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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend has an alcohol abuse problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months is amazing. I love him dearly. But I have started to notice he has an alcohol abuse problem. He does not drink every day but when he does he drinks all day or just enough that he gets really loud, inconsiderate or passes out ...

I punched my boyfriend in the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. We are deeply in love but have a few minor setbacks. Our relationship for the most part is amazing. I have been really grouchy lately and I have also been sick and have a rash all over my body. I ...

What should I do about my boyfriend's controlling sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a sister who supports him financially (she pays for his university, apartment, car and gives him money to live on whilst he studys). She uses this to control him and blackmail him into doing what she wants. The worst thing she'...

How can I stop caring about what my ex boyfriend says to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I still love my ex. I broke it off with him, 'cause he was too jealous. It was tiresome for me. I know he wasn't the one, and that he's a jerk, but I love him, so still, what he tells me hurts me. The thing is, he knows that I've been meeting new...

She never calls me, so I'm thinking I should make the 2 hour drive and go see her! Any input?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hey my question is kind of long so here goes, my girlfriend left town a month ago, she says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnapp'' her. She hasnt ended things or anything of the sort, i on the other hand am trying to get over her but i cant get ...

Since , Mom died, out family has been in crisis! How can I turn things around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My mom died in a drunk driving accident (other guy was drunk) seven years ago when me and my twin were 14 and our younger brother was 11. Our dad has been sober for about a week of the last seven years. Once, when I was 18, my dad told me the only ...

How do I stop 'bailing out' on a guy, after the 2nd date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have a problem. at 21 i have never been in a relationship. i have never kissed a guy, held hands, hugged, or anything else for that matter. it is not because i dont get chances it is because im scared. with every guy i date i end up "running" ...

How can I fix things with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a 1 and 1/2 years. He's the longest relationship I've ever been in (the second longest only being 2 months). We're young (he's 22; I just turned 20), so I don't expect us to be super serious or talking about ...

This new guy online has me questioning my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and we had until recently a great relationship we have a 3 year old son and live together.we have always had a passionate relationship however he has hit me twice(drunk both times)and recently we ...

Complicated and hurtful family mess

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I feel really stupid writing about this, but I would like to get other people's takes on this situation. My 29 year old daughter is "re-marrying" her husband of 10 years. I haven't spoken to either of them in over a year because last year I was ...

I get so upset when he leaves on business!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 18 months has gone abroad for three weeks on a business trip. I get very upset when he leaves usually and he is aware of this. This time in order to stop me getting upset we have been talking everyday. I call him becau...

Will it work if we take it slowly this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - i had my first seious relationship when i was 15 till i was 22 and had my son, i have been single since which now is 5 years, i have had interest from males and had funtimes but never wanted to committ to them, i then on a unexpected night not ...

My boyfriend is acting weird, after I told him I contacted my hospitalized ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - my bf of 2 years is acting weird when i talked to my ex bf. my ex bf was not well couple of weeks n was in hospital. so i called him to hear how he was. told my bf abt this, he started acting weird. he said he is not jealous or possesstive, but ...

I love my boyfriend, despite our rocky relationship, but just can't get Toxic Boy out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Overall its been a happy relationship with a few ups and downs. Over the last few months however, I just havent been happy, its probably longer then that if Im being honest. We were just arguing all the time ...

My parents are putting pressure on me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I had posted about this in a different context earlier. But as days pass on I can't seem to handle this anymore. Please advice. My parents have been with us for a year now for my dad's cancer treatment as they can't do this alone. My mother lack's...

Ask her what went wrong, did I do it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Heya guys and gals, sorry to keep on about my breakup, its been a difficult couple of weeks for me. my parents and sister is away on holiday, so iv got an empty house and a great deal of loneliness, iv not been able to get a great deal of sleep my...

What can I do to get my marriage back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I been married for 3 years now. We had our ups and downs too. we have 1 kid together that is 3 years old, a stepson with her that is 6 years. We been separated for 4 months now and she wont return my messages or anything of the matter. ...

I'm worried we're not having sex often enough and that he's gone off me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - is my boyfriend of 9 months going off me? He hardly ever initiates sex anymore. He's never been a highly sexed person but this past month it's dwindled down to 1-2 times per week. He has brought it up and says it worries him that we're not havin...

Is my ex thinking of getting back with me later on...maybe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - my bf broke up with me about 1 1/2 months ago, we talked here and there since then because I had hard time letting go. Few days ago we talked again, his phone kept dying and he was acting kind of unusual because he was trying hard to call me back a ...

Whenever I want to have a relationship, it never works out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Alright I'm pretty sure this is said quite a bit but here goes... I'm an attractive guy I'm told quite a bit all through high school and middle school. I am always called and sent messages on my phone and facebook about my lady friends wanting ...

S it right to have it end like this... Or should we try at it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - First off, thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this, I really appreciate the help. Anywho, I'm pretty upset right now because my girlfriend and I just got out of yet another argument about an hour ago and I don't know what to do. W...

Sometimes his very touch irritates me. I don't want to have sex with him ... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months or so. We live together... and in a couple weeks we won't be, as I really want my own apartment, and living together was out of convenience. We're both cool with this. So... I don't want to have sex...

I feel like I'm engaged to a 15 year old, and have reconnected with an old friend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiancee for 10 yrs...and I'm only 23. We have 2 children ages 5 and 2. We moved to another state directly after highschool. I do not have any real friends here and have lost touch with many friends from my hometown. During the ...

After 2 days and 100 texts, why did he start ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Ok, So I'm Sixteen, I have never kissed a guy and I am really embarrassed about this. I have had this one particular crush for about a year now. About two weeks ago he told me he liked me and I admitted to liking him. I thought we were going to ...

Do I have to start letting go of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half now. I am completely in love with her and would do anything for her. Last year I went off to university while she was still in high school. Our relationship remained strong and actually got ...

if our daughter wasn't in the picture, I would have been gone long ago.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - So, I feel like I'm in a little bit of trouble. I have a 15 month old child, and over the last year and a half I've felt myself drifting apart from my fiance. We've sort of just figured out that he's depressed, and he's going to go talk to someone ...

Lonely... my boyfriend of two years just moved out, out of the blue!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I am so confused.. my boyfriend of the last 2 years just moved out, out of the blue. We have lived together almost the entire time. We have had some money issues and he is not used to not having extra money to spend. He says he still wants to be ...

Hopelessly still in love with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I am hoplessly still in love with my ex but I have a boyfriend we haven't been together for longg but I feel like I am pushing him away bcoz of it , he is lovely tells me he loves me and would do anything for me but he does have some drink problems ...

My lovely little ball of stress takes out her stress on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I am currently 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have noticed she is an extremely stressed out person. Everything seems so hard for her to do because it usually requires her to complain a little or anger her. As our ...

Is it possible to have this kind of serious relationship in college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been in the same relationship for almost two years. Both me girlfriend and I are 19 and in college full time. We are both in love and devoted to each other. Our problem is that we argue a lot. Typically, an arguments results in her ...