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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Need help with break up due to boyfriend's depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - To anyone especially Mr. Ed: When my boyfriend broke up with about 3 weeks ago he said he needed time and space and I wasn’t giving it to him which I wasn’t every time I feel like I am going to lose something I start to go crazy and try to do an...

She's broken up with me three times, but I'm still heartbroken without her? Do you think she actually loves me?

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20 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I don't really know where to start with this one. I've been in a relationship with a woman now for the past seven years ( I am also female). At the start of the relationship we just ignored the fact that it was a secret and noone knew about...

Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me or lost interest? I'll try to keep this short. But here goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years. I love him so much and I am stilll soo in love with him. I like to think that he's ...

She seems to listen to her sister now more than she does me...

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20 October 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid: Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half now and well everythings going great until lately.. You see she's been hanging around her sis which honestly I have no problem with since that's her family and all. That's n...

He thinks I'm cheating on him and is losing interest in me... but I'm not!!! Help!

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20 October 2010 (F) - I need some help.. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years and have a small child together. Everything was fine until one day he came home and said he had a feeling i was cheating on him (something i would never do) and said his feelings were ...

I'm tired of my heart ruling my mind.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hi, My BF and I have been together over two years. I'm very much in love with him despite what has transpired between us. For the duration of our relationship he's lied about several things to me. Mostly about gambling, and the extent of it. He...

I feel guilty wanting out of this relationship even though I think he does too.

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20 October 2010 (F) - I have been trying to write for days and it just goes on too long. I just need help and advice on what to do as I really can’t talk to my friends or family. I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since I was 16. He is here illegally, he gr...

Losing interest in sex with my fiance; how can I fix it?

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20 October 2010 (F) - I am engaged to a wonderful man who I love spending time with and want to spend the rest of my life with, but for the past six months my interest in sex has completely subsided. He is physically attractive, tall, lean, adorable face, and this ...

Are all men crazy, or just this one?

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20 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i use to fight all the time . now that we are in seperate housing i dont want him any more and he still finds ways to get in good with me .. what should i do we been together for 3 years and been seperated for 2 months and i dont ...

Why won't my husband have sex with me anymore?

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20 October 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been married for 9 yrs next month. during the past 5 months we have been arguing alot and for the past 9 months we havent had sex. we have 3 kids /the youngest is 3 months old/ and i dont want to mess any of it up but i dont ...

Has anyone ever heard of keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend's child after a breakup?

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20 October 2010 (F) - I am 24 years old. My bf has been living with me for almost three year now. He has a child that I have known since he was 18 months. We have the child 2-3 days out of the week. I have no children and have become very attached to this little guy. ...

Its been 2 weeks with no contact from him should I just move on?

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20 October 2010 (F) - so i was seeing this very nice guy since march of this year. it started out good. we would call eachother every day.i tried not to see him every day for the first couple of weeks. he seemed ery interested in me so i went with it. i didnt sleep with ...

Should I tell the teacher I'm sorry that I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Teacher at my school knows i like him now but dosen't really care and i knew he would find out sooner or later , but i feel very humilated and incredibly stupid , i hope he understands that i don't mean to fall for him it was just a faint little ...

Fiance's bad money habits wreaking havoc on our relationship

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20 October 2010 (F) - I love my fiance very much. He is sweet, funny, understanding, and beyond in love with me. Unfortunately he is horrible with money. We have lived together for over a year and he has maybe contributed a grand total of $2,000 to all bills and ...

Will he ever put me first?

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20 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm pretty lost right now. From the beginning: I was with this guy for about 3.5 years and he is the first person I've actually loved. We would fight a lot, but we're both stubborn and headstrong, and I love that about him. Recently I had a ...

He didn't even try to call today! Do I have the right to be angry?

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20 October 2010 (F) - Do I have the right to be mad in my situation with my bf? We've been in a relationship for 6 months and everything has been for the most part pretty smooth. Our only fight that I recall was a month ago cause I felt I was the only one putting effort ...

Loved him, got dumped, got over him, then he came back. But the distance and doubts make me wonder....

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20 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello again, I have written here a few times over the past year asking for advice about my ex and the depression I was going through. He had moved back to his hometown 4 hrs away and told me he did not want to have a long distance re...

He's a guy, and he just doesn't need to talk to me....and I am a girl and have these emotional needs that get in the way of our happiness. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've been unhappy in my relationship, and have been contemplating having an emotional affair. I love spending time doing things with my boyfriend, but it always seems like I want so much more than he is able to give...we seem to be very compatible ...

He breaks up with me every three months! Help!

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20 October 2010 (F) - soo...i've been dating this guy that i am crazy in love with for over a year now but for some odd reason every 3 months he leaves. there is no real explanation. the first two times i begged him back the third time he told me we would never be ...

Am I being insecure or is he being insensitive?

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20 October 2010 (F) - I feel really insecure about how attracted my boyfriend is to me. We were having an conversation about how women r sexually attracted to men when they love who they are and men r sexually aroused more when the woman is "hot". This was in the cont...

Us "hanging out" usually just means me giving him head or us having sex. I'm feeling used!

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20 October 2010 (F) - Okay soo.. Ive been seeing this guy for over a year; we just started dating 3 months ago officially. It's my junior year and his senior year. Homecoming is in a couple of weeks and he won't take me. He also never wants to go out with me on a date or ...

I don't know how to cope with the regret of the break up!

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20 October 2010 (F) - I am going through a very very hard time. I have pretty much been hurt and torn apart emotionally. I met my first serious boyfriend when i was 20..almost 21..he was my first sexual experience, the first guy i loved..pretty much most of my first...

Is my mom always going to judge me? I'm almost 18!

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20 October 2010 (F) - Around three months ago, my mother took my iPod and began to snoop on my conversations. She found one where I was having cyber sex with this guy I had met over the internet. She sometimes scolds me and tells me I am failing school (I'm not) because ...

I love my "Nice Guy" who doesn't reveal much of himself, and I am feeling shut out!

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20 October 2010 (F) - Hello all. I guess I can call myself a “Nice Girl”, and if you met him, you would definitely call my guy a “Nice Guy”. We try our best to do good to each other and community, and we handle disagreements with honesty in a sane manner. We have a ...

Should I continue things with my sort-of bisexual boyfriend?

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20 October 2010 (F) - I just recently became involved with my one of my best friends...who also happens to be bisexual (which he discovered 6 months ago). The last two months have been tumultuous because we would hookup and then I would find out he was also texting other ...

He acts like we broke up but we are still "in a relationship" on facebook...?

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20 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend left my house last week after we got in a fight, so I called him while he was driving off and he said that he needed space and hung up on me and said that I am always angry at him. We were having an amazing night with our friends...