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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really don't know how to approach my crush

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Basically I am really confused and do not know what to do. I'll give you the basics. Im an 18 year old girl, and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him to bits, he is the kindest and most sweetest person i have ever met. However, recently... (333 words)

Can you get addicted to someone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends male friends has been flirting with me for a while, around 5 months, but i wasn't interested at first, however he kissed me a couple of months ago and since then i've developed some sort of attraction and i'm starting to really like him. I also think i'm ... (141 words)

Did my friends just get tired of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anybody here been through a situation where you've lost your friends or your friends have turned on you and aren't your friends anymore? Over the last couple of months all of my friends started hanging out with another group of people and I guess the best way to explain i... (273 words)

I don't feel as close to my boyfriend as I think I should?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been dating for 4 months. I'm not expecting him to tell me he loves me or anything but I feel very little intimacy with him. He talks about himself a lot and he seems to have a lot going for him. When I actually think a... (313 words)

I let a date get out of hand and now I feel guilty

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So a lot has happened since the last time I was here OBVIOUSLY because I'm 17 now. Not much in the relationship/boy department just life in general... Until last night. SO Sunday, I met this boy. He was the friend of a friend and he asked me for my number. I thought he w... (444 words)

My boyfriend has problems with porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Every now and then I go on my boyfriends computer to use it and sometimes I find screen shots of him skyping with girls who are showing their ass to him and stuff like that. Or conversations of him having "online sex" if you will, with random people he finds off of chat ... (133 words)

He's asked me to be more aggressive during sex. Suggestions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend has been asking me to be aggressive with him while we're having sex. His most recent request "I seriously want you to rape me sometime. Force me to do stuff like that, hit me, scratch me, bite me, punish me. Call me names. Pee on my, but like all over me or or ... (116 words)

Is it worth it to stay with my boyfriend when all his female friend does is start trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm just trying to get some opinions on a problem. Would you say it's worth it to stay in a relationship with a guy when a female friend of his does nothing but start trouble? Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship and I really love him but my boyfriend... (221 words)

I feel guilty because he has a girlfriend, but I kinda want to make out with him again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a party last weekend and I made out with a guy who has a girlfriend. we've been friends for years, he's had a crush on me for most of them years. I told him to stop because he was drunk and had a girlfriend and he replied: 'i'm not drunk and I want to do this and my ... (279 words)

Is it really just that I have terrible luck and that every time we make major plans she has some other important thing come up in her life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - am I overreacting and being unnecessarily suspicious or do I have actual reason to worry here? my gf and I have gone out for 3 years. we're in college together. over the time we've been together, things have been great. we have minor arguments from time to time but they ar... (1107 words)

The internet is part of the blame for my lack in social skills

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I often wonder what would anyone else do in my place I'm 21 years old and through the years of growing up i've done an outstanding job of being socially withdrawn.. losing contact with friends, never having a gf, that sort of thing. I know it's human nature to wanna be l... (221 words)

Is she hiding something from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - For 1 im with a girl together.Everything is alright, amazing actually she never said anything bad about me or my habbits she slept over at my place, she told her parents about me and they dont have anything against it. My problem is: She studys at college in a city (100km a... (214 words)

I'm so down I absolutely love him and have no idea if its mutual please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I honestly don't know what to do I dearly love my friend I didn't mean to but am so in love with him Last year he confided in me he was very unhappy with his girlfriend he said they had a lot of problems and she had emotional issues and he always seemed miserable Please do... (302 words)

Will he ever want a relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy. We have sex and we go out to dinner and to the cinema. Sometimes we just chill and there's nothing sexual to it. He stays at least twice a week and is always cuddling me and kissing me. However he says he's not ready for a proper relationship and it's ... (122 words)

How can I have clean fun at work when my husband works there too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!!!! I work in the same department as my husband and we have been married for three years. However I find one particular man at work very attractive and sweet. He is young and I am so sexulay attracted to him. We talk and work together but I can't help myself but to ... (76 words)

I never get the right guys to date me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a 27 year old lady and I need help, I have never been in a decent relationship like other people. Whenever I am involved with someone it does not last and it ends up shattering my confidence. I always feel like guys persue me just to sleep with me because they alw... (235 words)

What will my ex think of me sending her 2 birthday presents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My long distance girlfriend and i recently broke up a week ago and did not talk or text for the last week. We have recently began casual texting again and I feel like I don't want to lose our connection because she is still very special to me. Its her 40th birthday next week ... (177 words)

I'm scared of having sex because I can't stand pain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i hv been in a relationship up to a year and nw my patner is suggesting we should hv sex and meanwhile am still a virgin. Am afraid it might be hurt like hell becaus i hv never had that kind of experience before in my entire life... (48 words)

Its been a year since our break up and I'm tired of missing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age - Hi, it's been almost a year an am still thinking about her all the time, am the one all my friends ask advise, about their relationships, I can help them but not myself, songs remind me of her, an now seeing women in spring dresses, couples holding hands, seeing people dancing, ... (290 words)

How can I stop obsessing about the fact that my Bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated, on and off from what i can gather. I know its not while he has been with me, but it makes me feel insecure or that he still has feelings for her. How do I stop obsessing about this?... (51 words)

Why now? Why did he tell me he likes me, now when he's going away? Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy since high school and we used to live in the same neighborhood. Four months ago he moved away and since then we had stopped talking, about a week ago he texted me and he told me that's he's going to the army for a year or two and he said tha... (199 words)

This is hurting ,me: I love him and I don't want to lose him. But what to do? He wants to try other girls, not for love, just sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Well I have this problem. And I appreciate you not judging me nor laughing. I have been with my bf for 7 years, we break up several times and lots happened but we still come back to each other because we do luv each other. But lately I’m sensing that he is ve... (456 words)

He has wanted to do phone sex with me almost from the beginning. Now he wants sex face to face. How to discourage him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a student. I have met a boy via facebook 5 months ago..and we started talking by phone as he wanted my number for helping me in my near exam as he was from the same stream as mine and was my senior. In the meantime my ex- boyfriend broke up with me..I was just broken ... (354 words)

My confidence has dropped sharply after constantly being rejected. What's wrong with me? What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel like girls don't like me, because I'm a nice guy. Lately I've thought about it, and some people have told me that I'm way too nice. I'm the romantic type that thinks out dates, and plans cute stuff for anniversaries, and basically does super sweet things. Some girls ha... (194 words)

How can I stop being jealous of her? I just don't understand why everyone goes for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I hate to say this but I find myself really jealous over this other woman, who is friends with my boyfriend. She is very popular with men, and she has dated a lot of people and is very much a big flirt. Every guy and a lot of my friends are all over her. She ha... (215 words)

What to do? I'm in a new relationship. But I want my ex to know that I still have tremendous love (or strong feelings) for my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I've had a new girlfriend now for about 3 weeks, but lately, everything reminds me of my ex girlfriend. I even realized that my new girlfriend has some similar, if not exact features that my ex had. I will admit that I rebounded and quickly got into a relationship... (170 words)

Our sex life diminished after our daughter and now she told me she's not sexually attracted to me, but to her ex instead

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.I am 24 and have been in a relationship with my fiancee for 7 years. We have a 3 year old daughter and since she was born our sex life had started going down hill, I didn't think to much of it at first. Middle of last year my partner started suffering with depression and ... (213 words)

I'm aware I don't love him, but I wonder if I'm being abused

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

8 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22. My boyfriend is 39. Let's call him J. We've been dating for four months now. We just had our first fight. I slapped J's face as a joke and then he smacked my ass. Yes, I know that sounds funny and I probably shouldn't take it seriously but I do. It hurt and I didn't ... (315 words)