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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm overdue to have this baby and I can't get ahold of him, sometimes! What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Ok i been with my bf for 1 year but was with him 7 months b4 he went to prison and i waited for him and wrote him for 2 years so we been living together for a year he has been there 4 me through everything we gotta baby due any day now and he ...

Why would a man stay with his girlfriend when he wants to come home to his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - What are some of the reasons a man would stay with his girlfriend he left his family for when all other signs point to him wanting to come back home? He knows hes welcome to anytime. I just really want some perspective on how a man might be feeling ...

I think I would be better off on my own

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i was married for 29yrs my partner left me i then met my current partner within a few months. he is very controlling i have been with him for over ten years but it is very difficult . he is verbally abusive and very aggressive and in the past has ...

Would sending a text be overstepping the boundaries?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - So I'm friends with this girl who puts all kinds of stress on herself with work and other things. Though I could never find the right way to ask for her number. Because of the amount she deals with between work and classes she often times doesn't ...

He says he is shy because I am black and he is white

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I own a small shop in a town where i live and most customers comes in not realising i own it.. except old customers, if any new one asks i usually say i work here. Anyway this guy has been asking me to come out for a walk with him in a long time ...

One day he wants to be with me and the next day not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hello, Im having trouble with my love life. Several boys like me in my school. Im 13. 1. there is a 16 year old boy that likes me. 2.someone who is in my class, my age and he likes me. The problem is, My bestfriend fancies the same boy i ...

Could two unknown people have the exact same room?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has been acting weird lately. Like he doesn't care and seems uninterested in me. So i started thinking he is seeing some other girl and decided to snoop in his email. I found pictures of naked girls i his inbox and outbox pictures ...

I'm scared the father of my baby is going to hurt me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i dont know wether i should stay with my boyfriend after all the lies he told me we dont even talk much anymore and he leaves me at home alone with our newborn baby all the time to be with his mum, before our baby was born we were inseparable and ...

I have so many questions after the break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Looking for advice from females here. As you can see, I'm a bit younger than most of the people asking questions on here so if you could take that into account, I'd appreciate it a lot After a break up(6 month relationship) if a girl says things...

Can anybody else see the problem here

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - a family friend has been with her man for 3years and all of a sudden he changes his number and she can only have his work number. he says if she has his mobile number she will keep calling him. and the biggest problem is they live in the same ...

I think I bore him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - He arrives at the house, give me a kiss as ussual but he is so cold, takes a shower(usual), eats supper and straight to bed making work load an excuse, am getting worried, I think I am getting to bore him. Plz help what do I hv to do. We have been ...

My fiance's best friend is a horrible influence! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend/ fiance of 2 years has changed lately her girlfriend who is single and is man crazy is always wanting my fiance to go out and drink with her just found out that she is smoking pot again and want my fiance to get high with her. When ...

I'm embarassed by my wife's flirting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I separated for sexual reasons but recently got back together. I am satisfied and am happy about it because I love her. She loves me, too, even if sometimes she thinks she doesn't (calls me a "stick-in-the-mud." My wife is very ...

Does he need a good bye letter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, ...

I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a ...

Boyfriend hasn't called me... I miss him... Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - so ive been with my bf for 3 years and im 18 hes 20 on sunday my boyfriend called me but his tone of voice seemed weird like if he was upset but when i asked if he anything was wrong he said he was fine....then the next 2 days after that his p...

I'm feeling guilty about my soon-to-be exwife being dumped by her new guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - hi i wonder if anyone can give me much needed advise please? i am currently seperated form my wife of 18 yrs,we had a good marriage,but the last 5 years just grew totaaly appart from each other ,different lives,hobbies,friends,lost feelings and res...

How do I get over his texting and our breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of two years was texting another woman he said she doesnt mean anything, yet he texted her everyday monday to friday when he was on a two week holiday with me. We broke up as I felt although the texts were vague and not ...

He just wants to be friends but I'm pregnant with his baby.....how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i want my boyfriend back but he wants to be just friends but i'm having his child. he broke up with me before summer. how do i get him back......

What can I do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I need a bit of help. My girlfriend broke up with me a few days back because we had been a bit iffy and hand't seen each other for a while, I got drunk and upset her, saying if shes not going to be in my life then she should leave now instead of ...

I'm having second thoughts about marriage.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Is it normal to have some second thoughts while planning a wedding? I am smitten with my girl, and have been in love for almost a year now. We have talked about marriage openly and longingly, but now that we are actually planning it, I find myself ...

He thought my friend was me testing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I've been like together with this guy for almost 2 months. Today while I was driving my best friend started a conversation with him. After a little bit she gave me back the phone and didn't say anything. I know how she can be so I texted him asking ...

Things are not the same and I feel he may have another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - hi cupid.. ilove this guy so much..but whenever he talks on the phone..i feel he has another girl..lately things are not the same.. he does show me love at times he seems less interested and doesnt even call me every now and then like he used ...

He is inconsistent and I just want to forget about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I know how much I am stupid... In this summer my ex-boyfriend sent me broke up mail which is totally mixed message without any sign. He blamed my fault like race, age and past behavior finally even past trauma. The last sentence was "I stil...

Should I tell him I once had an abortion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi fellas.i need your advice once again.i had an abortion 4yrs ago (6weeks).even my then boyfriend didnt know i was pregnant(i missed my period,took pregnancy test then ran straight for abortion).i found an excuse for leaving my then bf.i gave ...

Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend this January during exchange study. Then the following seven months, we spent almost all of our time together. Then during our final month, I went back to his country and met his family and friends. We are each other first serious ...

Me n my girlfriend caught kissing by her parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Ok i have a problem n i hope i really get a positive solution, i was walking my girlfriend home n for some unlucky reason her mom saw us kissing n holding hands. Now iam afraid i might lose her n i don't want that n neither does she. I know her ...

Confusing and conflicting emotions during our breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I am just wondering what are normal emotions to go through when breaking up? My husband and I have been together for 12 years, with 2 children. Now we are seperating and I want it but I also want him to stay. Is this normal? Im very confuse...

My girlfriend says she needs to take a break...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - So, i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months. We hang out a couple days a week and really enjoy spending time with each other. However, a few days ago she invites me over to her house and tells me that she wants to take a break. She ...

My girlfriend is being miserable to me! But I love her like nothing else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I loved my girl, but i cheated on her and now shes making me work so hard n give back nothin, i dont mind when i do it, but when i look back i feel like she shouldnt keep me around and telling me things are gonna get better, when they might never. ...

MY LDR met her new guy while she was still with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Me ex girlfriend and I have recently broken up we were in a LDR and I was happy throughout that whole time. However one day she decided to end things and about 2 weeks later I found out that she started to date this guy only a few days after she had ...

Does he still like me? How can I move on. Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi All, Please can you advise!! I have recently split with a short term BF. I really really loved him, and am finding it very hard to get over him. He had to change his number, and when I asked he gave me the new one, also, I have been very foolish, ...

I am worried he is still in love with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.. I know this is going to be on the lengthy side but I would appreciate your thoughts as this is really important to me. I started dating a man in the Navy a few months ago. We had been friends all throughout high school and I sen...

I don't know if I should or shouldn't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I just read a guy's recent post about losing trust and respect for his girlfriend after finding out she's been in contact with her ex a lot. It got me wondering if I should tell my boyfriend that before I met him, I was briefly dating a guy who's ...

I've been through the emotional wringer

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Hey everyone: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last Friday night. Prior to that, it was a long month whereby she first wanted a break, proceeded by us breaking up for a a couple days, then getting back to "try" (she wanted to try), me not giv...

Is she just keeping me around because I help with her child so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I had been dating someone for about 6 months, she had a 2 year old from a previous relationship. things were going great then out of the blue she decided that she was feeling too much pressure being in this serious of a relationship. A few weeks ...

Anytime my boyfriend seems withdrawn, I start worrying and feeling insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I've always believed an unconditional, stable kind of love was the real basis of a good relationship. But my ex was different; I could say something silly which he disapproved of and then I'd have to work for weeks to win back his "love". Now ...

Are all men as obsessed as my husband is over genital size, mine and his??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My husband has been messing with my head for eight years telling me I'm big down there and him is small. However he's 5.5 to 6 inches, and today at the gyno I finally had the courage to ask and she said, I'm not big, just average, down there width ...

Have not been introduced to his family after 2 years, should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi, all I need your advice. I have been more than 2 years together with him. My boyfriend seems no intention to introduce me to his family or friends. I have no idea how to deal with this situation. He is living far from his hometown at t...

Confusing on again, off again relationship, any ideas where his head is??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I've found myself in a muddle with a guy and would like some advice. I've known him for eight months, and in that time I've seen him on and off for three times, each time ending with a fight because he 'wasn't sure what he wanted'. We ...

I cheated on my gf who cared deeply, I hurt her, I have such remorse, now what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - *Sighs*...Here it goes. I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 30 and we have been together for 2 years. She is from another country and I moved there to be with her. I became confused and just obsessively negative about the relationship upo...

I don't love him as he seems to love me, but should I stay for my kid's sake??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Should I stay with Mr. Wonderful or should I go? Summary: I have loved this great guy mildly for years. He moved from another state to be with me six years ago and we have been through much together. We are not married because we are both skittis...

Why would you say this too a taken man? I feel sick

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I found a text on my bfs phone [I realise I shouldn't have been looking] and it was from a girl that said "I am imaging us in the shower together". I feel sick. It didn't happen, she was just flirting. But all the same. Why would you say that to a ...

Boyfriend met up with his ex and I'm still not over it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend met up with his ex without telling me and the only reason I found out is because I had a gut feeling and asked him a month later and he can't lie. It's been almost a year since and we're still together. And I still kinda don't feel I ...

Is my boyfriends boss coming onto him, or just friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a year now and my boyfriend got another job after being laid off a month ago. This is a small ice cream parlor job, so everyone working there is a three to five years younger than him. During the slow times at the ...