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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Wife of many years slept with another man while we were dating and now dealing with it.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, hopefully you can help. My wife and I met in University and when on a date. I then went home for spring break and we spoke every night for hours on end. During these conversations we discussed how many people we had been with, past relationships etc. we have no... (634 words)

Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop something off and that its from him ... (93 words)

How do I make a good impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently have really gotten to know this Girl. She was in a class of mine and we didn't really talk until the end of the semester. We started to hang out more because we were studying for exams. One night we stayed up until five in the morning even though we were not ... (198 words)

I turned her down in the past after she told me she liked me and since then she won't open up around me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Was wondering if you could give advise on a girl I've liked for a long time. We've know each other for about 4 years , we've been on holiday together a couple of times and used to meet up to go to the cinema and out to restaurants, it's always been a fairly platonic ... (389 words)

He stopped talking to me and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So i have this huge crush on this guy. When i found out he's actually interested in many of the same things as me, i just fell in love with him. So about a month ago, he started asking me about those interests and it just felt so embarrassing and all that. He started really ... (189 words)

Should I wait until he contacts me to end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So.. This will be long. I've posted here some questions about my 30yo boyfriend's behavior: - "why does he live with his mom if he's in the military and is supposed to have a pig paycheck" - "why does he always tells the exactly same story about his work, but never really... (874 words)

I feel guilty because I feel needy and unwanted.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A few weeks a go my boyfriend told me I was being too clingy, and he said more recently that I was holding him back and not letting him be himself...(he was saying that I wouldn't let him do things that he would normally do that would get him in trouble or possibly hurt) I ... (207 words)

Confusion surrounding male friend's odd behaviour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and keep this short and sweet but I'm a little confused as to where I stand with a male friend of mine... We're somewhat close (he knows some personal things about me and vice versa and we talk fairly often but we're not extremely close or anything) and whenever we ... (663 words)

He doesn't feel the same as I do, but won't leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this guy from 2 months. We work in the same company. He is younger to me by 2 years. We became good friends in a few days. He came to my house many times. But has never misbehaved. I started having feelings for him. I proposed to him. He rejected straight away saying I ... (153 words)

She had sex with the boy I like. How do I act around her now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy but he had sex with a girl i know she talks to me but she knew i liked him when she had sex with him they arent together but me and him talk secretly and he asked me to prom and also we are going to revise for exams together what should i do ? .......... as... (78 words)

How can I stop feeling so angry at my ex and the girl he cheated with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to make a long post here, but my 4 year relationship ended because my boyfriend cheated on me with another woman. I know it's my boyfriends fault, but I can't help but feel so angry towards her as well. She knew he was in a relationship and didn't seem to c... (143 words)

My friend's wife keeps commenting on my size and weight and its really starting to bother me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a little problem with the new wife of my friend. She is very thin, may be the most 110 lb. she is a bit shorter than me, but her body frame is very small. I am 5.4 and weigh 137 lb. I ve been like this for the past 15 years since I had my daughter. I gained about 20 ... (443 words)

I'm married but it feels wrong to let this woman slip through my fingers!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Possible drama ahead.. I am a happily married man with 3 young children and a loving wife. I am also deeply in love with another, younger, single woman. I'm approaching 40 and so I can understand that this may related to a mid-life crisis, but I truly, for the first time in ... (354 words)

Can a guy who normally has flings change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My question is very simple Can a guy whose never been on more than two dates with a girl,never had relationships only flings and never said 'I love you' till date change? There is this guy I'm seeing,we r not having sex,he asked me out and we have been dating!I'm just sca... (61 words)

Does she like me and how should I act around her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've told this girl that I like her and i think she likes me as well because she didn't say that she did or didnt when I told her but we get along really well shes always smiling at me when we see each other and we talk for hours. we have alot in common and understand each ... (306 words)

Why is he so touchy about talking about our future all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am very nervous to ask anyone about this and my friends are biased so I can't ask them. I have to give a little back story of my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. We have lived together for about 3 1/2 of those years. He proposed to m... (500 words)

We were each others firsts....so why have we stopped having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16 year old boy, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over 5months, at the start of the relationship (first month or two) we had sex afew times, we were both eachothers firsts but as times gone on we have not had sex at all for the past 3 months and ... (117 words)

He obviously likes me, so why doesn't he just tell me he wants me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How does one get a guy who shows many signs of liking them more than just a friend or hookup to ask them out officially? We have known each other a few years. Initially we started as just a college hookup thing when drunk but I got tired of that and met another guy that act... (340 words)

I have a very low sex drive. Please help. Is there anything that could help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi-I LOVE my fiance so very much. We both have full time jobs and two dogs that take up a lot of our time ). I have no self esteem issues what so ever, I a very confident person. Our relationship is very lovey and we truly are in love- never argue over the sex thing, it is mo... (322 words)

Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit down and guilt stricken. Do ... (228 words)

Any tips? I'm meeting his parents. I'm more worried about what is going to come out of my mouth

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) age 26-29 - After 10 months my bf has finally plucked up the courage to ask me to a meal with his family on Monday night after school for his 15th birthday I am petrified. I have only smiled at his mum through a car window and never spoken to his mum or his dad properly, I have met his ... (130 words)

Am I correct, that she's using me? I'm so depressed and stressed because of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I have this friend whom I've known for years. She has always been so bossy and always trying to control my life. I've reached a point where i can't take this anymore. She's very selfish, only thinking about herself. She calls me up every single day just ... (366 words)

How do you talk to a girl you don't know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - How does someone get into a relationship when he has no friends? I've tried talking with girls on these social online sites but i find it awkward trying to start a conversation online with a person i've never met. I mean how do people do this?...they just go like "hi..h... (142 words)

Why? Every time my Gf ask me for help I usually agree. But then she changes her mind at the last minute. How can I deal with my confused feelings about her rescinding the request?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - so i'm pretty sure i'm doing something wrong but i need some advice... so the thing is, both my girlfriend and i have a disability, and neither of us is able to drive a car. suppose my gf needs something. like, she's busy and doesn't have time to walk to the store hersel... (515 words)

Why doesn't my husband want us to stop living with his Mom and get our own place? He says we can't afford it. Should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been living with his mom for 2 years. We have 2 small kids. I wanna get our own place but he doesn't want to. He has a 2012 chrysler 300 c that he got a year ago and a 2007 pick up he got 5 months ago. He says he doesn't have enough money to get our own ... (117 words)

Have made no new friends in this new place.Would it be better to stay here and continue with my job, and hope things get better? Or move back with my Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for reading. I will make it as brief as possible :) I'm 20, and have been in a long distance relationship for around 4 months. Previously was living with my boyfriend (25) but have moved interstate to live with my mum for awhile. I found a full-time job, car an... (122 words)

He asked for my number. He's been showing up where I usually go to at school. Are these good signs that he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend whom I've known for years. We go to the same school but we don't have any classes together this year. We used to talk all the time. But we got drifted apart. However, just recently, he asked me for my number again, saying how he lost all his contacts whe... (167 words)

I hate my boyfriend being friends with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 3 years. I have a major problem and I hope I won't be judged or get hurtful comments about what I am going to say. My boyfriend is friends with a girl who lets say...sleeps around..a whole lot. Now I understand p... (303 words)

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was "spiked" and she claims she ... (128 words)

Would this help? My therapist thinks being intimate with a woman like a prostitute would help me with my social anxiety

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, so I've got two years on the 40-year-old virgin, even though nobody's made a movie about me yet. I am plagued my social anxiety, am withdrawn, and have gone on many first dates but few second ones. My long-time therapist actually believes that being intimate with a wo... (169 words)

Could my boyfriend of two months be cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4243 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship for 2 months only, the beginning was amazing but last 2 weeks i feel like my boyfriend got bored from me or he found someone else .. i bought him a new phone and he began to know everything about instagram and other applications and since then he have ... (197 words)

I will delay going out with him until I'm 15. But my question is, is 2 years too big of an age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So I've met a guy at a group I go to. We both clicked instantly. We both love books, poetry, politics and basically are quite nerdy. We have the same sense of humour and always make each other laugh. If anyone in the group makes a joke, we always look at one another when we ... (245 words)

I want a man who wants me and wants to have children.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 15, I got into a 3-year long relationship with a then 17 year old boy. The first year was great and yes, I lost my virginity to him (he did not lose his to me). But then he went off to university five hours away and we only saw each other on holidays and one weekend ... (655 words)