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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal to climax quickly after the first round of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, this is a thing disturbing me and I'll try keeping this question as short as possible. Am 19 and whenever I've sex my first round is like a "quickie". I can bearly last for more than 2 min but the second and third round I can at least last a bit longer compared... (102 words)

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in his car and I gave him a bj ... (139 words)

I'm confused about this girl's actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it. Yesterday, I ran into her again. She r... (129 words)

He "wants to bang other girls"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year at the end of this month. He went on a "rugby tour" with alot of his rugby friends about a week ago, and since then a lot of his people have been saying to me "I just want to bang other girls" now until today I had no idea what ... (313 words)

Am I demasculated pushover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, this is something that plaeged me growing up and especially in my teen and college years. Despite the fact that I love him to death, my Father seems to fit the bill for the "Nice Guy" profile while I grew up in the far more than simply rough necked areas of... (436 words)

How do you cope with not having a proper family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short, I grew up with an abusive single mother (I never knew my dad) and the few extended family members I have always took my mother's side on everything. My siblings are extremely toxic and have done everything possible (even after I got to university, ... (287 words)

How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really keen to meet me too. The problem ... (427 words)

How does one overcome an awful childhood and the lack of a loving homelife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up with a single mother (my dad left when I was very little) and two sisters who dropped out of school due to getting pregnant. I was raised on a council estate, but it was in a really nice little town down South (leaving out the name so no-one recognises me) and I made ... (584 words)

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refuses to show me their chat... (143 words)

My boyfriend says he has no desire for sex because of arguments we've had in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. In the beginning we were very sexual. Now, every time I get near him and touch him intimately, he jerks. He says he does not have the desire for sex. He has issues with finishing. I have my own issues, but they have never stopped me ... (132 words)

He's convinced we're becoming closer. I don't feel that way. So how do I ensure I don't hurt his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator note: please mention the ages of the two boys you have been talking to in your first followup? I'm really stuck.. I've been talking to a boy for a while he said he likes me and I said I like him but I just want to take things slowly, was I don't want a relation... (107 words)

The girlfriend of my boyfriend's mate keeps coming on to my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I feel kind of selfish about what I'm going to say but I really need the opinions of others. I don't like the girl who my boyfriend's friend has been dating. She repeatedly cheats on him with other guys (I know the guys). My boyfriend was talking with her o... (299 words)

I'm worried that my smoking and drinking could delay or event prevent getting pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, so basically what it is is that I really want a baby (so does my partner) I came off the mirena two months ago, I drink on weekends socially but quite a lot and smoke 8-10 cigarettes a day, I know that's awful to do when trying to conceive but due to circumstances ... (161 words)

Should I talk to him again and explain that I want more than FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been about 2years that I met this guy and we were instantly attracted, talked for a few weeks and then had our first "hook-up". I've talked to him two different times that I deserve more, I want more and I don't want to be his "F-buddy"!!! Well the first time didn't p... (295 words)

How do I engage myself on weekends so I wont have time to think and mope and call him and get humiliated by him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My abusive bf dumped me a week ago and im still struggling to move on. I havent contacted him from the day he dumped me. I had work the whole work, hence i didnt have much time to mope on, but since its friday and i have no plans for the weekend and i dont hv any friend... (156 words)

I want my ex to regret treating me badly. I want him to know I am happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My bf and I were on and off so many times. He cheated on me twice and while he studied abroad I found out that he kissed some other girl. I forgave him and gave him a lot of chances. We were in a long distance relationship before I broke up with him. While he's away from me, I ... (214 words)

I have a bad crush on a guy in work and am not sure he feels the same way!! please advise...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge crush on an older man in work. I have been trying to keep it strictly as friendship but the other day he bumped into me and insisted he buy me a coffee so I let him do so v cautiously. Anyway the chemistry in our short conversation was amazing to the point wh... (388 words)

I got fed up of not seeing my BF enough, so I started going out, and now he's going nuts!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I have been dating this guy for around 2 years and never really saw him enough,( I have spoken to him on numerous occasions about this and still he wants it his way ,and no change) so recently have started going out more with freinds and enjoying myself at the we... (459 words)

I've got it bad and don't know what to do with this guy

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17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts and Uncles. I am 19 and had enough of 'Love', I thought this would be the perfect place to rant to you so you could find out where I am going wrong. 19 is a little young for all this heavy talk, but let's face it with 13 year olds having longer relationship sta... (509 words)

Am I naive to hope he'll change his mind about marriage and kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've been with my lovely boyfriend for five years. We want the same thing for our futures but he wants them much later than me. Instead of breaking up about it, we've decided to just take it day by day. I can't imagine being with anyone else. Am I being naive in the hope ... (83 words)

Attempts at sex cause pain and bleeding. This isn't right is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been trying to have sex with my boyfriend and whenever he inserts his penis in my vagina the pain is awful and then I begin to bleed. So as soon as its hurting I ask him to take it out, which he does. I thought once you inserted at least twice the pain would go away? As ... (117 words)

What age do most guys start thinking about a commitment to one person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong that I don't feel like its problem that I don't have a relationship at 23? I feel pressured by my family to find a man that I can get serious with. They see hanging out with random guys as a waste of time unless they have long term potential. (Some of them I hang ... (155 words)

Date asked if we could cut date short then said we'd go out for a drink but when the time came he never responded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a date last week with a guy I met online. We got on well, but after a few hours he said he had to leave to go to a friend's party. He asked me if I was free the next week to go for another drink. I said yes, we arranged to meet on a specific day and before we said ... (112 words)

My girlfriend's friends do not like me. I'm worried it could lead to us breaking up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just get this out in the open, i'm a lesbian... I have been with my girlfriend just over a year, everything has been great apart from a month or so ago when she lied to me by saying she was at home in bed when really she was out clubbing with her friends, anyway I found ... (263 words)

How can I break up with my b/f? He always brings it up that he'll kill himself if I break up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hy!! 7months ago i asked for help to break up with my boyfriend. well every1 asked me to tell him the truth and breakup with him nicely. . here i go I'm still stuck him. . i tld him that i dnt love him nd i even cheated on him with ex bf. and he still wants to be with me. ns he ... (115 words)

LDR boyfriend has no time for me but always has time for his games and his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for a year. My boyfriend is a gamer, he spends most of his time with his friends playing video games all day long. I always feel ignored, i always feel like he'd rather spend his time playing games with ... (231 words)

Should I put it out there that I have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

17 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know I shouldn't be, but I'm really pumped right now, and my head is swimming in possibilities. I've known this girl for 2 years, she was one of the first girls I met at college. I've always thought she was great, but up until about 8 months ago, I was in a very serious r... (650 words)

I like him but I have a boyfriend and now he's acting weird with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known this guy since i was little. He was a very notorious guy, but now he has become very quiet. He's just tryin to get himsef out of the mess he got involved in. Im a very quiet n simple person, i hardly move out of the house, im a medical student. Me and him, are... (343 words)

Guys 20 and up--what's your take on this guys action and what should I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So we are both in our mid-20s and studying the same course at university. We're not friends, but we're friendly- have done a few group assignments together and sometimes talk to each other before class. I honestly have no idea how he feels about me- we only see each other once ... (332 words)

Why is the smell of his cum so strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - After sex if my husband cums inside me afterwards some comes out and if it gets on my panties(specifically lacey ones) it turns the color of my panties. Like bleaching them. Also it smells really strong even when dry. Is this normal what could cause it? Also we've been having ... (109 words)

He said he wanted to be fwb but then gave me the cold shoulder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 yr divorced woman. I have been working with wonderful people and love my job. At work I met a good looking man with a troubled past and is now trying to get his life together. He is very quite and sometimes kinda speaks his mind. He is single, no kids, lives with a ... (281 words)

Lately my boyfriend is always making comments about other chicks. Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know if I am being paranoid but lately I have noticed my boyfriend taking too big of an interest in other chicks, especially when other guys are around. Let me explain. Well we've dated for two years and he has always been very respectful towards my girlfriends. In t... (532 words)

Girlfriend's mom had a health scare and now she drops everything for mom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

17 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF needs some help and I'm not sure what I can do. I've been with her 4 years and everything has been good. We're compatible, we resolve disagreements quick, etc. I'm not going to bore you with a list of how great things usually are... Three months ago, her mom had ... (1115 words)

I'm scared I might be a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I hate telling this, But im in need of a little advice. I'm 15 years old, and have been questioning for a long time now. I dont know where to begin. -I had my first lesbian crush to my 2nd grade teacher. Grade 2-5 i went to a very school private school and there were only ... (390 words)

Sex for the first time. Birth control options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 years old and a virgin. I have been single for two years. During my previous relationships, I wasn't ready or interested in sex, but now I am. I've been dating a guy for a couple months. The relationship is still new, but I want to be prepared for sex if when we become a ... (210 words)

Not crazy about my husband but feel I should stay for the child

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice. i am in a marriage that fell apart. a part of me wants to stay because i have a young child with my husband. my husband and i met when we were 22. we have been together for 20 years. he was my first true love. it has been rocky at times and the past ... (620 words)

He said he wasn't interested in me so why has he started staring?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I send a guy on my class a fb mail. He replied he isnt interested in me. I ignored him totally. One month later I saw this guy looks/stares at me at lectures, sometimes he stares deeply and long at me. Until now we had 15 lectures and he stared at me in 11 lectures... (628 words)

Is he avoiding me because of the blood or because he never really cared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, this is a little long but please do read. This is a bit of a messy situation, literally. Yesterday i interviewed a man who i have a serious crush on, a very sexy handsome man with massive muscles, i sat next to him to take a picture and asked if i could feel his muscles... (446 words)

How can I improve my self esteem after an abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

17 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Long story short, got dumped from a 3 years abusive relationship. My self esteem is record low and im still thinking about ways to get my ex-bf back, haven't acted on it though. I am trying really hard to move on and not think about him at all, but working ti... (182 words)