fun together, we live together at his mothers house. i've known for a long time that he looks at porn, and masturbates to it. i don't li...

Stress induced fighting is ruining my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of nearly a year got into a fight last week, which ended with me blowing up at her because we had made plans earlier in the week but she suddenly canceled them without talking to me about it. She said that she felt scared after ...

Her losing all this weight is making me feel insecure... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girl have been together 5 months now. She is 26 im 23 she was married for 5 years to a guy that cheated on her quite a few times. She says she only married him because he got her pregnant. She has lived a pretty bad life childhood was ...

Should I tell him I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Two years ago I found myself suddenly and involuntarily attracted to my then acquaintance, now friend. My feelings appeared to come from nowhere because I'd known him for a while previous and nothing had clicked except that he was a nice guy. At the ...

Should I be bothered by this? Or am I just being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and we are looking at moving in together. Around 6 months ago I saw a few adult dating websites on his internet history. This unravelled, and i found out he was signed up to quite a few. He had never messaged a...

How do I repair this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Ok this is going to be long but please read cuz I really need help and advice. The past couple of months I have been getting closer to a friend. I have a lot of feelings for her. She knows this and I believe she has the same or at least had. Bas...

I love her, and I want to be with her, but I can't resist this pressure anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - I've been seeing this girl, for some 5 months. In the beginning everything was great, we were both very happy. In fact I never felt so happy in my life. We went in a few trips together and everything was just fine.We talked about getting married and ...

I hate what he was up to but I can't help but feel was a little bit my fault!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - It's a bit of a long story, bear with me. I have no friends nearby to ask advice from :( I'm 28 and have just given up my job and moved 200 miles to stay with my boyfriend.We have been together a year and a half. At the beginning of the relations...

How can I make her love me again even though she has gone back to her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have broken up for 3 weeks now and I found out that she went back to a guy she dated before me. And they started dating again about a week after our breakup. This entire ordeal has been heartbreaking. She never told me about this ...

Family and depression are making me worried about moving in with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Help me! I've been writing posts here and you've been helpful, so I'm asking again for help again. So, I'm 21 years old and I need a few answers and advices... I'm going through some hard time for over 5 months, I have money i...

Is he just being a friend or does he want more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a male friend that I fell in love with, but my problem is that I cannot read him. I told him about my feelings and the only reply I got was "how shocked he was". He isn't direct when it comes to his feelings, so I find myself havi...

I feel like my life is cursed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hi!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl. My problem is that my life is in turmoils right now. Nothing seems to go right even with my family members. Everyone has their own problems. It started when i got divorced a year back. It was the first marriage...

How can I get over the hurt of my girlfriend cheating on me with two of her ex's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - hello me and my girlfriend have ben dating for a year now. i love her very much and i know that she loves me too and were in love, but my thing that she cheated on me with two of her exs and yes it hurt me really badly but i just dont know what to ...

Does he think I am going to screw him over like his last girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend are pretty serious :DDD we love each other so much... he is the only one i love... but i tell a lot of my other friends i love them even though i dont i have ever since i was little..he is really bothered by that because his last ...

Why am I still thinking about my ex when I have a wonderful boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I'm having a serious problem figuring out my feelings and any insight would be appreciated more than you know. I dated this guy for a little less than two years. We were in high school at the time but we swore we were soul mates. We talked about ...

How do I deal with this work situation? My FWB blabbed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I recently had a few sexual experiences with a Dr at our hospital, I am a nurse. We don't talk a lot, although he is pretty flirty when I see him he is still hard to read outside of work, also I told him in the beginning I only wanted "friends with ...

I just don't know when enough is enough. So can you tell me? When do you stop? When do you give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 10 months now. The first four months were great, after that we had more and more arguements, and between 6-7 months were the worst, it seemed like we were constantly butting heads over everything, but I didn't ...

My mother acts very rude to me and my sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I have a lot of problems so I came back to this site. I won't tell you who I used to be but I will tell u my problem. My mother acts very rude to me and my sister, who is 11. She yells and cusses at us when we do even the slightest thing wrong. ...

BF was a jerk, now he's better but I'm still worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - My bf messed me around big time for the first year of our relationship. Heavily flirting with other girls, meeting up with his ex behind my back...that kinda thing. We had a big row and since then everything has been perfect and has been for a year ...

We feel like roommates and he's very critical of me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I am unsure what to do in regards to my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years, yet it's more like we are roommates now instead of lovers. We haven't had sex in months, partially because I have been off the pill ...

Trust, how can you fix it when it's broken?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Trust how can you fix it when it's broken? I have been with my partner now for just under a year when we first started out we were both in long relationships we got caught and got out she left him and went with me after a while she went back to him ...

I'm not confused anymore, but have I done too much damage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - hi guys, iv got a problem....i caused it though, but want help getting my ex bf back! I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago, just before my birthday, he gave me presents and spoilt me rotten..then i dumped him...i offered to give his presents back, b...

Started acting sexual and just stopped for fear of letting people down.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - So last weekend me and my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years finally decided to get a little sexual (fingering, handjob.) I know we are kind of old for these acts, but they were still exciting and pleasurable. The problem is my girlfriend is a super ...