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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do get a person's trust after you have lied about something big?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I want to thank all of those who answered my question and gave me some advise and tips. I post a fallow up on my situation and I really need some more advise. Please go to the posts on oct.20 my online name is hobbie and the post was..I didnt tell ...

5 days ago I said something to my boyfriend that I regret and he hasn't contacted me since

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - A week last sunday I said something to my boyfriend which I really regret and I didnt mean. Everyone gets wound up sometimes and for me I blew and blurted it out. Well since then hes not spoken to me, ive text a few times, called and last night ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't know what love is or if he wants to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need your help. My boyfriend and I got into this big argument/discussion last night and even though we cleared a lot of things up, there are just some things I'd like to get your opinion on. Some things he said still kind of stick out in my ...

Should I stay with my separated man and wait for my happy end, or hit the road after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a bit of a bother here. I'm 26 turning 27 in 6 days and for the past 2 years I have been in love with Ed. Married. We got caught out in August 2008 after 2 months of sneaking around and she has gone mental on him. Calling the police, sayi...

What kind of behavior is toxic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - I've heard people say that a guy is "toxic". Obviously i know that that's a bad thing but what would you class as toxic? What kind of behaviours etc...?...

How can I make my parents understand that I am in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - (I'm 17 and my girlfriendf is now 18, we're each other's 1st love) I'm EXTREMELY annoyed with my parents! Why? Simple they keep on saying that S is my "friend" and that I don't love her I only like her -.-, if I liked her why would I give her a HE...

Do they still have control in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi could someone please help me with this question? If somebody is trying to control you by refusing you something and they probably thought you would chase them for it, then do they have any control over you if you walk away and say ok i will go ...

B/f and I have argued every day since June!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is my best friend,soul mate everythin i ever wanted. when we 1st got together he showed me so much love and care. he always wanted to txt me, see me,be around me. and moaned tht i never gave much bak. i didnt realise untill i read our ...

Each time I mess up there seems to be less love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Sometimes on accedent i hurt my gf and i dont mean too. i never want to hurt her. its the stupid small things that i say that hurt. when she gets hurt i get hurt because i didnt mean to do it or say it. i need to know if were right for each other ...

I want my cheating girlfriend back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happen...

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me in the past and now its hard for me to trust her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is on a space break with me for a week. It happened because i dont trust her with other guys and i am always scared that she will cheat on me or dump me for someone else. She flirted with my best friend and he asked her out to take her ...

We have huge arguments about my husband's best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi there, I would love to get opinions. I am recently married to a wonderful man, and we are very happy except one thing - we have huge arguments about his best friend. I dont want to get into too much detail about his friend,but I think i have t...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relatio...

What should I do about this mess? And how do I get him out of my system for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - I'm writing this as i've been in this situation for too long now, just over a year in fact. I feel like i'm being manipulated and would appreciate any feedback. It all started when i got back in contact with somebody i knew from school, it ...

How can I ever be her special guy when she was a prostitute who slept with 300-400 men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Hi All - this is a follow up question from one of my previous ones - How do I cope with my girlfirends past - those that read my last message will remember that she used to be a bargirl in both the Philippines and Singapore and has admitted to ...

I have a probation officer, should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need help debating on if I should tell my boyfriend, that I have been with for over 5 years, that I recently got charged with stealing from my job. It's been a year or so and I now have a probation officer. I've never been in deep trouble like ...

I think my husband is a sex addict! Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need advice, me and my husband have been married for 15 years and have three kids. He has also cheated on me 3 times and one of the times got thown in jail for it and then three years down the road he cheated again. After the last time he cheated ...

Girlfriend will not treat me as a lover, no sex, kissing, nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I'm i being unfair when i get no physical contact in my relationship, on which i will elaborate. I have been dating my girlfriend now for close to two years. Within that period she has cheated on me. I found out that she was a escort on which ...

I need help getting rid of Mr Gutter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm facing a real dilemna and really need advice asap. This past August I started dating a guy I met at a conference. We instantly clicked and things between us only keeps getting better and better. He's divorced with 2 kids who live with their ...

She has me so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - im really confused i gave my girlfriend some time to think becuase she told me that shes unsure shes happy being in a relationship. Ive given her sooo much space in the last couple of days, but she will tell me she loves me all the time if we dont ...

He wants me to find him a girlfriend ... but what about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Dear ______ I've like this guy for awhile. I met him online but Ive seen him aroundbefore but never talked to him. He went to the same high school i didand graduated same year. I met him once with his friend we talked andhad coffee and made them som...

I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i really like this guy he is so cute but he is already with someone else!!! its so not fair he's noticed me and everything and he allways teases me and talks to me if its fair to say there relationship is coming apart but the girl is my best frien...

He has a girlfriend but I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i am in love with a guy who is in a relationship and i don't know what to do. we can call him J. we went to high school together and spent the second half of our last year together all the time. we kept in touch during our first y...

Does she want to work things out or is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be ...

Need advice on how to be a modern day Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - To have a Mr.Darcy you must first be an Elizabeth... I fear I'm closer to being a Lydia, what a fool I've been. I'm upset at myself for not trusting my instincts and falling for an a**faced jerk. Now I'm trying to maintain my dignity and my sense of...

Second date, still no intimacy, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - So, went on a second date tonight with a girl. It started off well, went to "trivia night" at a bar, she was responsive, pretty indicative that we both are still into each other from the first date... However, as the night went on, it felt li...

I'm uncomfortable with all her male friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and almost 4 months but one thing bothers me and its her guy friends. i only know a few of them that are my friends as well but there a lot i don't know should i be worried? i keep hearing from ...

He never tells me what is bugging him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I love my bf so much we have been together for 3 months but when something is bugging him he doesnt tell me right away because he thinks itll start a fight and sometimes it does but that shouldnt matter if its important right? And it always is to ...

My best friend wants the boys when I like them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - This all started a year ago when I meet this boy I really liked him We became good friends and he liked and we made out couple of times but then my best friend said she liked him too and she also made out with him and she told me to stop talking ...

This situation is so confusing, I don't know what to think anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - hi, i'm a bit confused on how to put this because it's got my head spinning really. i apollogize in advance if i sound a little stupid. for almost a year, myself and my ex from 2 years ago would occassionally meet up and do 'stuff' together...

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - How do i tell him how i feel?? i live with my boyfriend...im 8 months pregnant... the thing is that every time im sad i cant tell him why im sad...we have been through a lot of things together....he change when we started living together. he put...

My boyfeiend keeps going back and forth and I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So i have been with this guy since our 7th grade year and i am now a freshman in college. We had our ups and downs like normal relationships. During our 9th grade year he kept breaking up with me and then 3 weeks later we would get back together. ...

I’m trapped between three guys with no way out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It seems like a life time ago but it was merely two years when I fell in love for the first time with my dream boy (Boy N), however when my best friend turned on me and told him I didn’t run away I started to talk to him. He showed little interest ...

Has my relationship got a chance of lasting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now. In the last five months or so, alarms bells have been ringing; saying somethings not quite right here. I am in love with him. I worship the ground he steps on. I am in full time trai...